How many providers out there had a client fall in love with you? not talking about in the first session, talking about after seeing you for a year or so and he gets you a ring. What did you do with the ring? what did you say?
Another note, if a client buys you a lavish gift like a car ... do you take it? I am sure this kind of arrangement would be like a sugar daddy situation but what if he is falling in love with you? hmmmmm
What if he is married and wants to leave his wife?
what if he tries to get you pregnant with the attempt to make you marry him?
Don't laugh, I have heard of this before....
Dear Hobbyist, fess up if this sounds familiar...we are all human. Originally Posted by Anita Lay
the only time I said I love you during a session was that one time...Wow! Maybe to some providers it may not be just a job to see you, but an adventure! Can a guy say to another guy "I love you" because he just found a new hero in this hobby world? Oh, I am not gay, I love women, just for the record. Just sayin'.
So everything was going along fine....I was getting a warmup Hummer. I set my beer on the top of her head while I was trimming my nails...Anyways...I forget to warn her that I was about to blow my load (I was watching the game) (ninth inning) ...Anyway...so I bust a huge nut in her mouth and she sneezed (she had a head cold) and my entire load came out her nose..LOL. She jumped back on the nob as I finished my beer..licked him clean she did. "I love you" I say as I crack open another beer for the bottom of the inning. Originally Posted by notanewbie
I've liked a few providers. I've driven miles out of my way to pick up a provider with car troubles and drive her home. She moved. There's at least two I'd not mind helping as a friend would... not sure about lending money, but heading over and helping with household maintenance (the simple-to-me stuff that can be messy/dusty). Never fell in love, but I've met many good women who worked as escorts. Originally Posted by saintsFanChrisI haven't truly fallen in love yet with a provider...but who knows if I will or not. I haven't hobbied in awhile and I am currently semi-involved with a pregnant single mom provider. What I mean by that is that I am helping her out somewhat financially. Like we went shopping for baby clothes and needs, maternity clothes for her, and groceries. I have taken her out for dinner and a movie so far. I really enjoy my time with her with NSA. I am not a true SD but I would like to get closer to her. I am in a messed up marriage and if it wasn't for my little girl, I would have been gone long time ago. She is really a simple and not materialistic person, and I guess that's why I fancy her.
Throughout History, men have been confusing a hard dick with being in love.How about "ditto" like in the movie Ghost.
My ATF and I have grown pretty close over the past couple of years. We have a standing order between us. We are allowed to say 'I luv you", not "I love you".
The "luv" means we have a great time together and enjoy each others company. It has nothing to do with the concept of "love".
When she text me and says 'luv ya". I know exaxctly what she means. Originally Posted by Jackie S