You go to Europe, just about every bathroom in apartments and homes or hotel/motel rooms have bidets.
They come standard like a bathroom vanity sink or a toilet.
Over here if you want a bidet in your bathroom while you are building your home, it costs extra and a lot more than what it would cost to purchase a toilet and get it installed.
Both women and men in most European countries were taught since they were kids to wash themselves after using the restroom.
They take personal hygiene very seriously over there.