You can say how you think things should be all you want, it doesn't change the fact that you are paying for time with people, not sex robots. Originally Posted by TheBizzSex Robots.... hmmmm
- Navcomm
- 09-17-2011, 02:31 PM
- Richardson570
- 09-18-2011, 04:23 PM
- dfwninja
- 09-18-2011, 07:02 PM
If money was all it took to make a woman's motor run, then we'd be sloppy wet every time a cashier in WalMart opened the cash drawer or we cashed our paychecks. It doesn't work like that buddy. You gotta give a little to get a lot. I don't charge extra for teaching a sex education class. Seems to me you need to be my first student. Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihani used to go for hours when I was a teenager, with no end in sight, msog wasn't even considered I was lucky to get a ssog. Ladies would wear out way before I did. I had to learn HOW to have sex before that got better. I will tell you that my stamina is still very high and I have probably a 50% completion rate so far.
That being said, Hotlips has it right, ladies would enjoy more time having sex with you if they enjoy the sex. it's about the how. I learned that and it got much better for me too. Sometimes, when it's more enjoyable for the lady, you'll find it's more enjoyable for you, and you may not take as long if you are enjoying it more.
I've gone 2 hrs and not came, and I've came in 15min with all the correct buttons were hit. it's who you are with and what they can do for you and what you can do for them, to get them in the mood to "do for you". that's what sex is about.
if you think this game is about a credit card swiper on a redbox machine, you need to learn more about sex, and you will enjoy things much more.
P.S. There are plenty of women that want it for more than an hour, I've been with some that demanded that I continue (you know who you are
communication and finding the right girl for you is the key.
- Richardson570
- 09-18-2011, 07:06 PM
There is a great book called "She Comes First" -- I think it's a great guidline for how to treat women BCD no matter what your relationship is with them.
- onthespot
- 09-19-2011, 07:45 AM
- Guest010712-2
- 09-19-2011, 02:14 PM
- MOCHAakaMOCHA
- 09-19-2011, 08:58 PM
If money was all it took to make a woman's motor run, then we'd be sloppy wet every time a cashier in WalMart opened the cash drawer or we cashed our paychecks. It doesn't work like that buddy. You gotta give a little to get a lot. I don't charge extra for teaching a sex education class. Seems to me you need to be my first student. Originally Posted by hotlips_houlihan
I lol'd.
- dallasBP
- 11-10-2011, 02:03 PM
Why would a guy who can fuck for almost an hour straight have to pay for pussy? Originally Posted by trynagetlaidBecause its MUCH easier than trolling bars and cultivating a relationship. Going 1hr plus is not that uncommon for me, or a few other guys I know. In a three hour double session, I'd expect at least 2hr+ of actually screwing.
That said, you should ALWAYS know the girl, what she likes, and what she's feeling. It does not feel that good to look down, while you're pounding away, and seeing her wincing and trying not to cry. Either get more lube, or have more foreplay. If I just wanted to play for an hour, I'd play with myself. I want, at least, the illusion of passion, and you can't have that if she's miserable. When she's thrusting back, burying her head in your neck --- that's what this is about.
That said, there are plenty of girls who love a good long screw, find ones you like, and stick to those.
- Guest081013-1
- 11-10-2011, 02:11 PM
Betcha I can outfuck his wallet.Originally Posted by Lana Warren
I love LANA... high 5 to that one. I can fuck as long as the ATM doesn't say you reached your maximum limit for the day. So, bring it!!!!!!!!!!! Prove it.. and then do a review on WHO tapped out first... promise it will be YOU darlin. Any one of my reviews show I can squirt all hour long back to back.. and never get tired and never quit. So, GOOD LUCK to you.. if you choose ME. hehehe
Amber Rain
- London Rayne
- 11-10-2011, 02:45 PM
I've been cursed/blessed with being able to fuck for an hour. After seeing some discussion here recently about guys not wanting to chat and socialize on the clock, I thought I would bring this topic up.No offense, but if there is no bj or daty, it's NOT gfe! Sooo, if you want just fking, I would charge for a pse...most would. That's just being unrealistic. A vagina is not just going to get wet at the sight of you dude bwahahah! Right!
I schedule a 1 hour session. After the pleasantries are dispatched - undressing, covering up, chit chat, I like to go right to the fucking. Sometimes I don't want a BJ, or DATY...sometimes I just want to fuck.
Some ladies actually enjoy the hour-long pounding, but some don't.
My thought is - I've paid for an hour, if I can keep it up for my time without going over (and I can finish up on queue), then there should be no issue with constant penis-in-vagina for that hour with the occasional check of the cover still in place.
Is that unreasonable? If a provider needs to stop fucking for one reason or another (soreness), a half hour into an hour-long session, what is my recourse? To reschedule and only pay the half hour rate?
Perhaps a re-phrasing of this question would be: in an hour-long session, how much of that time do men/women expect to fuck? Originally Posted by Monte Cito
If you pay for an hour of gfe and want a pse, that's on YOU! Most providers would agree that what you are requesting is out of the norm in what we consider a gfe. Never in my life had a BF that was dumb enough to think some foreplay would not be needed. I don't see even above average men for that very reason...too many have no clue about the female body. We are not machines that get wet on contact, so if that's what you want you should pay extra not less!
Then again, I am a realist so don't mind me. I don't even mess with guys who see providers as nothing but cum dumpsters. I would just tell the guy upfront, to see someone else rather than take his money and not be able to deliver. I prefer actual "dates" vs. a hole to fill types, but that's just me.
- dallasBP
- 11-10-2011, 04:56 PM
Then again, I am a realist so don't mind me. I don't even mess with guys who see providers as nothing but cum dumpsters. I would just tell the guy upfront, to see someone else rather than take his money and not be able to deliver. I prefer actual "dates" vs. a hole to fill types, but that's just me. Originally Posted by London Rayne
-- Love the reply, and agree
- LazurusLong
- 11-10-2011, 05:11 PM
I prefer actual "dates" vs. a hole to fill types, but that's just me. Originally Posted by London RayneSo, I'll take a wild guess and say that means you'll never be offering a blow and go special?
I mean, take a look at that thread in the Request forum with the number of active men on this site looking for just a quick blowjob and not a "date" with kissing or even fucking. They just want to nut in some providers mouth SO based on that post and others on the boards, it would seem that just because YOU want an illusion that you're not a prostitute most likely so you can sleep at night because you don't appear to understand your profession very well, great, but don't lump guys who want other things as being "not the norm".
What gives you the right to define "the norm" when it appears the paying customers have a completely different idea of what that happens to be in this world of P4P.
Hell, check out the other forums like Strip clubs or Other that talks about street walkers. No "dates" like it appears you think are the norm but yet there are hundreds and hundreds of reviews of those 'cum dumpster" sessions as you call them.
- Guest081013-1
- 11-10-2011, 05:14 PM
London, I totally agree.
My above reply was rushed and had to finish real quick. But, for the rest of the comments... I totally agree. My policy is if a guy doesn't DATY, he will not have a session with me. I only do BNG for regulars where there is already established chemistry. I only do FNG for them as well. It does take stimulation. MEN are visual creatures. Women are a little more complex. We don't get stimulated with just the mere thought of sex to come. Men come over with dicks hard upon walk in... but I still have to have conversation, touching, kissing is a must, daty for oral stimulation and have chemistry with them to in fact, give THEM the full GFE experience. If I was the girlfriend in REAL life, I would expect that so why not while providing the GFE?
To the poster:
You can find that in a provider, but to find a great, "wanna come back and do again" time... you will need to provide the BFE. That kind of sex comes when there is a mutual turn on. The next time you're on your way to the provider's home that has already HAD you before, she would probably be turned on in knowing who, what you look like, the great time you had last time together, the size of your penis, remember what you did to her, to be on her mind to turn her on enough to skip the chit chat and straight fuck you for an hour straight. BUT, til you have established chemistry with someone, you will be forever searching for someone that is genuinely turned on enough to fuck you for an hours worth of time.
To the people that have said, "It's your money and time, do what you want..."
He has only paid for the time of the provider... it stil remains HER body and if she gets sore and tired... it's up to her to take control of the matter. No, I'm not naive to think that "men don't pay for sex" on here. But, it still remains OUR body's that we loan out for that time we post rates for whether it be for 30 minutes, 60 minutes, or overnighters. We are still in control of anything and everything that we say YES to during a session. If the provider and hobbyist are comfortable in fucking for 60 minutes upon arrival,... then feel free. But, if at any point the lady says, "NO!" then, it results back to the old, firm statement of "NO MEANS NO." I just want any new girl out there that may be reading this to know that. I get asked by new girls that just sign up all the time, "Does anything have to go during session because they are paying for it?" The answer is "no". Its still your body and if at any time you're uncomfortable... leave or end session. NO MEANS NO.
OK. Off of the "serious" note...
Like I said poster.... BRING IT and I can show you that you don't hold the record for the longest fucking time. I have lube and you can bend me over the couch upon arrival.. but don't expect it to be a mutual turn on, GFE experience. Anyone can fuck, but to have chemistry and to keep you turned on, I suggest you not be selfish and put forth a little effort like providers have to. Would you be ok with showing up to a providers home, seeing her in a crusty tshirt with holes in it, messed up hair, unshaved legs, and no make up with no shower prior to your arrival? Of course not. We do all of that to turn you on upon arrival. It's called effort. We want the same from the men too.
If this is what you seek... there's always Harry Hines in Dallas and a trash head, but on here you are dealing with classy ladies that don't need to make a quick sale for the next fix. Act like it... GEEEZ!!!
Amber Rain
My above reply was rushed and had to finish real quick. But, for the rest of the comments... I totally agree. My policy is if a guy doesn't DATY, he will not have a session with me. I only do BNG for regulars where there is already established chemistry. I only do FNG for them as well. It does take stimulation. MEN are visual creatures. Women are a little more complex. We don't get stimulated with just the mere thought of sex to come. Men come over with dicks hard upon walk in... but I still have to have conversation, touching, kissing is a must, daty for oral stimulation and have chemistry with them to in fact, give THEM the full GFE experience. If I was the girlfriend in REAL life, I would expect that so why not while providing the GFE?
To the poster:
You can find that in a provider, but to find a great, "wanna come back and do again" time... you will need to provide the BFE. That kind of sex comes when there is a mutual turn on. The next time you're on your way to the provider's home that has already HAD you before, she would probably be turned on in knowing who, what you look like, the great time you had last time together, the size of your penis, remember what you did to her, to be on her mind to turn her on enough to skip the chit chat and straight fuck you for an hour straight. BUT, til you have established chemistry with someone, you will be forever searching for someone that is genuinely turned on enough to fuck you for an hours worth of time.
To the people that have said, "It's your money and time, do what you want..."
He has only paid for the time of the provider... it stil remains HER body and if she gets sore and tired... it's up to her to take control of the matter. No, I'm not naive to think that "men don't pay for sex" on here. But, it still remains OUR body's that we loan out for that time we post rates for whether it be for 30 minutes, 60 minutes, or overnighters. We are still in control of anything and everything that we say YES to during a session. If the provider and hobbyist are comfortable in fucking for 60 minutes upon arrival,... then feel free. But, if at any point the lady says, "NO!" then, it results back to the old, firm statement of "NO MEANS NO." I just want any new girl out there that may be reading this to know that. I get asked by new girls that just sign up all the time, "Does anything have to go during session because they are paying for it?" The answer is "no". Its still your body and if at any time you're uncomfortable... leave or end session. NO MEANS NO.
OK. Off of the "serious" note...
Like I said poster.... BRING IT and I can show you that you don't hold the record for the longest fucking time. I have lube and you can bend me over the couch upon arrival.. but don't expect it to be a mutual turn on, GFE experience. Anyone can fuck, but to have chemistry and to keep you turned on, I suggest you not be selfish and put forth a little effort like providers have to. Would you be ok with showing up to a providers home, seeing her in a crusty tshirt with holes in it, messed up hair, unshaved legs, and no make up with no shower prior to your arrival? Of course not. We do all of that to turn you on upon arrival. It's called effort. We want the same from the men too.
If this is what you seek... there's always Harry Hines in Dallas and a trash head, but on here you are dealing with classy ladies that don't need to make a quick sale for the next fix. Act like it... GEEEZ!!!
Amber Rain
- exoticbabygirl
- 11-10-2011, 05:22 PM
If up to you...howyou would like just let the person know ahead of time...I like them but if you can go for the hr lets go if you not sure we can try lol...
- bbwhunter
- 11-10-2011, 05:57 PM
It can take me a while to pop at times but 50 minutes of straight ahead banging would give me a heartattack. I'd much rather have oral for 45 minutes and then 15 minutes of hot sex. If I find myself close while screwing I usually drop down for some daty. It keeps her juices flowing and plus I just love it. Hell give me 55 minutes of 69'n and 5 minutes of sex and I'm good to go.