who in your opinion is the nicest provider?

Honestly, all of the providers i have seen have been wonderful, But Lola is def the nicest in my opinion. Everyone wont agree, but she gets my vote. Originally Posted by Ieatkatfromtheback

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There is no doubt that the majority of local ladies are very nice but Lolita is definitely at the top of the list of ladies in her age range in every aspect.

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There is no doubt that the majority of local ladies are very nice but Lolita is definitely at the top of the list of ladies in her age range in every aspect. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

And you have to be one of the nicest hobbiest around & that is a FACT!

I vote for Cendell M as well.

She knows why.

I vote for Cendell M as well.

She knows why. Originally Posted by Jacky S

Thank you Jacky and yes I do know why lol

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There is no doubt that the majority of local ladies are very nice but Lolita is definitely at the top of the list of ladies in her age range in every aspect. Originally Posted by MarcellusWalluz

I'm so happy to have top notch clientele like you @MarcellusWalluz and @leakatfromtheback who treat me like a princess. Some girls have crappy clients who mistreat them but I'm lucky to wake up in paradise everyday, direct result of me being intentional and picky with whom I see ❤️

fancy in heels. retired now, and i never met her, but she's the nicest provider.

anyone who bakes cookies or makes dinner for a client is in the running though.

i disagree with the prostitutes comment. they're human. they get crushes on their clients. hell they sometimes want to marry their clients, and the word on p411 is sometimes they do. Originally Posted by pxmcc

"Prostitutes" and "human" aren't mutually exclusive. In fact, I'd speculate that ALL prostitutes are, in fact, human beings. Or at least I really hope so....

Also, googling the definition of the word gives back:

a person, in particular a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.

I know there's the stereotype of escorts providing emotional intimacy and company but let's be real here: we're being sex first and foremost, and if sex isn't on the menu, most of us aren't spending the money. So I think the definition is accurate.

Hint: Calling them prostitutes isn't disrespectful. Treating them disrespectfully is.

Ms Fancy was a gem. As well as her friend Adventuress4you. Originally Posted by DoubleEagle

I had an overnight at the Omni with Adventures4u and yes she was a gem. One of the best overnights( I necessarily wouldn't call it that because it started around 2 pm and lasted to checkout time. Just unbelievably nice lady and actually I gleaned wisdom from her on how to maneuver around this world. A part of me is sad to see the greats leave but another greater part rejoices at them closing this chapter

I don’t see it quite the same way. Yes, these relationships are transactional and, honestly, the really smart providers have perfected guarding their hearts to protect themselves from developing feelings.

However, we talk and share about our lives. Over time, and many repeat visits, this can lead to stronger bonds. I’m not talking about dating or marriage but, rather, cultivating mutual respect and admiration. We’re all human after all. Originally Posted by RickB_4718

I didn't mean to say "prostitutes" in a derogatory way.

Yes, the good ones use their professional skill to make a transaction feel authentic while keeping their own emotions and real-world info hidden and compartmentalized. But I think what you perceive as mutual respect or a deepening bond is likely a testament to the skill of a good provider. NOT a sign of genuine connection.

The person you are "bonding" with, exists in the confines of her job. However natural it feels, the good ones are working, creating a fantasy. Apart from the sex, good providers curate a version of themselves to make their clients feel seen, which keeps them coming back. To mistake this for something more personal, is to overlook the invisible boundary between trick and prostitute. Again, not derogatory.

There is no "bonding" or even friendship that is being cultivated. This is a fantasy that we pay for. See how strong your "bond" is when you stop paying.

Sure, we are all human, but humans on the job play roles. Mistaking these roles for genuine connection is a disaster waiting to happen.

Years ago, Lilly of Lilly's Playhouse, and a lady named KIA (spelled like the car), were as nice as can be.

I can say without any hesitation that Lola is incredibly nice!!!

jpb

I'm so happy to have top notch clientele like you @MarcellusWalluz and @leakatfromtheback who treat me like a princess. Some girls have crappy clients who mistreat them but I'm lucky to wake up in paradise everyday, direct result of me being intentional and picky with whom I see ❤️ Originally Posted by Lolita22

That's right, BE SELECTIVE.... your comfort level & safety is on the line.
If he can't understand that= RED Flag

I have been really lucky in my independent ladies endeavors as only had mostly positive experiences usually the only ones that i dont have a great time with there is just a language barrier. IMO you kinda get what you put into your session if you go in just wanting to wham bam thank you mam you will get a lot of times a sex doll hooker that can talk, if you go in wanting more of a experience than a session, you will get more of a full on Companion experience,

As for stand out Nicest providers i actually have them in my sig on the other forum as usually the nicest also become my favorites but ill write them out here..also side note usually the ones that make the list for me do things that i dont put in my reviews that make them deserving of these spots as those things are more so glimpses to who they are IRL than provider setting so it not my place to share them IMO

As always ill start with my ATF LatinaMoxie (or ladymoxie on here i believe) she was the second independent companion i saw in houston and we just had a instant connection as our humor and way we just go about things matched well together, She is not only nice to me though she looks out for a lot of people on the other forum to have safe and great experiences ladies and guys.

Lola98 im sure will be mentioned a lot as her whole persona in the sessions she provides is to be the ultimate pampering session from the moment you walk into the door she is there to please you in everyway she can from emotionally to physically. She really is just a caring person albeit one that doesn't like taking crap from people lol as she will be quick to call people out on BS

CarolinaSandoval this might be a more a YMMV one but i connected very well with her and her friend DaliaMiller they both always go way above and beyond to be caring and nice to you. They both are just Genuine nice ladies who put their heart into what all they do

Brooke Wilde not sure a list of this sort can be complete without mentioning her, she was the first companion i saw and is probably the sole reason i found this hobby was for me here in houston. she has a genuine aura of just compassion and niceness that you cant fake. She holds your hand when needed all the while making sure she rocks your world in every which way possible. I will always have a soft place in my heart and a fondness for this woman.

Vicky Zafirah this one surprised me that i would be adding her to my list as when i first joined the other forum she almost came off intimidating and took no crap from no one and nobody. A mutual acquaintance though told me that her and i would hit it off and than some so i reached out to her, and man she was right this lady is super nice and caring she just also has a spitfire attitude when needed. she is very protective of not only the girls but the guys as well and just wants everyone to enjoy themselves safely.

but yeah all these above go above and beyond to be nice in caring in their own way

honorable mentions as i think these ones are a little too YMMV, Kai, THE Supreme Deity, Novacain, Safarii_XXX, these 4 are super nice to me but they to some might not come off as that it just all depends more so on you than them how they will come across and how they will treat you