DATY Tips and Tricks

lipandhipster…..I choose to differ with you when you say "This part IS FOR HER". It is more exciting and erotic when BOTH partners are enjoying DATY. If she feels your desire for WANTING to devour her love spot then she will feed it to you with pleasure for both. Originally Posted by Souper

Souper is 100% correct on this, IMHO. I can think of some providers who actually do NOT enjoy it, which is very rare, but it happens. Even though you could be trying your best, nothing much is happening if she isn't into it.

But MUTUAL desire and enjoyment is the key, paramount, and base requirements for enjoyment, for sure.

Looking forward to more comments from the ladies on this one, but I think it's clear that everyone is different.

I enjoy giving DATY tremendously, I'll stay down there all damned day, given the chance, and I just love it tremendously for many reasons. Dang fun! I like to think I'm pretty darn good at it (at least so I'm told), so I'm not giving away my techniques or secrets, as I need all the advantage I can get (ladies will have to find out during our time together!), but mutual desire/enjoyment is completely the basis of a good time here.

I don't like noise makers, too much noise will alert the neighbors Originally Posted by ebass

So you are into necrophilia?

I like a provider that moans, not the obnoxiously fake moaning, but at least one that is there emotionally (IOP) and mentally! I could care less about the neighbors.......discretion is meant for public meetings and outings, not BCD.

DATY is great if both people enjoy it, and one cannot enjoy it to the fullest extent without the other person also enjoying it. Like all things that happen BCD, DATY is not just something that is box checked on a list of activities to do.

Lol, based on the title, I'm dying from the fact that 80% of the responses are from men answering or bragging.

Any information posted on this subject that isn't posted by a provider needs to be completely ignored...

Any information posted on this subject that isn't posted by a provider needs to be completely ignored... Originally Posted by LickHer

Ok, your post will be ignored!

i love a scuba diver, if i get soaked and they can breathe through their ears then its all good in my book

dive right in but not in a scary way, if anyone ever told you nibbling is ok then they need to be slapped ASAP.

Chew the kitty like it is jerky is always best.

Nothing quite so humbling as giving a lady your bet shot and it doesn’t phase her. Nothing worse than her faking one just so you’ll stop. Originally Posted by Guest113018-1

Sometimes it's just a matter of connection. Outside the hobby I've slept with maybe 3 dozen women between relationships and shorter flings. Each one was quite different from the last but all enthusiastically responded to receiving oral from me.

With providers, it just doesn't seem to work the same way. Most will definitely appear to enjoy it, but it's like they mentally hold themselves back. Even had a few get that "quiver" and clinching of the hips/back but ask you to stop and then spend 30 seconds finishing themselves off.

If you can please a provider, more power to you. Just don't judge your own sexual prowess based on that. Men are like an on/off switch while women's minds are constantly juggling different things at once. You can lick her pussy like an ice cream cone, but if her mind isn't all the way in the moment, it doesn't matter. Much more common if the lady has no romantic interest or a reasonable sexual attraction to you.

All I want is my clit sucked

All I want is my clit sucked Originally Posted by jamieDallas

Think you handle that? Don't forget about getting it licked

All I want is my clit sucked Originally Posted by jamieDallas

That's not surprising at all, Jamie. When a woman injects herself with the male sex hormone testosterone, she starts transforming into a man. As part of this transformation, her clit grows into a small cock.

My point is that a woman's clit is the female equivalent of a man's cock. Just like a man feels pleasure when his cock is sucked, a woman will feel similar pleasure when her clit is sucked. When I do DATY, I pay particular attention to the clit, licking & sucking it a lot.

All of the above I concur with, I just like eating a girl for hours at a time. Mmmmm

Think you handle that? Don't forget about getting it licked Originally Posted by BLM69

Definitely can handle that , gonna have the big O

That's not surprising at all, Jamie. When a woman injects herself with the male sex hormone testosterone, she starts transforming into a man. As part of this transformation, her clit grows into a small cock.

My point is that a woman's clit is the female equivalent of a man's cock. Just like a man feels pleasure when his cock is sucked, a woman will feel similar pleasure when her clit is sucked. When I do DATY, I pay particular attention to the clit, licking & sucking it a lot. Originally Posted by VeryClean

Very informative !!!