what are your thoughts about dating a provider?

Remember the ultimate aphrodisiac for a narcissist is attention.. when u stop doing that they find another source of supply. The narcissist cannot survive without a constant source of supply. Once your on to them or begin to question your done and all their hostility comes out

Yellowfever, you've made a lot of solid points. But keep in mind, not all providers are the same and not all their decisions makings are very great. Yes , they do want a normal life, however - outside of selling their body, what other life skillset do they have with their limited english? Some do live day to day with no plans living the luxury life which they cant have if they quit, some work to send money to their families, some save money so they can focus on opening a legal business in the future. These girls have expiration dates on their bodies with different goals.

"how comfortable are you with having sex with a lady that did 10 others that day?" Yellow, remember which group of people you are talking to when you say this... everyone in this forum including you are not normal people lol... If you had this mindset to begin with , you would of never created an account with eccie. Guys here are able to oversee that in this forum.

every girl is different. inside or outside this business.

My acct was created so I could monitor her activity especially after she told me she stopped. Oh btw on my birthday I met her at her spa and read the next day how a guy fucked her as I was waiting
And yes I heard him called her out and got complete denial then saw the review

we need to go get a beer man, so you can vent everything out lol

Unless you have spent considerable time in many parts of Asia and are well versed in the standards and norms of the people in each country, there is a temptation to lump them all together into a single and common set of characteristics, and worse, to superimpose Western culture over the full spectrum of customs found across the region. These tendencies are completely understandable since we are who we are and we live where we live.

Almost every observation and related commentary on this thread is spot on, so the point of my own remarks is not to rebut or correct anyone's perceptions about the challenges ( or near impossibility) of maintaining any kind of committed relationship with a working girl. However, virtually the same complexities apply, in varying degrees, to many Asian women, regardless of place of origin, profession, education level, financial status or skill sets. I've known Chinese providers to fall genuinely and deeply in love, and Korean CPAs who would be satisfied to give up their prestigious careers if they could find a sugar daddy. I've experienced Viet "massage" therapists that save every penny from their work in order to quit and open up their own nail bar or tea shop, and Thai cruise directors that expect to receive a dowry and/or a healthy allowance to be able to continue to support their mother and father should you take them away from a good paying job. Typecasting is very hard to do with the exception of one universal truth, wherever she may be from: a SO will always be a distant second to her family in importance, and the money has to come from somewhere, whether she makes it on her back or yours.

Thanks for an interesting thread, gents, and regrets to those who may have been "played". Best wishes for the holidays and a better 2021.

I'd consider it but she would need to 100% separate herself from the Spa scene. Full spectrum STI testing for atleast a year every 3 months. Zero tolerance for her returning to the scene even once. I've seen girls outside the Spa and they are fun. Sex is much more spontaneous and passionate when it happens.

Jesus Christ...why

Why do you think I have been gone so long. I was with a well known provider.

Was or are, lol

we need to go get a beer man, so you can vent everything out lol Originally Posted by Dodobeans

Hell, I'm on my third bottle of Jack Daniels just reading these posts, and I don't have a story of suffer

Great thread. and deep. Lots of wisdom here..

Was. I will say that all women have drama. That still wont steer me to the other team.

Hell, I'm on my third bottle of Jack Daniels just reading these posts, and I don't have a story of suffer

Great thread. and deep. Lots of wisdom here.. Originally Posted by Chung Tran

I'm on my second bottle of Blanton's after I ran out of Macallan's. If many more respond, I may need to make a liquor store run.

Why do you think I have been gone so long. I was with a well known provider. Originally Posted by Texas Walker Ranger

Who was it?

Lots of good comments. A few things to add.

At the high volume places the girls make $30K - $50K per month. Some work 6 months a year and others 12 months a year. You would be shocked at how many millionaires are working at the AMPs - I know a lot. Most of these girls have more money than the fuckers walking in the door and laugh at how poor the clients are. The exceptions are the girls with drug and spending problems but less of these than you might think.

As stated before, most of the Asian girls want to take care of their family and kids - no different than us. Quite a few have kids but fewer are married. Almost all of them have learned that they can't depend upon a man to support them. If they want, they have to be willing to go get it. Outside of work most are completely normal but are very focused on making money - if they weren't then they would have quit already. Very few of you guys can replace the $300K - 500K a year these girls make tax free and thus don't really have a chance. Most of the girls own multiple houses with usually one in Korea, China, etc. and one in the US if they have green card/US citizenship.

Some of the girls have a definitive plan to make X amount of money or work Y amount of time and then quit. Others become addicted to making money and their happiness is tied to the amount of money in their overseas and US checking accounts.


I've been told 30-40% of the guys are able to fuck OK (i.e. the girls would say your cock works), ~10% of the guys are able to kiss in a way that doesn't turn off the girl, and only about 5% can lick a pussy OK. As said before 99% of the sex is acting on their part. Working girls know that their longevity is based on 1) Being pretty 2) Looking young 3) Service and 4) Talking in that order. I've seen guys list the age of a girl as 27 when I know she is 44

If you are going to date an AMP girl you had better be wealthy enough they feel secure about not working and willing to spend a lot of money on therapy (for her and you).

Excellent insights qf8.