In all seriousness... there are things you can do to make yourself more "mid tier". Be engaging on threads that you can make a contribution to. Don't feel like you have to seek attention. Hell, when I came back from taking a vacation from the boards for a while, I didn't even have to post a "Hey I'm back" thread... others did it for me.
If you seriously have a disdain for other ladies on the board, men on the board, or anyone who questions you in any way.. I'd suggest to just sticking to Eros and TER-- because on this board, everything you say will come back at you-- good or bad. You don't yet have enough skins in the game to take heavy PR hits.