Just another reason for you to talk shit

So, by your logic, inmates who were convicted of a crime with intent can never fully blame the other inmate for rape? Think about it, the criminal makes a conscious decision which leads him to jail and, but for that ill-fated decision to commit that crime, he wouldn't have been raped by Bubba. Stupid, stupid post. Originally Posted by gt27
No that's your logic...
But in that situation if you did the crime and were convicted?
Who do you blame?
If you were an innocent man that was wrongly convicted and raped the blame could go elsewhere.
Just as if she were raped in the bushes of a shopping mall, instead of willingly incapacitating herself and putting herself in the position in the first place!
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I'm not sure if this was addressed because tl;dr, but were you drugged while drinking or simply blacked out because of intoxication? This is definitely still rape, but just curious. You should press charges.
Look Vida.. I don't condone rape in any form and especially a passed out girl. I was not there so only you two know. Yes he is my friend and we do take care of Any ladies that are around. You are jumping to way to many conclusions and accusations concerning other people without any proof. If its pid ur pissed at then be pissed, don't bunch people together whom were not there. So your reasoning is charge him with money BC u think the law won't. Lol, absurd... It seems as though you have emotional issues on this and I am sorry, but when you blast an issue like this and the other party does not tell his side then its just you and its not like your miss goodie too shoes.I would think this should be a lesson or a wake up call in and out of the hobby. Maybe its time to not drink at all, it seems like all of us to cloud your memory and judgment. Right or wrong Vida I do feel bad for you. But as for me rape is a horrible thing and I never condone it.
No that's your logic...
But in that situation if you did the crime and were convicted?
Who do you blame?
If you were an innocent man that was wrongly convicted and raped the blame could go elsewhere.
Just as if she were raped in the bushes of a shopping mall, instead of willing incapacitating herself and putting herself in the position in the first place! Originally Posted by rockerrick
Ricky Boy-

Re-read OP's post(s) again carefully.
There was a certain amount of "trust" between her and PID.
Whether he slipped her a mickey,or she got shit faced,what happened was wrong.
No wonder ladies from here won't see you.
Not that you could afford it...
Look Vida.. I don't condone rape in any form and especially a passed out girl. I was not there so only you two know. Yes he is my friend and we do take care of Any ladies that are around. You are jumping to way to many conclusions and accusations concerning other people without any proof. If its pid ur pissed at then be pissed, don't bunch people together whom were not there. So your reasoning is charge him with money BC u think the law won't. Lol, absurd... It seems as though you have emotional issues on this and I am sorry, but when you blast an issue like this and the other party does not tell his side then its just you and its not like your miss goodie too shoes.I would think this should be a lesson or a wake up call in and out of the hobby. Maybe its time to not drink at all, it seems like all of us to cloud your memory and judgment. Right or wrong Vida I do feel bad for you. But as for me rape is a horrible thing and I never condone it. Originally Posted by Mata Leon
"...and the other party does not tell his side..."
He needs to step the fuck up and reply.

"Yes he is my friend..."
Tell him to step the fuck up and reply.
Ricky Boy-

Re-read OP's post(s) again carefully.
There was a certain amount of "trust" between her and PID.
Whether he slipped her a mickey,or she got shit faced,what happened was wrong.
No wonder ladies from here won't see you.
Not that you could afford it... Originally Posted by Observing
You're an idiot if you actually believe I have a problem affording or getting ladies to see me. hahahaha what a dumbass.
When you say ladies on here don't want to see me... You really mean YOU don't want to see me.
Don't hate me because I'm beautiful... and you're an unexpectant mother who can no longer be the whore she was!


I have never once condoned what happened or disagreed with it being wrong.
But I do say the majority of blame goes to her alcohol irresponsibility.
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She Said:

So this is dedicated to the asshole who thought it was ok to have his way with me (Months Ago) once I was intoxicated and asleep. This is also to the shit starter who I vaguely confided this to, no names used, who thought it would be a fun topic to put out there, even after I told her I just wanted to forget it and not to bring it up, who also seemed to find pleasure in watching people take sides, alienate and ridicule me. This is also to the bitch that decided that she would call me a liar, and side with the asshole and then try to fight me.

Can you guys, and all of your friends with an opinion go about your lives hobbying, fucking and sucking instead of taking the time out to try to discredit me to anyone who will listen. Spreading rumors, hate and discontent. Calling me crazy lol. Funny, didn't know everyone else was there that night to feel so entitled and sure that they're right. Funny, that I had heard things of this nature happening before to others who ended up having interactions with this group. Funny, how someone needs to eliminate "competition" by starting this mess. Funny, how one needs to be in the spotlight, and attention by being the one who sticks up for men even if they are dead wrong. Funny, how this same situation can happen to others, and your friends but then it's all "boo-hoo, fuck him girl, I'm here for you" then lol. Funny, how I decided not to put myself in that situation again, nor be around such B.S., but folks love to pretend it's more than that, and exaggerate details. Funny how my clients tell me how much shit you talk about me lol. Months later and you guys still hate me that much lmao. Y'all want something to talk about, here. Y'all are going to talk anyways it seems. I never brought this up before because when I did bring it up vaguely at a meet to discuss renting possibilities, I brought it up without using names only because it was bothering me, and I had no-one to really talk to about it, who could understand. This person took this information and put it out there to purposely start shit. The thing is, I'm so through with this shit talking lol. I know y'all are trying me on purpose. I can see through yalls elementary tactics though. Y'all will try to say everything you can to get someone to side with you and it's pathetic. Especially the females involved. Ask yourself why you are trying to take sides against something that has nothing to do with you and you weren't there to act as if you are so sure and right. Who are you trying to impress and be accepted by? Lol and I hope you don't feel that threatened by my presence enough to really call someone in my situation a liar. If you want to be liked and have the spotlight, feel free. But don't start telling people who are dealing with situations such as mine that they are liars and spreading your hate and discontent just so you can get more likes. To the guys who side with the asshole, do tell me what your getting out of the situation by taking sides with a liar lol....? Anywho, I'm done with this rant. I already know there will be so much hate on this thread and so many more attacks on me. So before you get to typing, calling me crazy and other names, ask yourself what it is you're getting out of it. When you try to take the topic away from the facts by trying to discredit me and skew people's view on me, it honestly shows how much you don't want people to hear the truth. I purposely left everyone unnamed in this thread BTW. Why?!? Because as it has already been shown, if it comes to light, that someone would take advantage of someone, some females will choose to not believe you, in hopes of pleasing the crowd of male onlookers and eliminating competition I suppose. Secondly the person responsible for such despicable acts will be put on a pedestal with the other males and protected by those who agree with his actions and need to feel accepted in this community. Thirdly I don't need to name names, because after I post this, I'm sure those people will probably lash out and make themselves known.

I also apologize to the people who think some of my screening is a bit much. Due to these events and others I have experienced before and since then, I take extra precautions in who I choose to see, especially with newbies. Also safety and cleanliness have always been a big thing to me, I do realize since these events I have gotten a bit more anal about it all, lol. It's a good thing, but can be a burden at times I know. Please understand that though I chose to not talk about this situation and pretend everything is ok, it still became apparent in my obsessive way of making sure all time spent was done safely and clean. Also it has made me a tad bit more cautious and anxious when meeting someone for the 1st time. So to anyone who was wondering about these changes in me, I hope this thread can clear it up. Also before you decide to burn me at the stake, please know I have never hurt or done anyone wrong in this hobby. Nor do I wish to be in this B.S. drama. This thread is to put it out there for those who can't seem to stop bringing it up and talking about it. I feel since this is going around, I should put the truth out there, since I'm never around to add my input anyways. Maybe after everyone attacks me some more, you can move on. That's what you want right....for me to be attacked more and ridiculed right? Well here's a thread for you to finally, openly do it. Now you can go heat up your tea. -xo Originally Posted by La Vida
HE SAID:

Default LaVida's im a victim thread.
I actually chose not to comment in LaVida Im a victim thread until she mentioned my handle. She obviously required a response from me. So here it is.

The event written by LaVida are not accurate.

I believe my comment on this review motivated her post.
https://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?t=2016737
There was some additional comment in private tag that was shared with LaVide. She mentioned it in the beginning of her post.

I met LaVida on 4 occasions.

The First time was at a social. That social lead to a after party near 183 and Burnet rd with karaoke. It was a fun night with a lot of flirting. LaVida and I were the last to leave. I was walking LaVida to her car and she hinted several times that fucking would help sober her up. I could tell she wanted p4p. But she opted to fuck me in my car as long as I didn't tell anyone. She sucked and fucked me in my car. Then we went our separate ways.

The second time was January 11, 2017 was at a private social. This social was at a private residence. Throughout the night I was given a lots of attention by LaVida. Including (PDBJ) public display of a blow job. As this social wind down. LaVida and I had extreme foreplay on the couch. Ffireman was invited by LaVida on two separate occasions to join in, he declined. At some point we made our way to the bedroom. We fucked in the bedroom and did round 2 in the living room (Cfs). LaVida and I left this resident around 5:30 in the morning and went our separate ways. Again, I was ask not to tell anyone about our encounter.

- I did receive a pm the next day I would love to share.

The third time was January 14,2017. LaVida wanted my number again. So I made contact with her. We talked and decided to do dinner. LaVida's hotel was located near Mopac and Capital Texas Hwy. I live near Mopac and Duval. The Domain is between us. So as you can tell we a mins from each other. We did dinner at around 7:30pm. While at dinner we had a very interesting conversation about her. Over the course of our dinner we had 2 drinks each.

We later went to a bar in the Domain. We had 2 drinks each there. While drinking our first drinks and playing some table games. LaVida met 2 guys. She went over to them for about 5mins. I let her know if she wanted to hangout with them it was cool. She declined. She later let me know she was going to get a "package" from them. I didn't ask what it was. Some time has pass. We are now on our second drink and the guys summoned her over to them again. She leaves for about 4mins then comes back. By now its around 12:30am and we leave the bar then head to her hotel.

On arrival she invites me up to her room. Once there she goes straight to the restroom. I didn't think much of it other then I didn't hear the toilet flush. LaVida comes out and offers to make us drinks. We took maybe 2 sips. Before I knew it all of our cloths were off and she was sucking my dick. Next, the cover and we are fucking. At some point she is using her vibrator. We finish, I dump the condom and we fall asleep.

I wake up several hours later to use the restroom. I climb back in the bed in the spoon position. My dick is up agains her ass. I reach around and start playing with her clit. From there I continue to finger her. I can hear her soft moans and she starts pressing her ass against my cock. Now, Im whispering in her ear how wet and juice her pussy has become. I then reach for a condom put it on and continue to whisper how i want my cock deep inside her. LaVida moves her leg and we are fucking in the spoon position. She is moving her hips and ass until I finish. I then rip the condom off and though it on the floor. I go back to sleep.

The next morning I get up and get dress. We are talking about last night and how wet she got. I tell her we should have had morning sex, she agreed and start laughing. LaVida could not remember what she did with the vibrator. As she looking she sees the condom on the floor and ask me to dispose of it, so I do.

This is when it got strange as I was about to walk out the door. LaVida said " You are not my boyfriend. Why do you think its ok to fuck me". I was like, are you serious? Really, you are the one who invited me up here to fuck you. I then said, What the fuck is your problem. I then turned and walked out the door.

later that day I received this text-

" So last night I was pretty fucked up...disregard and forget everything I said Lol or at least please don't tell anyone the stuff I told you "

Im thinking Ok, She realize she was tripping. I later ask her if she's going to the social in Killeen/Temple. I did not get a reply.

The forth time was at this social in Temple/Killeen.This was later in the month of January. I was there and LaVida shows up. She never spoke a word to me. So I'm like ok no problem. But, when I was about to leave she ask Ffireman to get me. I ignore the request. LaVida comes out and say I need to talk to you. We can do it here in front of everyone or step outside in the back. I am totally confused. Sure we can talk. We go to the backyard. LaVida, say she felt taken advantage of and that Im not her boyfriend. Im thinking, what the fuck is wrong with her. I know Im not her boyfriend and don't want to be her boyfriend. By now I starting to think there is something else she wants.

So I ask, what is it you want from me? LaVida reply was .......... you can pay me my hour rate. I looked at her, turned around and left the social to head back to Austin.

I later went to a well know social in North Austin. Upon my arrival I had 3 different providers inform me LaVida was saying I Raped here. I was like, are you serious? Then they informed me of everything she had said.

I have no ideal why she is taking this approach. Other than to get the sympathy from other providers and her ass kissing Wks . We all know once a provider screams rape. Everyone want to pile on and give advise. That is not what happened and she knows it.


I have all the texts to verify what I am saying. I am aware that LaVida has deleted parts of our text conversations in an attempt to validate her claim. As you can tell by my post there a lot of pertinent detail left out.
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I never thought of playing in the dark as a rapist or his friends as rapist enablers. Damn. There definite legal recourse here. Also ladies watch out for the rapist crew.
"...and the other party does not tell his side..."
He needs to step the fuck up and reply.

"Yes he is my friend..."
Tell him to step the fuck up and reply. Originally Posted by Observing
Oh, he stepped up; and he stepped knee deep in the shit. He admitted there was no consent. He admitted that she was incapacitated. He admitted to having sex with her despite her providing no consent and her incapacity.

Of course, he obviously didn't think he was admitting his crime. He attempted to disparage her in his response, but damn, he admitted to the crime instead.
He did not. He said she into it. Are you assuming her eyes were closed?. Quit assuming shit. At no time did she say stop. That is where a crime is committed. Check the laws fool.
I'm supposed to say stop while asleep? lol
Damn you must be a genius Mata, I think you have just found the loophole of the law every rapist has been searching for!!! If you catch her asleep, it's not rape because she never said no right?!? Lol wowwww, but do tell when I gave consent oh wise one....?
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Dude must have a micro-dick?

Still, that's some no-account cock socking rat bastard piece of shit low life shit. Has anyone called the cops yet?
So basically after you guys banged and fell asleep you said no more fucking right?. You digging deep on a grey area girl. I just see some drunk asses fucking.I think my first thought is correct. Your upset because of lack of payment. You have to make that deal prior. Afterwards does not count. LA Vida you can blame whom ever but I will bet you money that there are many women on here that would agree PID does not have to rape anyone. No one at any of these parties do. I think you just made a bad judgment. Far from rape but closer to a life lesson. And if you did not know Pic was banging you then you were in a coma. Many have said he is not small so??? We that is where its he said she said. He said you were wide awake and you say u were not. Just curious that after you guys just fucked why all of a sudden you did not want too? Obviously you knew u were fucking because you posted it prior to him agreeing to it. Why not stop him when u were aware?. This is a weird issue because women passed out and being raped ( which is ablow life move) don't remember from statistics out there. I assume you made that fuck me all night deal after the bang and staying over. I don't recall ever asking a girl I picked up to fuck again we just make out and it happens. If a women says no its no that's it. This is such a he said she said that claiming rape is far fetched. Jmo but come on girl you have to take some responsibility
He did not. He said she into it. Are you assuming her eyes were closed?. Quit assuming shit. At no time did she say stop. That is where a crime is committed. Check the laws fool. Originally Posted by Mata Leon
He opened his big mouth and admitted his crime. He thought that he would cast a bad light on her, but he couldnt keep his yap shut. Keep defending him if you want, but his actions are reprehensible.