Providers Requesting Selfie Pic

Good post, TML. And I agree, just a selfie doesn’t prove anything... It’s kind of scary that there are providers out there who think selfies are sufficient for screening.

The selfie and personal info thing is a no go for sure.I would think being a ECCIE member for many years, and having many reviews and posts should be good enough

The selfie and personal info thing is a no go for sure.I would think being a ECCIE member for many years, and having many reviews and posts should be good enough Originally Posted by flyinghillbilly

Flyinghillbilly... usually if a gentleman (member) has done multiple reviews on providers, we can contact a few of the ladies that way, and it’s A relatively simple process. However those that are not members but are lurkers, Will contact us wanting an appointment. Wow my screening process is pretty stringent if they fall in the latter category I would not even Entertain the idea of having them send me a selfie as screening criteria. But, what I have ran across a couple of times lately surprises me. Example: A gentleman contacted me last week and I will except two providers with their contact information and somehow that they will remember the gentleman. When I contacted a well reviewed provider( although she had multiple reviews on here she was not a member, nor was he ) she said well can you just get him to send you a selfie and send it to me . I said, absolutely not. I did gather a little more info to maybe help her remember who he was, sent that, but got absolutely no response. Today, I contacted a well reviews provider who also isn’t a member, but had multiple reviews. I was hesitant because the info he provided to help her remember him was very vague... and she responded with he’s fine. I said” you remember him from that little info? She said” well, I don’t screen, so if they say they saw me I’m sure they did and I’ve neber had a problem so I’m sure he’s good”
What this says to me is... yes... my screening is pretty intense, but I’m not willing to take Unnecessary risks. So, I’ll continue to do my own screening, and just because a guy had done a review on a lady, or she has even 5-6 yes encounter reviews... doesn’t mean it’s so or that she screened him.. I’ll stick to my method.
But not everyone is straight up as you are, and it isn’t always that easy. So.. thank you for making the process with you simple.
But what does a selfie prove ?

I agree with Summer. I would definitely look through your post history to get a feel for your personality. Any posts degrading women, showing lack of respect for providers and their safety, and I would have to pass.

And naturally, if you don’t want to disclose personal information, you will need solid references. Established providers with at least a year of positive review history and good reputations. The ladies that Dirty has reviewed do not meet my criteria.

I’m very selective with whom I decide to meet. Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I know this is an old thread but, I was killing time by trolling through some of the surrounding area threads and happened upon this one. I've seen many just like it but each has their own method(s) both providers and clients. They'll each do what they feel is keeping all parties safe and each needs to appreciate what is trying to be accomplished. If either are uncomfortable with it, go with your gut feeling and move on.



Now, I have never been asked for a selfie but have provided other means of verification but only after I have done my research on whom I'm wanting to spend time with. I'm certain they've done the same with me.


However, when I decided to get back into the game, all I can say that I trust Ginger, she busted my cherry on ECCIE (she was very gentle) and her screening process was what one would expect. She's steered me clear from drama and potential hassles (thank you by the way). I've seen it first hand play out on these boards.



That said, I'm ecstatic that I make her cut.



Cheers All!

Funny, I was contacted today and my ex's gf had screenshotted this and sent it.... lmao

Katee took me as a brand Newbie and Ginger took me as kinda of newbie. Alot of questions to answer, but I understood. After knowing them I would divulge more to them. They are correct in what they say. Oh and pretty Damn Cute LOL

Thanks to you Both for Helping Me early on.
And Makayla for helping get on the site.

Funny, I was contacted today and my ex's gf had screenshotted this and sent it.... lmao Originally Posted by Makayla of Missouri

to who?

***My apologies for the late response, but I felt a response was warranted and the question asked was valid. I'm very off grid atm and not on here much!***

To the dfs worker. Long story short, may of 2017 my kids were removed from my ex and his gf by dfs for physical abuse on my then-10-year-old. We were still married at the time but living separately for a couple years.

He then proceeded to file for divorce and they both have done everything in their power to get the boys back in their custody.

Dfs came, showed me the screenshots, and said in not so many words to just be careful about what I post, hence me being off-grid a lot.

The case is now closed. I have sole physical and legal custody. They subsequently plead guilty to felony charges related to the case.

The screenshots were of absolutely nothing other than my direct comments about them. The screenshots have not gone past the caseworker and I informed mods of some very serious things semi-related to my ex and another well known provider on here and no one is in any kind of risk of exposure or the like.

Plus, this all started 2 years ago and is now nul and void. Feel free to PM if anyone has any questions. I'm an open book.

XoXo

Good evening all,
I am a newbie here and I have a question. I have no references to contact and no reviews on here because I’m new. I guess without giving away your specific screening procedures, what would I need to do be approved and see someone? I will be in the area in a couple weeks and I would like to know if I need to get my old tax forms, my third grade teachers contact info and a signed permission slip from my mom. (Which would be awkward to say the least since she’s 70 and would faint if I asked)
Thank you for your time and information.

Good evening all,
I am a newbie here and I have a question. I have no references to contact and no reviews on here because I’m new. I guess without giving away your specific screening procedures, what would I need to do be approved and see someone? I will be in the area in a couple weeks and I would like to know if I need to get my old tax forms, my third grade teachers contact info and a signed permission slip from my mom. (Which would be awkward to say the least since she’s 70 and would faint if I asked)
Thank you for your time and information. Originally Posted by HunterHerne

Sent PM

Good evening all,
I am a newbie here and I have a question. I have no references to contact and no reviews on here because I’m new. I guess without giving away your specific screening procedures, what would I need to do be approved and see someone? I will be in the area in a couple weeks and I would like to know if I need to get my old tax forms, my third grade teachers contact info and a signed permission slip from my mom. (Which would be awkward to say the least since she’s 70 and would faint if I asked)
Thank you for your time and information. Originally Posted by HunterHerne

I'm Newbie friendly with a very easy screening hun ..feel free to p.m if interested

I have started asking for face photos for one simple reason...

Too many of the guys who get busted turn over their accounts! I have to know the reference I am getting is on the same person.

With a face photo I can send it to the lady you are using for a reference and have a lot better chance of not getting busted. If she says yes it’s you and then the person answering the door doesn’t match your photo... Bye Bye! I haven’t done anything wrong so no bust.

Let’s face it, this industry is a huge gamble all the way around. If you are seeing ladies who don’t heavily screen, you’re risking getting busted by an account that a lady turned over to avoid prosecution.

The fear of blackmail should only come into play when you don’t see quality professional ladies. I have just as much to lose as any of you. I’m married too. So believe me when I say any information you share with me is under lock and key. It is also why I have a text only line and don’t talk on the phone. Not worth the risk of being overheard.

By the way, never ask me for details or specific acts when contacting me before we have an actual session. Don’t ever mention money and an act in the same conversation. If you can’t find that info, then use a different form of communication than any other conversation has happened on. I tell everyone to talk to me through here or text. Email for donation only and no other communication or vice versa.

Be safe everyone. It’s a rough world out there.

This is an interesting discussion. I have to say that the ladies set the rules. Either we accept them or move on. I actually prefer a lady who has a good screening process in place. It shows that she is careful and that translates to mutual safety. These ladies take a lot of risks meeting up for the first time. Show them the curtosy of following what ever rules they set up for screaning. Or... move down the page.



Wow... this is one of the longest threads i have seen here. LOL Treat the ladies right.


I agree with Cherokee... Katee was kind and thorough on my first visit with her. She does her homework and I really respect that.

This is an interesting discussion. I have to say that the ladies set the rules. Either we accept them or move on. I actually prefer a lady who has a good screening process in place. It shows that she is careful and that translates to mutual safety. These ladies take a lot of risks meeting up for the first time. Show them the curtosy of following what ever rules they set up for screaning. Or... move down the page.


AMEN!!!!!!!!!!

***My apologies for the late response, but I felt a response was warranted and the question asked was valid. I'm very off grid atm and not on here much!***

To the dfs worker. Long story short, may of 2017 my kids were removed from my ex and his gf by dfs for physical abuse on my then-10-year-old. We were still married at the time but living separately for a couple years.

He then proceeded to file for divorce and they both have done everything in their power to get the boys back in their custody.

Dfs came, showed me the screenshots, and said in not so many words to just be careful about what I post, hence me being off-grid a lot.

The case is now closed. I have sole physical and legal custody. They subsequently plead guilty to felony charges related to the case.

The screenshots were of absolutely nothing other than my direct comments about them. The screenshots have not gone past the caseworker and I informed mods of some very serious things semi-related to my ex and another well known provider on here and no one is in any kind of risk of exposure or the like.

Plus, this all started 2 years ago and is now nul and void. Feel free to PM if anyone has any questions. I'm an open book.

XoXo Originally Posted by Makayla of Missouri

Drama