Would you send your Lawyer a random text saying "hey what's up" .... or your accountant or your doctor? I don't think so.
If they allowed that to happen .... they would be inundated with folks trying to charm their way into special services.
Same with us .... who view this as a business.
Depending on who the text is coming from .. I MIGHT respond .... Hello! Are you wanting to meet up today?
If the response is no .... or maybe later this week .... then I just say I'm busy now, and most likely ignore their text next time.
So often I see the ladies here complain about how the guys view them as less than. "We're not robots, we're people too!" But now I'm seeing how irritated you are when a guy, such as the OP, communicates in a civil, organic manner like you're an actual human being. Smh. Which one is it? It doesn't work both ways.
Originally Posted by TheOracle
The robots thing in my opinion has nothing to do with text messages.
It is mostly about how many times a day we can f*ck or are expected to.
Its about actually creating a connection with someone before they jump your bones.
It's about treating the lady with respect instead of an object.
Of course it would be nice to only have customers walk through the door who were guaranteed to purchase something, but that's not how the business works
Originally Posted by TheOracle
Oh really? HMMMM .... I definitely don't want people shopping in my store who does not intend to buy. The merchandise is for REAL customers to gawk at with solid intentions.
I don't act like it stops me in my tracks and wastes hours of my time, because it doesn't. Takes a few seconds.
Originally Posted by TheOracle
You would if it were happening two or three times a day .... several days of the week.