"Caught in the flow, he or she may be, and, fwiw, there goes the rest of us one at a time.... and being single doesn't excuse or protect anyone from the repercussions of being found out by relatives, bosses, co-workers, kids, grand kids, grandmas, etc."
Hah, both my son (he's 29) and my dad asked me whether I was seeing hookers. I showed them a photo of one of my favorite ladies. Both pretty much said the same thing. "Enough said!" It has never been discussed again. As to others knowing, I personally don't care. If that is enough to change our relationship, I really don't want to deal with it. I am not hiding anything. I guess I'll hide it from leo.