What I'm curious to know is how much time the lady spends thinking and planning the trip to that region. Does she think how, when, how long, wet, not as wet, etc., while screening, while showering and dressing, while driving, while connversing with her friend on the sofa. Just how much time does she spend? Or does it just come naturally without much thought?
Originally Posted by scorpio31
When a person is good at something they don't ahve to think about it that much... it is only when they're not good at all that they invest a lot of time and energy honing their skills. When you're good... really good... you can just feel what's right and what's wrong, what needs to be changed and what needs to stay consistant. Every person is different so coming in with a medition on how you want to do things will only lead your partner to disappointment. Go in and feel what needs to be done and change when you need to. A good provider is like water... you pour water into a vase, it becomes the vase. Water doesn't think, it just responds.