I appreciate all of the replies. I am surprised by the results. I thought this was going to go the other way. Originally Posted by Brooke WildeWhile it is true that a hobbyist is paying for looks and service, the definition on where that line of looks/service ratio is blurred by who you ask. As this poll indicates, an overwhelming majority values service over looks. IMHO, there are unlimited search parameters on porn sites you can use to find what you a looking for be it a scene, looks of the porn star, ect. and get yourself off for free. So, I feel I am paying more for service then looks when it comes to in person meets.
Let's face it, if the shoe were on the other foot, would you pay for a guy who, in your opinion, has a gorgeous physique and dashing looks, but knows nothing about DATY, likes one or two positions only and while your are in a position you can see his face and he had his eyes closed, mentally checked out (had to use the little blue pill to maintain) and acted like you were a revolving door ATM? Or would it be better to pay for a guy who had decent looks, rocked your world BCD and made your feel glad you are a female with his performance?