No AA People

I've gone through most of the White, Asian, and Hispanic providers that caught my eye in DFW, and PMed them a short list of questions regarding booking, and among those questions was Do you see blacks? I'd say 6 out of 1O see blacks, but do not post it in their Showcase. If it says No AA, then they have no scruples about saying it and have made up their mind, the others are closet cases and should be ask so entry can be gained. Many don't post it in their Showcase or ads, because other Hobbyists won't see them if the do. Just how it is. So, if you're black, and it does not say No AA, then just ask, because many of them do, If they don't, move to the next. There are so many in DFW, it really shouldn't make any difference, unless you just want to make it a personal affront. Happy hunting. Originally Posted by LickerLicense

Yes, Licker-- we are all aware that you like to make snide comments towards those who see AA-- some of us have even gotten your missive more than once.

Yes, Licker-- we are all aware that you like to make snide comments towards those who see AA-- some of us have even gotten your missive more than once. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Grace, just curious, what is snide about Lickers preference? He clearly doesn't want to see providers that see blacks. He has his screening process just like you do.There are plenty of people who feel the same way. Isn't that why we research?

Why do you screen Grace? Is it solely for the reason of LE and safety? I seriously doubt those are the only reasons

I don't know Licker so I don't have a dog in his hunt

I do know having hobbied for decades, that the handful-( 20+) of problems I have encountered have involved black girls or black pimps.

In fairness I have been ripped off by a few white girls when I was extremely intoxicated. Not sure if they had pimps or not.

I have hobbied 1,000 Times plus

It is not about his preference, but about how he chooses to express his preference. He sends very hateful emails to providers who choose to see AA clients.

There is a huge difference between having a preference and being an asshole.

It is not about his preference, but about how he chooses to express his preference. He sends very hateful emails to providers who choose to see AA clients.

There is a huge difference between having a preference and being an asshole. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Point taken

It is not about his preference, but about how he chooses to express his preference. He sends very hateful emails to providers who choose to see AA clients.

There is a huge difference between having a preference and being an asshole. Originally Posted by Grace Preston

Good point.

Somebody answer this. What's the difference in a black guy being persistent about seeing a 'No AA' provider and a white guy (or any guy) being persistent about harassing and threatening ladies who do see AA or going out of his way to not see those ladies??

I've seen a few 'No AA' ladies. In between rounds or towards the end of visits, we converse. Their concerns are legit. Too many black guys are pieces of shit. Wannabe thugs. Pants half off their asses (It's funny to watch their stupid asses walk all wide legged, to keep their pants up...too fucking dumb to understand gravity). Confrontational. Mouth needs a bar of soap (ass, too). Allergic to education and common sense. Think having baby mamas is a badge of honor (allergic to child support, though). No job...don't want one. Use their dicks as a weapon. Thinks being a woman beater makes them a man.

Why would ANY woman want to allow a MF like this to get on top of her?

It's a cultural problem, one that can only be fixed by black men themselves...and black women. The reason we have to fix it is because the covert racists don't give a shit. They'll just keep shooting them and getting away with it. There's a lot of work to be done.

As far as seeing the 'No AA' ladies, it's not impossible (unless her name is Madison May). You just gotta pay your dues and be patient.

Why is "AA" even used as "race" when its almost always a stereotype for s culture that is enjoyed by many black Americans, Hispanics and whites (and other races)? This doesn't, in and of itself, make them worse or better, just different than me. Personally, the stereotype is of a culture that I don't like, probably because I'm too old to get it.. When you see/hear someone for the first time almost everyone will unconsciously stereotype because its how we initially work out who we're dealing with and how to relate to them. I choose not to associate with people, black, white, hispanic, asian or other who I perceive to be part of that culture, not because of the color of their skin, but because of what I perceive to be the activities and values they like. Meet people individually, and the stereotype is not part of the reaction. I think the OP is probably part of a culture that I'm more likely to get along with.

I grew up in another country and several of my best friends were black from Africa (Nigeria and Uganda) and the West Indies. We were friends because we enjoyed similar activities and views. When I came to the US many years ago one of my best friends was an African American - a white guy from South Africa. America/Americans can have such insular views at times.

And yes, I'm aware that there is a lot of history between the races in America, and the cultures that have grown up around them, that I have little real experience or understanding of because I didn't grow up here. I get pissed off when I'm tarred with the same brush (no that's not a racial metaphor) but I also realize that I may be a stereotype for other people.

Heh this shit again..
It's just business folks,nothing personal
I understand the AA newbies frustration with the policy,especially if they have never been turned down because of their race in the real world
But if you have been a member for years, you should know the reasons behind the restrictions
It's not just AA nowadays.. they've added those mixed with AA lol

It doesn't matter whether you're educated, how well you speak or wear your Steve Harvey suit to the grocery store and gym
The same pants sagging thugs you're talking down on are responsible for the bulk of NBA policies...so what the fuck does that make you?
Every time your corny pathetic tap dancing ass contacts an NBA provider to beg for a session... you're begging the thugs to fuck their girl!
Waiting a decade for a provider to drop her policy so you can savor the table scraps?
Is this what grown, educated Black men do?
Frankly,I have more respect for those thugs you despise..I doubt they'd stoo p this low just to pay for pussy

I do know having hobbied for decades, that the handful-( 20+) of problems I have encountered have involved black girls Originally Posted by themystic

What problems?I thought u didn't see Black providers?

JUST HERE TO SPREAD MY BLACKNESS

lol who cares soo many people client and provider wise also theirs other sites bud. I don't care about race at all and I'm AA and guys say they don't see AA all the time even AA guys like stop crying.

Heh this shit again..
It's just business folks,nothing personal
I understand the AA newbies frustration with the policy,especially if they have never been turned down because of their race in the real world
But if you have been a member for years, you should know the reasons behind the restrictions
It's not just AA nowadays.. they've added those mixed with AA lol

It doesn't matter whether you're educated, how well you speak or wear your Steve Harvey suit to the grocery store and gym
The same pants sagging thugs you're talking down on are responsible for the bulk of NBA policies...so what the fuck does that make you?
Every time your corny pathetic tap dancing ass contacts an NBA provider to beg for a session... you're begging the thugs to fuck their girl!
Waiting a decade for a provider to drop her policy so you can savor the table scraps?
Is this what grown, educated Black men do?
Frankly,I have more respect for those thugs you despise..I doubt they'd stoo p this low just to pay for pussy



What problems?I thought u didn't see Black providers? Originally Posted by NubianPrince

So, are you saying, that the way [many, not all, but MANY] young black men act is perfectly OK??

Any no white men providers?. I doubt they would be in business very long, or it would be truly a "hobby" for them

I don't see AA either. It really doesn't matter why. When I buy a new car, I pick the color of it to Originally Posted by themystic

I'm white, and I feel the same way, oh yeah...except I only date black girls. It really doesn't matter why.

In the real world, most black women womt date white men.

I don't cry about it. I find ones who do.

UMMM Lol... didn't expect to get so many replies. I have a girlfriend and I came to this site to ask a question about swingers club. My friend recommended I come here to ask the question, which I did. I just took a look at providers, because I was curious. Lol. I'm not looking to fuck anyone off this site XD! I already have that taken care of back at home. Lol.

Ive always thought that was a demand from the pimp......aka boyfriend or husband...... just the way ive looked at it over the years.......

Everyone has their own reason for not seeing aa but who cares...just find someone who does. Plenty of hobbyist put no aa or bbw ladies in the iso's & we just keep scrolling. Cant let that stop your day hun its their loss. Anywho i love all races as i am a gorgeous aa lady myself

I do find it funny when a lot of times the NBA types have rap music blaring on their caller tunes or in their video clips. I can't but thinking, look at the audience you're placating to. You're blaring the music that a particular group of people listen to, that group being young, 20-something, pants sagging knuckleheads, that glorify violence, women abuse, and just general thuggery.

I mean, if I'm a suit and tie wearing, dignified guy, and I call you to set something up, and I hear that shit, I might be inclined to change my mind about seeing you.

Heh this shit again..
It's just business folks,nothing personal
I understand the AA newbies frustration with the policy,especially if they have never been turned down because of their race in the real world
But if you have been a member for years, you should know the reasons behind the restrictions
It's not just AA nowadays.. they've added those mixed with AA lol

It doesn't matter whether you're educated, how well you speak or wear your Steve Harvey suit to the grocery store and gym
The same pants sagging thugs you're talking down on are responsible for the bulk of NBA policies...so what the fuck does that make you?
Every time your corny pathetic tap dancing ass contacts an NBA provider to beg for a session... you're begging the thugs to fuck their girl!
Waiting a decade for a provider to drop her policy so you can savor the table scraps?
Is this what grown, educated Black men do?
Frankly,I have more respect for those thugs you despise..I doubt they'd stoo p this low just to pay for pussy



What problems?I thought u didn't see Black providers? Originally Posted by NubianPrince

I saw black girls in the past. Literally been over 35 years ago. I dont even trust the "mixed". Not saying I wont ever see a black girl, but I highly doubt it