Showing your ID to a provider - yes or no

It truly trips me out the extent some dawgs go to to hide their identity, with burn phones etc. Yet they still drive a car, that is registered in their name, with a license plate that could get all the info anyone would want, short of a SS#

For a hobbyist like you that doesn't tell anyone your real name, It just wouldn't get you a date with me, maybe with another girl but not with me. Every escort is different. The screening form on my site is quite extensive. For all newbies, I would have to get a real name to book a date. It is my body and if your little wee wee is going to have ANY fun, it is a requirement and there are no exceptions. Case closed. What does an ID do? Well If a newbie were to give me a fake name and I ask for his ID, he does not get a date. He is asked to leave right away or I will leave. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

An ID isn't going to prove someone is who they say they are or that they are safe. It's not worth the paper it's printed (or laminated) on. I could easily get a REAL passport in someone else's name with my picture. With an appropriate beard, I could have employment verified in the fake name. If I were a provider, this is what I would be scared of b/c this kind of person could be violent/rapist/killer. Especially with current technology.

Bottom line: if I were a provider I would only see hobbyists who have been given OKs by other ladies. I wouldn't open myself up to newbies. That way, I could call and ask the OK other detailed questions that would help with screening, but also might make the date better.

I'm pretty sure that an LE officer will have a drivers licence also. Probably many to choose from in fact. I don't see how showing you it to you is going to keep you from taking a ride downtown.

It truly trips me out the extent some dawgs go to to hide their identity, with burn phones etc. Yet they still drive a car, that is registered in their name, with a license plate that could get all the info anyone would want, short of a SS# Originally Posted by Louigi

I can get if you're a CEO or a politician, but the funny part is the guys who yell the most about this, make less than 50k a freaking year at some blue collar job that no one gives a crap about...wtf, who wants to blackmail YOU lol. I have a hell of a lot more to lose than that, and would not risk it for a few bucks lol. If I am going to risk my rep as a provider and everything I own in RL, you can bet I am going for the gold!

I have a lot of buddies who work offshore and their own boss sets them up with escorts. If you are the pizza boy or work at Home Depot, no one cares if you're seeing a hooker...really! It's not like you had to get a Masters degree to get that job.

I find the guys who truly do have a lot of money and a thriving career are the very ones who up the info. Why? I guess because they think they are invincible. I have never had a problem getting real info. from men who are "truly" successful. Imagine that.

It boggles my mind that some men assume we are all just broke azz hookers who need something from them after they leave lol. We make more money than most of the guys in this thing, and a lot of us have BFs and husbands. The ones that don't have a pot to piss in are the girls you should be worried about, but then again they are in a price range that allows the average joe to see them...you'll put your thing in her and not trust her with your info. Makes perfect sense lol.

If she is not trustworthy enough to know who you are, why would you assume she does not have an std? It's a character issue that goes across the board.

Just hilarious.

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I would assume this would be a topic discussed long before walking thru the door or even getting to the parking lot. I would think that anyone who makes this a practice is going to have it stated on their P441, Eccie and personal web sites. It will come up during the screening process and if it did not and you show up at the door when it comes up then something is more than likely up or someone has gotten nervous for some reason. Picture ID’s meant more years ago than they do today. They still are a good form of checking someone out in most cases though. In the hobby world it is very easy to get verified and really those who actually do verify the people they are meeting with are mainly thinking of safety for themselves and or trying to protect their identity. I never have an issue sharing my info if requested to by a lady but at that point and I am already asking for a date I have satisfied myself about her and who she is. Then once you meet, trust is more important than anything.

If it's a discount thing that I offer to certain guys, yes...only to make sure it is either their Bday or they are active in the service. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Can I get a A.A.R.P. discount?

I can get if you're a CEO or a politician, but the funny part is the guys who yell the most about this, make less than 50k a freaking year at some blue collar job that no one gives a crap about...wtf, who wants to blackmail YOU lol. Originally Posted by London Rayne

You're looking at this from the wrong angle. This is exactly the guy who has the most to lose, which is why he is the most resistant to giving up his ID. In his mind, if his wife/so/family finds out, he loses everything. I mean everything. His wife divorces him, maybe gets a little alimony and child support. The inlaws make him persona non grata. He loses all the friends he made as a family man. If he works in her father's business, he loses his job, too. His life has been demolished...all for a little POA.

Now the CEO/politician has resources to bounce back on. CEOs don't necessarily lose their jobs over seeing a lousy whore. In some circles, it's expected. Likewise, the politician. As can be seen by a lot of examples. David Vitter, Eliot Spitzer.

It's the average Joe, married w/ kids, who is upstanding citizen, goes to church, sings in choir, volunteers at Red Cross or a local day care who is going to lose the most if outed. He'll lose everything. So, he'll be the most cautious about giving out his RL ID.

I'm pretty sure that an LE officer will have a drivers licence also. Probably many to choose from in fact. I don't see how showing you it to you is going to keep you from taking a ride downtown. Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

I never said it did. That is what screening is for. Yall can argue it all day but in 2 years I've never had a problem. That is what matters.

I never said it did. That is what screening is for. Yall can argue it all day but in 2 years I've never had a problem. That is what matters. Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Just MHO, but this makes you ripe for taking a fall.

Just MHO, but this makes you ripe for taking a fall. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

Think whatever you want Charles. A smart provider never gives away all her screening secrets. It's like giving away touring secrets. Why should she? There are more than 4 ways of screening. If I can't verify that the guy is who he says he is there is no way that I will see him ID or not. When I go to an appointment, I am confident that my date is who he says he is. The last thing I am worried about is LE.

You're looking at this from the wrong angle. This is exactly the guy who has the most to lose, which is why he is the most resistant to giving up his ID. In his mind, if his wife/so/family finds out, he loses everything. I mean everything. His wife divorces him, maybe gets a little alimony and child support. The inlaws make him persona non grata. He loses all the friends he made as a family man. If he works in her father's business, he loses his job, too. His life has been demolished...all for a little POA.

Now the CEO/politician has resources to bounce back on. CEOs don't necessarily lose their jobs over seeing a lousy whore. In some circles, it's expected. Likewise, the politician. As can be seen by a lot of examples. David Vitter, Eliot Spitzer.

It's the average Joe, married w/ kids, who is upstanding citizen, goes to church, sings in choir, volunteers at Red Cross or a local day care who is going to lose the most if outed. He'll lose everything. So, he'll be the most cautious about giving out his RL ID. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

This is exactly the guy that should either not do this or be so careful about who he sees that he does not have to worry about this issue. If he takes risks because the provider is cheap he is an idiot. There are plenty of reputable reasonably priced providers.

I never ask to see id..i dont see newbies so i dont need to see the id..

It truly trips me out the extent some dawgs go to to hide their identity, with burn phones etc. Yet they still drive a car, that is registered in their name, with a license plate that could get all the info anyone would want, short of a SS# Originally Posted by Louigi

I would never park at the front door. I would park at least a couple blocks away.

You guys are wasting your time. Providers will continue to ask for IDs AND not all men are scumbags. A lot of guys are willing to show their IDs whether you want to believe it or not. If a guy doesn't have p411, datecheck, or any of the screening site membership, he is required to show his ID. Why? Because I want to make sure that the name he gave me is HIS name. If he created a fake ID, fine. He would also have to pass a employment verification and that is one thing one cannot fake with me because of the system I have in place (This is to even get a date). Can't verify his employment? I won't see him. There was a guy that contacted me that claimed to be self employed. How was I able to verify him? I will not say but I used alternative methods to verify that he was not a serial killer. That guy spends $2,500 a month on me alone. I've seen him 3 times - never had a problem with him. I have said it once before and I will say it again, there are multiples ways of screening. Stop wasting your time. You are not going to change anything.

Years ago before I became an independent escort, I worked for the most reputable, high end agency in Charlotte, NC. ALL customers were required to show their ID and guess what? They all did with no problem. It is not like the agency had on their website that clients were required to show their ID. The clients did not know till the day of the appointment that an ID was required, can one create a fake ID with an hour's notice in their hotel room and no supplies? No. There goes your theory.

No one says ID will stop you from getting busted. It is simply a way to make sure the name the guy put on the screening form is really HIM. It is not a way to avoid law enforcement. For one to think that is very stupid. In Kentucky, Le can fuck you and still arrest you. In Charlotte, NC, they can grope you and still arrest you. The trick is to screen, screen, screen and follow your gut instincts. A piece of paper won't stop you from going to jail. So if you do not think I, Naomi, do not know what I am doing, you are mistaken. I know a lot more than I am willing to tell you. Enjoy your day!