I was on a plane with a nimrod phD historian, whose central thesis was that he taught alternative thinking and analysis(not the search for facts). It was a long flight, and we had a vigorous discussion. At the end, he made the statement that I "hated" a certain group of people(not race or religion).
I told him that was an idiotic statement. I am/was worried about my family's children's future, and he was imposing an orwellian future on them.
My definition of hate includes the wish of ill will upon those people who it is pointed at. That is as far from the truth as can be imagined.
So, you categorize the wish to prevent a calamity being poured upon the heads of the younger peoples heads as hate. That says a hell of a lot more about you than me.