In all seriousness... there are things you can do to make yourself more "mid tier".  Be engaging on threads that you can make a contribution to.  Don't feel like you have to seek attention.  Hell, when I came back from taking a vacation from the boards for a while, I didn't even have to post a "Hey I'm back" thread... others did it for me.  
If you seriously have a disdain for other ladies on the board, men on the board, or anyone who questions you in any way.. I'd suggest to just sticking to Eros and TER-- because on this board, everything you say will come back at you-- good or bad.  You don't yet have enough skins in the game to take heavy PR hits.
        
        
        



 I wanted to make a funny comparison like hamburger and steak but Grace is in a WAY different class than the Op.
  I wanted to make a funny comparison like hamburger and steak but Grace is in a WAY different class than the Op.