Guys- you're not gay but you fantasize about giving blow jobs

I'm not gay....like I don't think about fucking dudes, getting fucked by them, kissing them, etc. but I've always fantasized about sucking a guy's dick. Not just any guy's but a somewhat attractive guy with a really big dick. Originally Posted by barnstorm

The part that confuses me is that you are not gay, but the guy has to be:
A. Attractive and
B. Have a really big dick

If you are not attracted to men, why does he need to be attractive?

Hmmm...maybe he is gay, because every straight guy I know, given the chance, will screw any gal, no matter what she looks like. It's like riding bitch on a buddy's bike, when they need a ride. They may not admit it later. But, they'll do it.

(I was gonna say riding a moped. But, these young guys like their Vespas)

"You can build a hundred bridges and no one calls you a bridge builder.....but suck one cock and you're forever known as a cock sucker." Just sayin.

I wonder how your SO would take the news? "Honey, I'm not gay, but I really wanna suck a man's dick!" Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Probably not much worse than "Honey, I'm on a whore site and fucking whores for cash".

OP, what about Grinder? I understand that's a hookup site for gay people, maybe like Tinder. I think I saw it on an HBO or Showtime sex show. Maybe that would work.

Personally, have never thought about being with a guy in any way, BUT, I do enjoy watching cuckold porn among others. When it comes down to it, though, don't think I could act any of that out.

Sucking a she-male considered gay? Originally Posted by PetrusMaximus

Absolutely gay

A male sucking, thinking about, fantasizing, fucking...anything remotely sexual with another male is...gay.

If you're not in denial it seems pretty clear to every other guy here.

I'm not really worried about semantics of whether I might be gay or not. More curious as to whether or not any of you guys have had this notion, and actually gone through with it. Originally Posted by barnstorm

So, you're shopping for other guys who also like to suck dick.Yeah, nothing gay about that...

If your wanting to suck another man dick!! You got some sugar in your tank buddy. Gay has hell. Once that dick goes in your mouth you are committing a Gay act.

Sucking a she-male considered gay? Originally Posted by PetrusMaximus

I thinck the Texas Legislature is debating that one ... but yes.

OP is definitely gay. Not that there's anything wrong with that...lol

Not judging since there are activities and fantasies I have enjoyed with women that other hobbyists might find distasteful but to your specific thread topic: if looks like duck, quacks like a duck and, in this instance, tastes like a duck.....it's a fucking duck.

My old boss told me, "I have never sucked cock, I am afraid I might like it."

Seems an appropriate comment to this thread

Dude, man, just go out there and pull a stud out from a club or the street and suck his cock like you imagine it.

If it feels good, tell us how and why you like about it.

Don't struggle anymore, help a guy out and release that tension inside him.

LOL

Dude, man, just go out there and pull a stud out from a club or the street and suck his cock like you imagine it.

If it feels good, tell us how and why you like about it.

Don't struggle anymore, help a guy out and release that tension inside him.

LOL Originally Posted by PetrusMaximus

Yeah. Do what he said and report back.

/No Not Really

//Why did I look at this thread again??

If your wanting to suck another man dick!! You got some sugar in your tank buddy. Gay has hell. Once that dick goes in your mouth you are committing a Gay act. Originally Posted by bulldog man

OK let me put my progressive liberal Obama professorial like hat on. I have a lot of female friends of all races that are either bi-sexual or just gay (meaning they dont fuck guys). There's one hellified sexified American Asian friend of mine I'm trying to turn straight or bisexual lol

we debate shit alot and she's of the opinion that a single gay act doesn't make a person gay. So she tried to explain it this way. she said if she were to fuck me one time that would not make her straight because she identifies as gay because of her lifestyle and conversely if a dude fucked another dude one time that wouldn't make him gay because of his straight lifestyle...however, it would be that he committed a gay act.

I told her it was all semantics in a sense but from a debating point of view I could see her point. so would the OP be gay? based on her logic I'd have to say no...is he bi-sexual? the answer is clearly yes. Apparently there's a clear distinction between gay and bi-sexual. Most of my lesbian friends that are bi I can fuck all day long but the ones that identify as gay won't fuck me at all.

if the OP fucks women and men he's bi if he fucks only men he's gay...and only women then straight. that's the distinction.