That's because most dudes learn from what they see. And what they see are pornos. Which isn't a good place to learn how to eat pussy. Most also don't really know their way around a pussy either. They just need some good instruction and practice.
Originally Posted by simpleton
Is there a map? Do we meet at the corner of clit and lips? Is there an out of bounds? Is it linear or circular? It's so fucking confusing. All that stuff all packed up in a small area. Then I hear most women are different. They all have rules. No inside,no direct stimulation,go slow,go fast,be sensual,be a man,do it for 45 minutes,press hard,no soft. Is there a pussyeaters of America membership? You seem to be an expert so I thought I would ask.