You guys can say what you want. It's all just jokes that have no relevance to yourselves at all.
I think you should all let everyone do as they please with their own money. If he wants to help me because we have talked and is financially able to then that is 100% up to him.
He's a very nice guy that cares way more than just getting off and being disrespectful to women.
Thank you! (Flyinghi) Your generosity and kindness is always appreciated.