Significant Others and blowjobs....talk to me ladies

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Well put. When I touched on the power dynamic earlier I was told these things don't occur and everyone's just lazy. Lol. (Which I know better, of course.)



Generalizations are another way of saying, "Not all, but most." They come from a real place. While you're saying you don't fall into this generalization, you're also saying you literally had to become a ho to learn to become a housewife (proverbially speaking). That's an abnormal extreme that most women do not go to in order to learn what you say you've learned and arrive where you say you've arrived. Every rule has exceptions, but it doesn't change the rule. Originally Posted by TheOracle

I didn’t say I HAD to become an escort to learn how to take care of a man. My 2 failed marriages taught me a lot. I do learn from my mistakes. But of course I also learned a lot from providing. I wouldn’t have been as successful at it if I didn’t learn how to make a man feel special, wanted, and appreciated, as well as a talented lover. I also learned a LOT from reading the forums on Eccie, especially the CoEd, the reviews and the Powder Room. I’m smart enough to listen to what the highly rated ladies have to say and also read in CoEd what the men value in a good provider.

And I don’t think all married women turn into sexless nags. I know a lot of very happy couples. Eccie just happens to cater to the men who are not happy in their relationships. Generally happy, satisfied men don’t visit escorts. Or have a membership on Eccie or P411. Which is fine with me, I loved being of service to them and making them feel good and wanted. This is an escort/client information website.specifically designed for hookups. So obviously there’s a very skewed opinion on marriage and a wife’s behavior here. It is not indicative of the state of most marriages in the US or worldwide.
GK, I think you've brought up a very good point. Generalizations of behavior are base levels of operation. But, you said you learned how to treat a man and you know many happy couples. Those couples also learned how to treat each other.

The key is learning how to treat others.

It is not natural to treat others well. It is natural to be selfish. The irony is that the person who learns to treat others well usually is much more satisfied than the person who puts himself/herself in first place.

The willing servant can have as much or more Power than the controlling master.
All Providers need to memorize that line. Originally Posted by Admiral Giggle
All Wives need to memorize that...
Well I started this question wondering why my S/O didn’t want to give me head anymore and it turns out she actually does enjoy it because she gave it to me last night (no special occasion) and I fucked her like there was no tomorrow. I asked her later why she usually doesn’t like giving me head and she said she actually love to be cause it makes my dick extra hard which she loves.

It’s either that or she is on eccie and has read my post which means we have way bigger issues lol. But highly unlikely!! Lol so I guess we all have an opinion and what’s right or wrong for one is t necessary for the other.
Funny because when i was dating and in a relationship i always went to the bj first. Especially if i wasnt in the mood for sex. He would be like wait slow down... I go faster. Boom you done. Take yo ass to sleep lol Originally Posted by Carmella_love69





Now that is funny stuff but what was your longish relationship.
Awe. You guys are making me sad. I do not understand why women stop participating or withhold sex from their husbands. Men are simple creatures. Feed them and fuck/suck them=happy. How difficult is that? Good thing you all know where to go to get your fixes!
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Kendall that's its right there " Feed them and fuck/suck them=happy" We are very simple .