Is This The Jackpot Or The 7th Level Of Hell?

Bravo DFK Hunter...

You are a better man than most, maybe even me... That must have been one of the hardest (LOL) temptations to resist I can think of. But agree with the croud... NOT a good idea...

We do want to keep up with the ongoing saga though, please keep up posted on any other updates...

You guys aren't paying attention. He's widowed.

But I agree with the prevailing analysis. She's a friend of your daughter, so she's probably off limits unless you have an very unusual, unique, and open-minded daughter. Even setting her up with someone has risks.

Two alternative scenarios strike me as not inconceivable. First, is it possible that the girl in question was wanting a non-sexual sugar baby relationship? Second, is it possible that your daughter has suspicions about your hobby and this was her not so ham fisted way of testing out her intuition? Food for thought.

Anyone who thought I was serious definitely rides the short bus to school. Sometimes, I just play devils advocate for the humor and to foster thought about consequences, etc. DFK Hunter could even see that. Definitely not worth it.

But for my sake, could you share some more details? This tale is most titillating! Oh gawd, let their be cotton panties, pillow fights, massage lotion, and a nanny cam! Get to the lesbian bi-curious part, too. oooooooooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh h!

DFK Hunter could even see that.
Originally Posted by cpi3000

Great, this is just greattttt.
I come over here hoping for some sage words of advice and before I know I'm spraying my drink all over my new damn computer and the cat...

Shit, you ever get a cat wet that's sittin' in your lap? I'm gonna be scarred for life...
I'm going to bed...

That has got to be the most amazing load of crap I believe I have read in a while, and I've read a lot of it here lately. Personally I hope no one referred to me as "snatch" when I was younger or even now. If I knew someone did, I'd never give them the time of day and neither would most of the females on the board, regardless of whatever kind of money you threw their way. Does it bother any of the gents here that the Rambro's of the board might at some point refer to your daughter, mother, sister or important woman in your life as such?

Oh, and the thing about attention span....you do realize that you are male, right? LOL (I apologize to the rest of the gentelmen here, but he sorta asked for that comment)

As for the comment/advice on relationships.....The words self and centered come to mind here. Do you honestly believe that it is great advice to give someone to hurt those who love and adore you in order to fulfill some fantasy in the heat of the moment. Really? Isn't it better that one stay in a safer playground such as this, where discretion is more likely to be the case? Isn't that why most hobbyist hobby rather than attempt to start an affair with a civillian mistress? Isn't it better not to hurt the ones who care so deeply for you, or have you just never experienced that? Someone help me try to wrap my mind around this please....

As for well built young women starting to ignore men of "your age" who have proven time and again by their actions and words that they have little or no respect for the opposite sex, and this is just a wild off the wall guess on my part due to the horrendous response you just added to this thread, but do you think that might possibly be because you are just an old horny geezer who hasn't got a clue about women of any age, as opposed to being a respectful intelligent individual who actually does understand women a tiny little bit? good grief!

It's disrespect such as this that is prompting many of the ladies, you all seem to admire so much, to actually leave, and threaten to leave boards of this nature. If some of you gents could be a fly on the wall in the ladies forum, you might start to really understand and more so enjoy the women that are here for you. The degrading remarks, surly comments and more or less mind your own business attitudes are taking their toll on quite a few.

Nothing wrong at ALL with liking, enjoying, choosing to be with and/or fantasizing about younger and willing women, but something is terribly wrong with the many negative references and disrespect for the female gender in general. I thought we were way ahead of the game in an open minded community. Very disheartening and disappointing.

Rambro, do you seriously want the ladies of the board to think that you have zero respect and border on outright disdain for our gender and see no use for us other than to fulfill your sexual desires. We are watching and as hard as it is to fathom, we are intelligent enough to see how you really feel about us when you discuss us in a manner such as this in the co-ed section. Not sure how many DNS lists you made with this post, but I guarantee you made at least one if not very many, which is most likely.

I am woman, hear me roar....LOL

And one more thing while I'm at it....Thanks so much to all the really wonderful men who do have a clue and do not conduct themselves in a manner which is offensive to the ladies in the co-ed section. The women of the board greatly appreciate your respect and support. You guys rock! Originally Posted by M A X

I'm pretty sure you've been called a lot worse (not by me, but others). The term isn't even derogatory, because I would never call a woman that. If I'd used the word PUSSY would that make you feel better?

I'm actually NOT an old geezer. My age gets guessed WRONG all the time...in the YOUNGER direction, and I'm a ways away from being ignored by younger women. Some even consider me TGTBT.

Load of crap? Yeah, maybe a little. Somebody's gotta be the advocate in here. All these play it safe posts was putting me to sleep.

Me disrespecting women? Lol. That's funny. I don't use words like WHORE BOARD and other terms of endearment these other guys get away with using. And I'm pretty sure there's some nice, colorful vernacular flying around in the girls forum about the guys.

Sorry if my message got lost in my post somewhere. The point is, getting chances to bang hot, young CHICKS diminishes with age.....or should I say the likelihood to copulate/fornicate/engage in coitus with more youthful members of the opposite sex minimizes as one goes through the natural progress of the linear occurence of events?

Have a nice day, Max.

Second, is it possible that your daughter has suspicions about your hobby and this was her not so ham fisted way of testing out her intuition? Food for thought. Originally Posted by TexTushHog

Thats what I said TWICE

DFK, I tried to read thru 4 pages, but I have to chime in only because i can relate in a certain way. I too have a teenage daughter with several nubile friends and we lost her mother to cancer when she was 2.
I remember when she was about 9-10, we started having discussions about the ability to be open and honest no matter what.
(the way I put it to her was "hey, I don't want to be the hearing about your 1st period any more than you want to talk to me about your 1st period, but we don't have have a choice. you have me and I have you, so let's deal with it").
Anyway, at this point I tell my daughter everything (I leave out the details) and she knows I will date whoever i want.
Now the other side is, if she said "Don't date her" then i believe she knows that I would absolutely stop.

I think as long as you know you are not taking advantage of this "kid" then have your fun. Is it going to blow up in your face....? yeah probably, but dont most relationships end in some sort of drama?

I should also say that she may have just been testing her flirting ability. Only you can know, but the odds of her getting to the deed with you are slim, but some harmless flirting could be fun.

just my 2 cents...

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Yep, you have to set Jane straight about approaching you. Also, find a way to gently and humorously (probably a little at your expense) rat her out to your daughter. Well, maybe not - this could cause unnecessary trouble between the two. Looks like the girl is growing up and making some false moves that happen during that process. Or, she could just have a little edgy, slutty side that she's exploring. It doesn't matter. There are plenty of willing, hot PROFESSIONAL ladies here and on other sites in ALL age ranges. Your idea of saving your pennies for a 25y/o strawbarely blonde spinner who just luuuuuvs her "Papi" for an hour of so is OK - except for the fact that it might get you back to thinking about Jane.

Cast iron big boy underwear, my man - let it go.

My error. Sorry about the error.

You must be doing something right if your daughter is in college and dad is still hanging the moon for her. Most dads become idiots, in the daughters' mind, once the daughters hit puberty. You have been blessed.

Anyway you look at it you need to broach the subject with the daughter. Its her friend. Just bring it up very light hearted. Its possible that Jane was just teasing you, or may have "daddy issues" of her own.

Thats what I said TWICE Originally Posted by xperiment

Yes, xperiment, that was one of the musings I was going to address... But I don't think it's a factor. There are past family dynamics that support my belief that if my oldest daughter suspected I was in the hobby she'd be in my face.

My younger daughter, the ballerina diva, is different. She's more subtle and more into conflict avoidance. I can't see her wanting to directly confront me the way her sister would. She's also not the type to resort to subterfuge. The ballerina diva would do one of two things, 1) rat me out to her sister or 2) fret, worry, write poetry, and eat lots of candy.

Since the "money pit" was appreciative that I counseled Jane and I haven't seen any dark poems, candy wrappers, or clumps of hair about I feel that my inter-family security isn't compromised.

So where does that leave me and Jane. Just where it was last night when I passed the ball back to her and walked off the court. No Facebook reply, no emails, no voice messages, and both cats are still alive.

Ok good I thought I was the only one who saw this issue besides TexasTushHog. However I still stand by my posts on this thread. RUN! Your daughter's trust and love is worth more then a hot piece of ass.

Just for the record (again): cats rule!

A quick post, but things have simmered in a way not predicted.
More later...

DFK, for what it's worth, I'm with the "RUN FOR YOUR LIFE" group. Not to put too fine a point on it, but nothing, NOTHING is worth losing the trust and respect of your daughter(s). I know whereof I speak. I have a daughter from whom I've been estranged for years. Better to avoid that heartache at whatever cost. It's something I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Leave it the hell alone.

A quick post, but things have simmered in a way not predicted.
More later... Originally Posted by DFK Hunter

...getting out the lube and the fleshlight...