Nicole Cox is coming back in January

Not so fast.
You want me to take the time to get to the bottom of it...ok.sorru I didn't validate these complaints enough for u. Let's get to the bottom of it. Ok pumpkin??

1) Monique knows that I don't respond to any messages, texts, smoke signals or frantic screams she uses to communicate with me. So, that's a dead issue.

2&3)I'm waiting for the pms that I sent or that was forwarded to the all these clients about me lying and not providing a reference. So we can match up our pms and get some clarification.

When one person says something, it could be a one time thing, it could be out of spite,,,,who knows.

When two people say something it could be a coincidence.

But when three different people say the same thing, honey it’s you. Not everyone tripping and lying on you and it’s not “drama” on behalf of the ladies that call you out. It’s the truth. Originally Posted by Ssjdawg

I have sent several reference requests to you that went ignored. The last one, about a year ago, you responded and told me I was lazy and needed to do my own screening. That it's not your place to help me out. I forwarded your response to the gent using you and went on about my day. So, from that point on I refused to accept you as a reference. Do your business as you see fit, but at least admit that you are not reference friendly. Lots of whores aren't. Originally Posted by Kendall4U

Well sorry but Kendall is pretty reputable and that was pretty specific statements. Kind of alarming actually. In my opinion those statements Kendall says you made, you show zero conscience towards your fellow providers. Referrals are the foundation of this hobby. It’s what keeps the ladies safe. And if you have zero conscience towards them then imagine how much you have towards me given the right circumstance. So therefore I prefer to see reference friendly ladies. Just my opinion.

You do need to work on the references Nicole. I can actually recall giving Playful Paige 5 references including you. 4 responded and she refused to see me until you approved. You did respond to her after I asked you. STILL HAVEN'T BEEN ABLE TO SEE PLAYFUL PAIGE. SCHEDULE NEVER WORKS OUT.

Well sorry but Kendall is pretty reputable and that was pretty specific statements. Kind of alarming actually. In my opinion those statements Kendall says you made, you show zero conscience towards your fellow providers. Referrals are the foundation of this hobby. It’s what keeps the ladies safe. And if you have zero conscience towards them then imagine how much you have towards me given the right circumstance. So therefore I prefer to see reference friendly ladies. Just my opinion. Originally Posted by Ssjdawg

I cant speak on what was said between me and Kendal. My "sent"messages go back to 2015 and I see one sent messqage to each of these providers.Im waiting for them to forward what they are talking about to me..

As far as safety in the hobby community. I have a reference policy in place and has been in place for years. It was on my website and my showcase. If a client asks to use me as reference, I tell them sure but make sure they understand when they leave I dont give references over phone, text or email..
This was pulled off the bottom of an old ad and is exactly what was on my website and showcase.(pulled from 2016 ad)

Reference Checks:
To protect client's privacy I do NOT answer requests for a reference via text or calls.
If you would like a response please include the following information in a PM:
1. client name or handle
2. hobby # or email
3. estimated time that I saw them last

That policy is in place for my safety and my clients safety. Anonymity doesn't stop once a client walks out the door. Hence the required pm.

I apologize to the requesting provider for the inconvenience it causes them to send a pm and 75% of the time its no issue and they understand after I explain why.. But there are other providers that get mad, some cuss at me and some dont care about my reasoning or are just in a hurry and dont see what the big issue is. This doesn't make me less of a reputable provider. Id rather providers be mad about this than me confirm Ive seen a guy some guys crazy wife pretending to be a provider via text or call.

DrBxc Im sending you a pm

I cant speak on what was said between me and Kendal. My "sent"messages go back to 2015 and I see one sent messqage to each of these providers.Im waiting for them to forward what they are talking about to me..

Reference Checks:
To protect client's privacy I do NOT answer requests for a reference via text or calls.
If you would like a response please include the following information in a PM:
1. client name or handle
2. hobby # or email
3. estimated time that I saw them last
Originally Posted by Nicole Cox

Well you’ve already dug yourself a hole because you said that you don’t Save PMs, but then said you had p.m.s from 2015???(oh, only your ‘sent’ PMs. Yeah right.)

Back when you were my neighbor, gentlemen actually said that you did INDEED refer them to me!
But ,when I would contact you to validate you “didn’t remember or didn’t save the info.” Even though I know you use Google Voice, just like me, and all of your correspondence is saved in the app automatically.

And yes you always talk about “your secret method of screening” and say that other girls are lazy and need to do their own research. Like you said that Word for Word and it’s probably even written here on the website somewhere.

It’s so funny that you talk about sharing your clients... but then talk about girls behind their back when the clients tell you that they responded to their ISOs. (Me, for example.)

You obviously don’t care one inkling about your fellow provider. Either that or you just don’t get enough sleep to realize what you were doing on a daily basis. The last time I ever saw you we were on our way to a double appointment. And you were literally following behind me. Then out of NOWHERE you went back to your apartment “to take an appointment.” So not sure why you feel the need to lie.

Happy New Year! And don’t forget to get your beauty sleep.

Well I think that is enough information from multiple providers that are no way linked together or even run in the same circles for clients to make an informed decision about the whole reference thing.

So is it starting drama if it’s true? I clearly wasn’t the only one being Cockblocked by her lol

Nothing wrong with not wanting to give refs just be up front about it so clients and providers won’t waste their time trying to get one from you. I think that’s the part that bothers people not the fact you refuse to give them. Also straight up having amnesia and saying you don’t remember someone u saw days earlier is way more offensive to the client than just saying no that’s all I’m saying

Im real tempted to tell my story about how a provider got me tangled into a web of BULLSHIT on P411 that ended up with me getting removed after over 10 years of being on there and tons of positive approvals. But I guess at this point it really doesnt matter.
welcome back!

"Dig myself in a hole?" I said before I don't save pms. I erase my inbox regularly. The messages one message that I found for each of these girls was in my "SENT" messages tab. And stated that.

I'm sorry you're still upset about not going to an outcall bng during 5:00 rush hr traffic. Theres no way I could've made it back to keep my prior obligation.
As far as talking behind providers backs... I don't even personally know any providers except 3 or 4 and only talk socialize with 1. And if a provider cant take the time to send a pm for a reference check with more info than just a handle.. That is lazy.. Absolutely! I don't have a "secret" method to screening. It takes time and I spend money.

I ONLY do reference checks via PM here or P411 (or both)-- and you've ignored requests from me as well. So no, its not always "laziness" on the part of the girls. Pretty sure Jules does her requests via PM here as well. Can't speak for the others, but since they are all pretty active providers here, I can't imagine them having issues with screening via PM. Couldn't even give specifics of my requests anymore other than you are on my "doesn't respond" list that I maintain so that I can ask for another reference if you're the only name I'm given. To make it to that list, you have to ignore my ref requests at least 3 times... so, there's that....

I won't bite your head off for it-- it is what it is and my list of ladies who don't give references is surprisingly long given the nature of this business. You are by no means unique in the "not giving references" category, so simply own it and move on. You've got a good rep with the guys, I don't see it hurting your business by any means.

Im real tempted to tell my story about how a provider got me tangled into a web of BULLSHIT on P411 that ended up with me getting removed after over 10 years of being on there and tons of positive approvals. But I guess at this point it really doesnt matter.
welcome back! Originally Posted by cage196

You were removed from P411 and then came to be and asked me why and I was clueless as to what you were talking about. You asked to see me and I declined you asked why and I said I'm not into the same things as you.. Next thing I know you are ranting about me getting you kicked off p411. Confused about what you were talking about I contacted Gina and asked her if I was involved in some Drama I didn't know about. And her response was that you were responsible for being kicked off and your obsession became known to them through your own doing. They offered me no other explanation. Except if eccie needed further info regarding the situation to let her know. whatever you did had nothing to do with me and I forwarded that on to you.

BTW Bella I am well rested thank you for asking.

I offered to supply the messages I have in my sent box and I asked to see all these messages Kendal and JJ were referring to and still waiting.

If I was to jump on a thread and call someone a liar I would back it up with proof. Please do so. I'm getting off for the night. But, my inbox will still be available to forward these so called messages to. Anything to back up what you're saying would be nice. I can produce ur ONE message that you each sent and i can produce dozens of messages to and from various dozens of providers thanking me for providing a reference

As everyone knows, we providers as well as the guys, have limited space to keep messages. Like you, most of us end up deleting old received and sents to keep our inboxes functioning. I have absolutely zero reason to lie and think it quite funny that you have changed your story a couple of different times in this very threAD. I said my peace...funny you can't own up to your actions. Several reputable ladies, that I have even exchanged references with, are calling you out. That speaks volumes. As I said previously, just be honest and tell your callers you don't provide references for certain ladies. I am curious who you do respond to? Maybe they can vouch for you?

Obsession?? excuse me? Dont flatter yourself. Im not obsessed with anyone on this board, and if i was , it certainly would not be with you. You sent me a message telling me something VERY concerning to me and my health and then did not respond to my messages. As anyone normal person would of been concerned with your cryptic bullshit , I simply wrote you trying to get answers. And then I wrote P411 to ask for help which probably wasn't the best idea and next thing you know I'm battling to keep my P411 account. Then 2 weeks later you leave. VERY CONCERNING.



If asked, i would definitely say to proceed with caution. I know you have your following, you will do fine. Before you know it, guys will be back in line in heavy rotation, just like the old days! GOOD LUCK!

Wow 5 reputable ladies....dang girl why everyone lying on you. The ladies you have given references to should speak up on your behalf.

I’ve also heard that.figure skaters usually get rest and gain weight in vacations....

Holy crap, sounds like bad news here.