Seeking Arrangement or ECCIE?

Meh, there's no secrets involved. It's simply the free market. More girls fewer SD's. I think I'm a pretty good SD, I have given away WAAAY more fucking money and gifts than I got back in sexual activity. But if you're keeping a ledger, you're doing it wrong in the first place. I like to make sure my girls grow (ie. get their shit together) and I pick girls that have something going on..school, jobs, goals. I'm not buying spare lobutains and handbags, I'm helping them get a leg up... at this point a couple of the first girls I had, we're not even sexual anymore..I tend to think of them as almost daughters... (really at my age they could be). Maybe it's because I didn't have kids but I'm actually proud of what they are accomplishing and I helped them get there just a little bit.

Anyway now I went and made it all weird.

Exactly lol that's all it is and some poor SA girl might see this and realize 250 for three hours of your time or a night cap is ridiculous and they are simply taking advantage of you. Originally Posted by Megan James

They are only being taken advantage of if they were competing with a full on hooker.

Maybe you're being taken advantage of charging 250/hr when I've given 4K to an SB to pay off her student loans?

the whole point of SA is that both participants feel like they are getting the best part of the agreement.

Meh, there's no secrets involved. It's simply the free market. More girls fewer SD's. I think I'm a pretty good SD, I have given away WAAAY more fucking money and gifts than I got back in sexual activity. But if you're keeping a ledger, you're doing it wrong in the first place. I like to make sure my girls grow (ie. get their shit together) and I pick girls that have something going on..school, jobs, goals. I'm not buying spare lobutains and handbags, I'm helping them get a leg up... at this point a couple of the first girls I had, we're not even sexual anymore..I tend to think of them as almost daughters... (really at my age they could be). Maybe it's because I didn't have kids but I'm actually proud of what they are accomplishing and I helped them get there just a little bit.

Anyway now I went and made it all weird. Originally Posted by texassapper

No you didn’t make it weird at all. That’s what a good sd is in it for not more bang for his buck. Kudos to you!! You aren’t the type we were referencing at all.

Exactly lol that's all it is and some poor SA girl might see this and realize 250 for three hours of your time or a night cap is ridiculous and they are simply taking advantage of you. Originally Posted by Megan James

The funniest part of that is ladies who charge a "higher" rate it's "Let them charge what they want" but when it is lower it's "being taken advantage of"

They are only being taken advantage of if they were competing with a full on hooker.

Maybe you're being taken advantage of charging 250/hr when I've given 4K to an SB to pay off her student loans?

the whole point of SA is that both participants feel like they are getting the best part of the agreement. Originally Posted by texassapper

My problem is not how or when they are paid I for don't like Ppm arrangements it's too much like what I do on here my issue is that PPm arrangement type deals are what majority of those supposed SD like to offer and that's where I feel the taking advantage comes in. My SD should be a companion mentor someone who wants to see you grow and understands that you two are feeling a void one another is missing. Like the cheap ppm type arrangements are the things I don't like.

The funniest part of that is ladies who charge a "higher" rate it's "Let them charge what they want" but when it is lower it's "being taken advantage of" Originally Posted by Submit2masterj

It shouldn't be a rate though I just don't feel like that's what that site is for like I don't want a PPM SD that's all I can say for myself

It shouldn't be a rate though I just don't feel like that's what that site is for like I don't want a PPM SD that's all I can say for myself Originally Posted by Megan James

Exactly

The “arrangement “ should be something that works for both parties. There is no clear definition of a sd/ sb relationship. If it’s a monthly, weekly or ppm arrangement what difference does it make as long as both parties are happy. A lot of women are in it for the sex, the money is just a bonus.

The “arrangement “ should be something that works for both parties. There is no clear definition of a sd/ sb relationship. If it’s a monthly, weekly or ppm arrangement what difference does it make as long as both parties are happy. A lot of women are in it for the money, the sex is just a bonus. Originally Posted by jwood

FTFY.

It shouldn't be a rate though I just don't feel like that's what that site is for like I don't want a PPM SD that's all I can say for myself Originally Posted by Megan James

But that isn't what you said. Speak for yourself all you like, but when you then claim someone you don't even know is being taken advantage of, you are claiming they aren't getting paid enough. They are getting what they want to get. They are setting their rates.

You don't get to have it both ways.

I wonder why the only REAL common theme here is that ALL OF THE ARRANGEMENTS EVENTUALLY END.


Emphasis on " REAL"

I wonder why the only REAL common theme here is that ALL OF THE ARRANGEMENTS EVENTUALLY END.

Emphasis on " REAL" Originally Posted by Butch Cassidy

Because, my friend, everything MUST die.

SA is to cater to my Daddy Princess fantasy wont go into details but like I said those guys on there just want to pay for cheap sex they aren't looking for an actual SD/SB arrangement is all I'm saying. Originally Posted by Megan James

oh yeah I have the same fantasy where I give unlimited amount of money to stripper-hookers for doing nothing.