change$$$$ for the better in nola

LOL Chella... My thoughts went to Chris Rock too!

I myself would have no problem putting up $$.5 - $$$ for a well reviewed, reputable male provider as long as he offered me what I wanted... Attractive, clean, nice location, some pampering, massage and a hard pounding.I would consider it my special treat to myself and would save up for it if need be. I would more than likely pass on him if his rates were less because I would wonder why he valued himself so low.. Drugs? Bad rep? Desperate for cash for whatever reason? If his rates are higher per hour ($$$.5 - $$$$) I would expect a rockin bod, even more pampering, champagne and a 4 star location

But as stated above "Dick is free" and even the most unattractive girl can get laid because there will always be some poor broke sap who needs to dip his wick somewhere. It is generally much easier for a woman to flip the switch to off then it is for a guy to and we can abstain for longer periods as well which is why there are waaay more male hobbyiest then female... The market just isn't there.

I guess I cant really say because Ive never had to pay for it, but if I could just find one man who could get me off orally the right way then hell yes, it might be worth it. I wouldnt care what he looked like, just as long as he listens to me when I say "stay right there, dont stop, dont move, stay to the left" WTF they always try to get fancy with it and I get frustrated! haha. OK so maybe I lied, I do care what he looks like....but everyone has their own desires. For example, what I find attractive may not be what April likes, so where Ill pay a good bit, well she wouldnt. Different strokes, and I cant place a value on her desires, thats a personal preference. But Dave, to answer your question....would I pay $$$$, sure, why not, as long as he was what I personally desired, clean, and not some low class piece of ass, and took directions on how to please ME!

And April I met these 2 hotties at a local dive close to you, wink wink. I got it FREE! LMAO!

I think we are talking about different experiences here. If someone just wants to fuck they can get that pretty cheap. If you're looking for more than that you should expect to pay more and I am and do. Along with the price should, and I say should, come more of a personal experience in a better atomosphere and yes you would expect the provider to be somewhat more attractive. And I will be the first to admit beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are some knock out beauties out there for a very reasonable price but then gfe probably isn't on the menu. I guess it's like buying a car, just depends how you want to ride. Glad Toto went home.

Thank YOU Laoil....that sums it up without out getting too deep into it.

hmmmmm guess I need to raise my donation rates??? That way no one will think i am a "drugged out crack whore"...lol!!{So next week look for higher rates...lol!!!}



I think I offer a "helluva rocking good time" just as much as a higher priced girl....READ MY REVIEWS......I just believe in keeping it at a reasonable rate so the average joe can have fun too!!! That way its more than "just about money" for both of us....I do very well here in Nola already!!

Yall higher priced girls keep yalls rates high and I will take care of those average joes who cant afford yall...lol!!!

To further hammer in my point about the bars, I've officially never gone home with a random dude that I met at a watering hole ever... and, well, I'm a hooker. Ha ha. Originally Posted by Jacquie

If you bothered to discect my post instead of just assuming I was being degrading, you would have clearly seen that "I" was the one taking up for the girls being put down?? You don't have a mortgage, you don't have tons of bills, you don't have CHILDREN TO FEED, therefore you can live on very little, that's not the case for most women today. I have no clue how old you are but I am nowhere near even 30 and already have an established career and family that I have to take care of on my OWN. If you want to charge what you do and don't mind seeing 3 guys a day like you stated, that is on you, but not all of us want to see that many clients. I said I didn't see how anyone could live on 3 grand a month because I don't know ANYONE who does without struggling. It's not a put down, it's the freaking economy. 3 grand five years ago maybe, but today you can't even pay a decent house note for that with the recent flood insurance we HAVE TO have.

When you say the higher market is doing poorly I am not sure where you are getting your facts from, as you would have to actually have the payroll on each and every girl in the biz. It is a fact they are seeing less clients of course...that's the whole point of the higher rate. I never said that it was a fact that girls who charge less were necessarily seeing more guys; however, if they both wanted to make the same amount of money per week, they would have to. What I sid was if "I" charged only 200, "I" would have to see 20 a week just to pay my bills and live the way I want to. It is simple math. At 400 an hour one would only need 3 a week to pull in close to five grand a month. Why would they want more than that, unless again their bills were high like many of us. I know girls who NEED to make 10 grand a month just to live the way they want, and they charge 5 0r 6 an hour(not here of course), and they make that every month on very few a week.

Not all of us here are just playing around and in college for the first time. Most of us have already gotten degrees long ago and are working moms with a ton of bills. If we want to use this as a way for extra money, that is no different than you using it to get through school and live low rent if you so choose. Everyone has a different story, and I am not the one making judgements. I find it amusing how biased you are when you just chuckled at another post putting down a top 10 of girls in "your" price range. Rather contradictory don't you think? It's ok for "you" to put down girls whose rates are higher than yours though right? There is no difference dear.

I don't look down on anyone for what they wish to do or how they do it, it's just never going to be that way for me. I am in this business of my own free will, not because I have to be so if I want to charge 5 grand for it so be it. Someone will pay that! It may only be 2 a year, but there are guys out there who will pay insane rates just because they can. I think it is absurd to say someone is over priced just because someone else can't get that rate themselves. Why can't they?

If I ever lose my brain and my other job maybe I too will be forced to take what I can get, but I would shoot myself before I let any man or woman tell me what I should charge for my time, or how many guys I should see in a week. I am not some wanton slut addicted to any kind of sex that comes along. Rather conservative in my own relationships, and they never include being un-faithful or doing threesomes. This part of my life is totally separate from the real world, and it will remain that way.

Dave how much would I pay for some %%%k...I wouldn't even if it were Brad Pitt. I may pay to attend as a VIP to an event of his, but I would never pay to get laid because I don't think about it that way. To me sex without intimacy with someone I really am attracted to, does not appeal to me. I can sell that illusion, but would never partake in it. I also don't agree with the BBW statement, and that they should be lower just because "some" guys don't find them attractive. One girl on this board with a very high opinion of herself who likes to talk a lot, is in fact a BBW. Funny how her weight is only listed at 125 on her site but several well known guys have back channeled that she is pushing 180. She claims she is all that and then some yet charges only 200, and they say that's why. I don't agree. I think there are plenty of men out there who would pay whatever she wanted because they are into thicker women. Some say old women or high volume women should charge less too, and most do but they don't have to, nor should it be required of them.

This is off topic anyway as the point that I was trying to make it that NO ONE has the right to demand that a girl's rates come down for a service that you will not die from doing without. If this was health insurance sure, but it's sex!! It is not a need, and rather immature to let anyone convince us otherwise. That is 4th grade babble that guys tell girls to get laid, and apparently it still works with some adult women today. If you want sex from a girl you can't get in real life without paying for it, you either pay her rate or find a cheaper one. It really is that simple.

Have changed ..The internet has made men cheap and women cheapen themselves period.. I know 90% of this forum and 5 years ago they would NEVER have squabble'd over 250 0r 300 an hour..and half hours were UNHEARD of (where the hell did they come from..and DONT say the ECONOMY) more like people that CAN NOT AFFORD AN ESCORT have found a way to use it to their advantage! Yes bp/cr/list has a bunch of 150 half hour rates... and YES the service sucks lol. When they are getting 250 to 300 an hour (and yes GENTLEMEN EVEN with a service ) they will act accordingly. I know a couple of the super sleuth's find that AMAZING and just cant seem to UNDERSTAND that when someone is held ACCOUNTABLE for shitty service (alas the girls that are independent) and treat ya'll like shit REALLY dont CARE what you think for your 100-150 dollars! All this behavior is totally ruining what the object is..... FUN AND MONEY . Men I wish ya'll could hear the ladies grumble about the silence when ya ask "hey ya have a special" haha what is this k-fucking-mart hahaha!! Sorry but this thread is toooo funny! Annie

@kaylee... I love you. That's exactly what I wanted to say! (careful, people on the NOLA board like to go accusing everyone of having multiple handles... now that I've said this, they're going to think I'm you haha!)

But seriously, ladies always get butthurt about their rates when they even *think* people may think they're "cheap," and men always complain about rates when they can't afford them and think b/c *they* can't afford the rates, nobody else can either. Best thing to do is to "price" yourself at where you feel comfortable if you're a lady and "play" in YOUR budget range if you're a man and stop worrying about everyone else's business.

you mean, your both British?
bayou boy

Our both British what?

@kaylee... I love you. That's exactly what I wanted to say! (careful, people on the NOLA board like to go accusing everyone of having multiple handles... now that I've said this, they're going to think I'm you haha!)

But seriously, ladies always get butthurt about their rates when they even *think* people may think they're "cheap," and men always complain about rates when they can't afford them and think b/c *they* can't afford the rates, nobody else can either. Best thing to do is to "price" yourself at where you feel comfortable if you're a lady and "play" in YOUR budget range if you're a man and stop worrying about everyone else's business. Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

Good point. I was waiting for them to call me the British girl from the other side of the pond, as it seems anyone with a brain who can write in complete sentences is herI am sure she is glad that she is accused of being selective and intelligent rather than a dumb crack head? Honestly if a girl is cheap, it is really none of my business since I am not the one paying her bills. What is annoying is when guys ONLY dog out a girl they think is too high. Automatically because she refuses to screw just anyone for peanuts, she is a snob and thinks she is better than everyone else. Maybe she just thinks that is what doing this is worth to her, and does not want to have to work as a hooker for 10 years. No one is better or worse but the very guys that put down higher priced girls are the ones "ADMITTING" they are getting bait and switched, ripped off, and lousy service from the lower end. I wouldn't know what kind of service they provide since I am not a client. Just a not so clever way of trying to intimidate every girl into lowering her rate so they can afford it...and it works for many. Personally I would pack up and leave town before I would ever let someone dictate to me how much money I will make. Just gets old but I digress.

FINALLY I GET TO DO THAT..LOL... SORRY GO AHEAD PEOPLE.

how does new boca girl know about girl from across the pond?
bayou boy

you mean, your both British?
bayou boy Originally Posted by Thibodaux

It's you're, not your and thanks for making my day with the British comment See my post below I am using an alias as stated in my first post...that's how I know. Who doesen't?

@kaylee... I love you. That's exactly what I wanted to say! (careful, people on the NOLA board like to go accusing everyone of having multiple handles... now that I've said this, they're going to think I'm you haha!) Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

Veronica, you might want to read back a bit

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=137392&postcount=22

"I have a very great group of friends I don't want to offend so yes this is an alias" Originally Posted by Kaylee

We all have an alias on this board, but we all "know" each other. Kaylee is using an alias to hide her other alias. May not be multiple handles but....

But seriously, ladies always get butthurt about their rates when they even *think* people may think they're "cheap," and men always complain about rates when they can't afford them and think b/c *they* can't afford the rates, nobody else can either. Best thing to do is to "price" yourself at where you feel comfortable if you're a lady and "play" in YOUR budget range if you're a man and stop worrying about everyone else's business. Originally Posted by VeronicaMoore

Veronica, I've only met you once and honestly I like you and would love to see you one day. But I noticed you've moved to Texas and I see your hourly rate is $200. I don't remember for sure what it was in NOLA, but I think it as at least $250-$275. So, did you lower your rates to meet the average market price in TX? I'm not trying to start shit or insult you in any way, but since this thread started about ladies who were lowering their rates and questioning if others would do the same it appears that you've done just that. Am I wrong here? Please explain.

Rather conservative in my own relationships, and they never include being un-faithful or doing threesomes. This part of my life is totally separate from the real world, and it will remain that way.

Dave how much would I pay for some %%%k...I wouldn't even if it were Brad Pitt. I may pay to attend as a VIP to an event of his, but I would never pay to get laid because I don't think about it that way. To me sex without intimacy with someone I really am attracted to, does not appeal to me. I can sell that illusion, but would never partake in it. Originally Posted by Kaylee

Did you really just say this? You're never unfaithful in a relationship? So you don't see clients while you're in a relationship? "Job" or not, if you're fucking other guys while seeing another guy, you're being unfaithful. It doesn't matter if he knows what you're doing or not. And if some really good looking guy walks in your door and you're attracted to him you don't take his money and fuck him because it "does not appeal to" you? So you're saying that only sex with clients who you're not attracted to does appeal to you? And how can you "sell that illusion, but...never partake in it?" You partake in it with every client. It doesn't matter if you're the buyer or the seller, you're still part of the illusion.

Please explain this one, because it sure doesn't make sense to me. Only if multiple personalities are involved.