Why Do You Hobby?

am-a-pleaser's Avatar
Its about new sexual experiences and getting to know someone new and interesting. The mutual trust and non-judgemental attitudes are refreshing. When the lady I'm with enjoys her time with me and the way I make her feel, I leave feeling good. I'm also probably a sex addict, so I can spend lots of time and money in therapy to overcome it, OR I can spend time and money indulging it. The latter is more fun!

I love all kinds of new experiences, not just in the hobby. The hobby allows me to meet ladies who are open to new things as well. Age, race, size, looks, personality, background all seem to get set aside to enjoy each others company. There's the fantasy side is indulged.

I've had the pleasure of have a couple of previous girlfriends that were open to experimentation, learning and teaching. I learned a lot very well. I use those sexual skills whenever I'm with a lady, always taking her preferences into account.

The hobby allows me to see beautiful ladies, enjoy their touch, enjoy touching them, watch their reaction to the touches. Take them to a little fantasy as well. I have many more reasons, but that would be a book. I also meet some women not in the hobby. It's all good.
Kaci, there is a definite shortage of women who understand how much their man needs sex and are willing to do whatever it takes to satisfy that. This is amazing to me, too, because it really takes so little time and energy on her part, esp compared to what most guys are willing to do for their family.
then I looked at Kaci and Macydays showcases and the answer was simple. I hobby because it allows me to have sex with women as beautiful as these ladies when ordinarilly there no way that would happen. if either of these girls lived near Buffalo ny and i had the chance to have sex with them wow life would be great.Ive seen kaci's pics a few times and knowing that for a couple od\f hard earned bucks i could be inside her wow could life be any better. any congrats to you Texas boys enjoy her
Ok so i know why i hobby I love sex and get board with the same partners all the time so this gives me the chance to experience as many partners as i choose to and have as much sex as i want to. Theres also something about the lust factor that gets me every time. So what are you guys reasons for hobbying? Really im intrested in your answers ladies included. Originally Posted by Kaci Snow
Crash Davis's Avatar
I'm probably not like most guys on here, I am single and was just tied of the dating scene so I told myself I was going to take the year off and have fun with one or two girls with no strings. Lucky, for me I found an exceptional lady right out of gate and never had to look for a second. While it has been touch and go, it is still better than the stress of full time 55 hour job then searching for Miss right in my limited free time. My time is so limited that "the hobby" in sorts fits perfect with my needs and desires, feeling special by a very beautiful lady with some amazing skills. Only draw back thus far is you know this person is there for the money so I have to keep it in perspective. So not sure if you can call me "in the hobby", I just stopped with one special lady.
Cheaper2buyit's Avatar
Because when I do them real good I don't feel bad that I don't call them again. I have a problem when I cum my dick wont get go soft so I am stuck doing it longer than I need too but the ladies like it.
I have a problem when I cum my dick wont get go soft so I am stuck doing it longer than I need too but the ladies like it. Originally Posted by Cheaper2buyit
I have the opposite problem, and believe me, your problem is better.

My problem is twofold: I cum quick, and I go soft. 15 minutes is waaaay too much time.

I hobby because it's not too embarrassing. I think the providers laugh behind my back, but that's ok. I don't have to live with it.
I hobby because I'm a 'giver' (literally!) and I feel appreciated for what I do; the ‘benefits’ are great too.

Also, it's a HUGE THRILL to be sucking a total stranger’s cock 5 minutes after I meet him.
OMG Amy I so totaly agree. Theres something about that that just does it for me. LOL
  • MrGiz
  • 04-17-2010, 04:55 PM
I am a Lucky Dawg... I have an SO at home who will drop her undies (if she's wearing any) to the floor with barely a nod and and a wink! But I am a dawg who wants to piss on any bush I want. The hobby allows me to have unrestricted sex with outstanding women of my choice, who wouldn't ordinarily give me the time of day!! I Luv Variety!!

Giz , The Lucky Dawg!
I am a sex addict
all our lives we are told not to focus on what we cannot have, well im focusing on what i can. besides where else are you going to get an opportunity to live like a star and be treated like a king without the headaches and strings that go with it?

to be bad....of course

tiger woods follower....?
I am a sex addict Originally Posted by ogt92
Sex Addiction has been removed from the international pathological catalog as a diagnosis. so what you hear on telly is life style fascism hype.

all our lives we are told not to focus on what we cannot have, well im focusing on what i can... Originally Posted by windowshopper
the problem is, that some providers pretend availability, but have 'screening issues' and the audacity to fish for protected information and then call for moderation when the issue is brought up.

rule #1 in this type of service is discretion.
having a fetish with records and collecting protected information basically kills the business for otherwise viable clients.
Apollo!'s Avatar
One word comes to mind: Variety
For confirmation of the existence of the best that lies within us. To assist in my own evolution. To meet new and interesting people whose company I enjoy. To experience beauty and joy. To contribute good will.
Gonzo DFW's Avatar
I have some money and I like to fuck a woman who really wants to turn it on, for money or because she just likes to grind, or both.