Why do you care if a whore cums?

This thread is probably a mine field to avoid but I'll tip toe in regardless. I think several here have given really good answers to OP's question. Personally, it's hard for me to imagine being with someone sexually; whether real, imagined, casual, or p4p, where I wouldn't care about their pleasure at all. I'm just not wired that way. I realize there are providers for those types of interactions, they're just not for me. In fact, I discovered eccie for fear of being with those dead fish providers that are clearly just waiting for you to finish and get out. I would rather self-gratify than be with someone like that.

I think it takes a cold and objectifying way of looking at people in order to be so intimate with someone (even if it's just physically) and to only have concern for your own gratification. Yes, if it's boiled down, it's a business transaction; but, even real world business transactions shouldn't be completely one-sided. I don't walk into Starbucks, give my order, pay, grab my drink and go. The cashier usually greets me, I'll return the getting, other pleasantries and perhaps smiles are exchanged, a thank you or enjoy your day, etc. These are all things we do to enhance the pleasure of the experience, even when it's a service. The same can be said for the hobby world. To me, it's just a part of being a decent human being....maybe that makes me a sucker,idk.
This thread is probably a mine field to avoid but I'll tip toe in regardless. I think several here have given really good answers to OP's question. Personally, it's hard for me to imagine being with someone sexually; whether real, imagined, casual, or p4p, where I wouldn't care about their pleasure at all. I'm just not wired that way. I realize there are providers for those types of interactions, they're just not for me. In fact, I discovered eccie for fear of being with those dead fish providers that are clearly just waiting for you to finish and get out. I would rather self-gratify than be with someone like that.

I think it takes a cold and objectifying way of looking at people in order to be so intimate with someone (even if it's just physically) and to only have concern for your own gratification. Yes, if it's boiled down, it's a business transaction; but, even real world business transactions shouldn't be completely one-sided. I don't walk into Starbucks, give my order, pay, grab my drink and go. The cashier usually greets me, I'll return the getting, other pleasantries and perhaps smiles are exchanged, a thank you or enjoy your day, etc. These are all things we do to enhance the pleasure of the experience, even when it's a service. The same can be said for the hobby world. To me, it's just a part of being a decent human being....maybe that makes me a sucker,idk. Originally Posted by karmachameleon
A thoughtful and eloquent man is one of my weaknesses.
dearhunter's Avatar
I make all the whores cum multiple times in 30 minutes.
Japjapjap's Avatar
Simple answer:

It's a turn on. A girl feels incredible when she is about to come and you can feel her pussy muscles contacting steadily.
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If you’d read the reviews in the Houston section you’d know that isn’t an issue for the guys here.

Click any review and you’ll see that most providers have multiple O’s before we put the hat on.

Shit, I think my man pmcxx said he tortured some lady and made her bust 11 nuts in a one hour session.
A thoughtful and eloquent man is one of my weaknesses. Originally Posted by Victoria of Houston
+1

I got a little wet just reading that post.

In my every day interactions, I get a kick out of making people smile. Especially the ones that look like they are having a bad day.

It keeps me in smiles as well. So it's not selfless at all.
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This thread cracks me up. One one side we have the dickheads that try to demean on purpose and on the other the ass kissers talking about how they are wired to give women pleasure. You're all losers lol. Good times.
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whoop whoop THIS DIRTY WHORE LOVES to have an orgasm either by oral(if they know what they are doing) and have the guy lick every drop of juice and tells me how good My Pussy taste to being tossed up and freaked out and busting nuts all over his cock by the way he fucks me... oh my....whoop whoop...
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pi
A man that gets it. I can’t count the number of times a 60 minute session turned into 90 minutes or longer. And a Grandfathered or discounted rate is quite common for future sessions, if you treat her right. Originally Posted by Oralist
Yes very true .

I have had a quite a few sessions where the provider is going to kneel and give me a blow job and instead I ask her to get on the bed with me so she doesn't hurt her knees .
They smile and proceed with a pretty good bbbj .
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  • 01-09-2018, 07:15 PM
Why would you assume I do not think of you as a human being? Nothing about being a whore takes that from you. Your choice to be a whore did not dehumanize you.

perhaps your choice to allow the word to bother you has confused you. Originally Posted by Whispers
Maybe it's because the tone of your posts is demeaning. You don't have to say "you are not a human being once I pay you" for someone to see through what u r saying.

So, you came to the houston coed board to start a discussion coz ur Austin people r boring or coz they abhor how you characterize ladies? Saying someone is a whole and not a lady, dehumanizes them and it's just coz u think you own them based on your $$. In the world of money exchanged, you may own a product and do with it as you please after paying for it, but never a human being. That slave era type of mentality you got has no place in the current world or the previous one.

This guy should go back to his city. Yes, I care that my lady wants to perform for my pleasure as much as I want to for hers. I imagine all of us men love sex and that is why we r here, sex comes with passion, and a love of the other person u r engaging in it with. Such a person cannot have the thoughts u have of women.
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I can't assume for everyone else,
Though from truth I doubt I am far.
Validation is a value that sells,
We all want to measure 'gainst par.

This is not true just in the hobby,
And its crazy how you ooze so much hate.
Whether at home or met at the lobby,
and does not matter stranger or mate:

All things are fostered from greed,
We want to feel we are the 'wanted,'
When we accept that we can be freed,
And not from your question feel daunted.
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I’ll answer your question with a question...why is an Austin monger asking this question to Houston mongers? Originally Posted by MisterMeat
He's a tool.

As for me I'm just bored though I fancy a trip to Houston soon.
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Simple answer:

It's a turn on. A girl feels incredible when she is about to come and you can feel her pussy muscles contacting steadily. Originally Posted by Japjapjap
Its called faking or Illusion of Passion.

whoop whoop THIS DIRTY WHORE LOVES to have an orgasm either by oral(if they know what they are doing) and have the guy lick every drop of juice and tells me how good My Pussy taste to being tossed up and freaked out and busting nuts all over his cock by the way he fucks me... oh my....whoop whoop... Originally Posted by Seeskylar
Faking is an art.

He's a tool.

As for me I'm just bored though I fancy a trip to Houston soon. Originally Posted by scsholar
You are no better than Whimpers.
Are you wanting to get laid or wanting validation that IF you can get laid you can pleasure a real woman? Originally Posted by Whispers
For me it is really quite simple. There is nothing I love more, nothing that turns me on more, nothing I'd rather do than see, feel and touch a woman when she is in full orgasmic song. Shaking, quivering, dripping, crying out, clenching and sometimes even speaking in a language not understandable.

The female orgasm is simply the sexiest and most sensual experience I can have. After that of course is my own edged to perfection release. Provider or RW the lady cumming makes my session so much more worth being there. Ladies cum, cum, cum and don't stop cumming its the closest we can get to heaven right here on earth. Multiples are even better. Peace OUT!
This thread proved again that Eccie has a fair amount of sick male pigs who get off degrading women behind the cloak of anonymity like teen age redditors.

God bless you, Krystal.