Why the two step process?

I will wait till I see them in the parking lot, then tell them which stairwell and floor. So they never get my actual address

I will wait till I see them in the parking lot, then tell them which stairwell and floor. So they never get my actual address Originally Posted by hottieashley90

That practice as well as wanting to keep the guy on the phone after the second call until they are in your incall are fine, just so long as the guy knows before hand what to expect.

They might not want to say the car they're driving or keep their phone on them. Keys & donation only.

Also, if we've never met, if you get to see us before we can see you, that is not fair.

If you turn out to be my old highschool English teacher, and you see me but then ghost because you don't want me to know my English teacher provides extracurricular tutoring, then you know I'm in the hobby, but Ive got nothing going on you. There is no mutual assured destruction. You out me, I out you....


Cynical...yes.


However, if you open the door and we both see each other at the same time, it's even. We both know we each are in the hobby. You can't hold it over me nor I over you.

Ultimately though, it comes down to if we go through your verification process and get an appointment set up and then get suprised by additional screening requirements to get to you, it is frustrating.

I will wait till I see them in the parking lot, then tell them which stairwell and floor. So they never get my actual address Originally Posted by hottieashley90

Jesus Christ. You can’t be serious white that statement. Wow just Wow.

I will wait till I see them in the parking lot, then tell them which stairwell and floor. So they never get my actual address

If I never found out the address and I still made it to the parking lot what creepy method did I use to get there?
And if I am in the parking lot I gotta be pretty stupid to not be able to figure out the address. Likely is posted somewhere for anyone with eyes to read. LOL

We have to come down a few intelligence levels to follow some of these silly request, I always think to my self, don't I have the full address/location once I finally make it in the door? Hooker logic sometimes

I remember in the early days when I was dipping in and out of tricking and smart phones were non existing, I set up a session with a young Latina stacked PAWG through CL, we met a few miles from my house,

she jumped in my car and layed the seat back and took her through a road racing qualifying session before we arrived, had the gate open and went in the back door, she had no idea where she was at.

We had a great hour of xxx time and took her back to her car in the same matter. We were both young amateurs but I was not stupid from the get go.

I will wait till I see them in the parking lot, then tell them which stairwell and floor. So they never get my actual address Originally Posted by hottieashley90

I'm just going to assume you mean they don't get your actual address in any kind of written or spoken form.

I'm just going to assume you mean they don't get your actual address in any kind of written or spoken form. Originally Posted by L.A.

I'm assuming she understands they'll be able to see the apartment number once we arrive so she must mean just never speak it or text it, which isn't a bad idea.

Yes I give them the address to the complex but not my number. But most of the time I will ask to meet at a coffee shop or bar close by if the guy is comfortable with it. We will sit and chat for a few minutes maybe get a drink (not taking away from their time) to make sure that we both are ok with one another. Then I'll have them follow me. But if that's not an option then I go with the whole 2 step process.

It's for safety for the both of us really.

i never meet them at my home, and when at hotels i dont give them the room number until they are there, or atleast say they are. but a few dick wads play full retard and never actually come to my door. and it is because of these pos that the rest of you have rules. i will switch rooms after that happens because once i did have some random ass dude show up to my door knocking incessantly, fitting the description of the hobbyist that ghosted the night before. too many games played call for safety measures. if you dont like that logic move the fuck on.

Yes I give them the address to the complex but not my number. But most of the time I will ask to meet at a coffee shop or bar close by if the guy is comfortable with it. We will sit and chat for a few minutes maybe get a drink (not taking away from their time) to make sure that we both are ok with one another. Then I'll have them follow me. But if that's not an option then I go with the whole 2 step process.

It's for safety for the both of us really. Originally Posted by hottieashley90

Let's hope the stranger you met 15mins ago doesn't flip out when he gets you in the room alone, The reality is that there is no sure thing with anything in the hobby. Like any fast $ hustle, there's always a high risk for things to go south in the worst way