Wow. Just wow. The ultimate stereotype huh? I've only been a provider for about two months and I have met several ladies that live comfortably, have retirement accounts, investments, and also real world jobs and skills outside of the hobby. They do this because they enjoy it. Yes, of course it's also for money but that's only part of it. Not every provider is on here because they're down on their luck and have no other option to support themselves. Personally, I have a BA, MA, and I am currently working on an additional post-baccalaureate degree. I have 10 years of managerial office skills and an IQ of 157. I grew up lower middle class and was always encouraged by my parents that I could be whatever I wanted to be in life. They were extremely supportive of everything I did and they even know that I am a provider and are fully accepting. My household was always sex-positive and open-minded in general. Yes, of course I do this to make money but it's also because I truly enjoy sex and I am constantly horny so I provide this service (not to mention I am just really good at what I do). Not all women have a sex drive like I do so why shouldn't I use it to my advantage? No one forced me into this. This was completely my choice and I love my job. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
Also, you are way overestimating how much we make in a week, at least speaking from my own personal experience. There are more slow weeks than busy weeks. Granted, I am still new so I haven't fully made a name for myself just yet but I'm lucky if I make even a quarter of the amount you stated.
You also mentioned expenses, just in the two months that I have started I have spent about 1000 on lingerie, 300 on toys, 500 on makeup and hair products, 300 on mani/pedis, and 900-1000 on incall locations. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
thanks mitch! Just telling the truth lol Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
I did not miss that part. I read your entire post. My point is that yes there may be a sector of ladies that fit into the "stereotypical prostitute category" that you speak of but I can tell you that from meeting many of the verified providers from ECCIE that is not the general case here. We are professionals, not street hookers. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
I can guarantee you I am not being defensive. I am merely trying to open your eyes and educate you a little since your view of prostitutes, based upon your previous statements, seems to err on a stereotypical and close-minded level. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
wrong again, we have to go through a verification process Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
Actually it does. You were referring to a generalization of most prostitutes. Of course there are some "bad eggs" which you can find in literally ANY JOB. Not just this one. So thank you for your very weak counter-argument. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
My main point is this: stereotyping and generalizing facts of an entire sector of people isn't helping you or anyone else. It's only furthering those stereotypes so maybe try meeting some of these ladies and actually finding out who they are as people before you stamp a label on the group as whole. Just some food for thought.
xoxo,
Lyssandra Ash Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
This is what you said. This statement in and of itself is exactly what I am talking about in regard to being close-minded. So you literally just proved my case for me. Anyway, it's my bedtime, which, I don't know if you're aware but prostitutes actually sleep too lol so goodnight and I hope you have wonderful sweet dreams of crazy prostitutes that have no life or future outside of this job
xoxo,
Lyssandra Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
No, sites like this one where you can research a provider before you meet with them is what keeps a man safe. Not generalizing and perpetuating stereotypes of an entire population of people. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
I graduated high school right after turning 16. So no, I'm not lying about either. You're just a presumptuous prick. That IQ I talked about is what allowed me to skip two grades. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
You're so right. That's why my birth certificate says I was born in 1990 and why my diploma says I graduated in 2007, my bachelor's degree says 2012 and my masters degree says 2015. My resume lists 10 years of professional office experience including several letters of recommendation because I just can't stop lying. You are so right. I must have created all of these fictitious documents because I'm a crazy hooker that can't sustain the life of an ordinary functional person. Good job. You really cracked the mystery here!! LOL Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh
OMG you're an idiot. Originally Posted by LyssandraAsh