One thing that happens if a girl goes to eat is the "manager" loses control for some time. If a girl doesn't like her situation she could ask for help from the guy. If she was wired so the "manager" could hear she could even slip a note to the guy. It wouldn't take too long for a guy to contact someone to get her out of there. The "manager" knows this and doesn't want her to stray too far. In a room on a bed making money is where they want to keep her.
I normally agree to a dinner without extra donation. Here is why..for one, they probably just did a session with me or they are intently thinking about it & want to test the water. Two, most likely they will pay for dinner if they ask you to join them, so you get free food & a chance to build a real connection with someone. I can't believe the op didn't read her post to herself before posting this...you realize every hobbyist can see this & you just showed your a**hole side to everyone..
Good luck.
Originally Posted by Nikkilove91