"PROVIDERS" & "HOBBYIST"why do they lie?

Still Looking's Avatar
Always a turn off when a provider tells me how big my dick is,I have seen porn Originally Posted by ekim008
Pink Floyd's Avatar
It is as simple as this.

Yes, everybody lies. Why is not important. The only thing that matters is that you know and recognize the truth. But only if that matters to you.
JONBALLS's Avatar
"remember, its NOT a LIE if you BELIEVE it"...george costanza, aka buck nakid
Tulsa's Avatar
  • Tulsa
  • 11-27-2011, 07:09 PM
Smoking! I enjoy the "the dance" around this subject.

I get a kick out of "I coudn't tell reviews that included DFK etc.

Since I'm near "fetish" on my dislike of cig smoke(probably cost a ltr or two)

I like to think I can spot most smokers by their picture. So don't claim non-smoker after a couple or so reviews peg you as a puffer.

But please don't claim non-smoking status and have butts in te tray or your room smelling like smoke

I think providers have the right to know if it bugs them but probably smoking is the least of hygene concerns to worry about.
London Rayne's Avatar
Always a turn off when a provider tells me how big my dick is,I have seen porn Originally Posted by ekim008
Porn is HUGE...very possible you are quite big. You guys need to stop measuring your manhood against tree trunks, because most women prefer a guy who is of average size.
shorty's Avatar
Porn is HUGE...very possible you are quite big. You guys need to stop measuring your manhood against tree trunks, because most women prefer a guy who is of average size. Originally Posted by London Rayne

Guess I need to start measuring my manhood against twigs from the tree trunks!
London Rayne's Avatar
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, well look at the bright side Shorty, at least greek is "almost" possible with you at times.
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  • Tulsa
  • 11-27-2011, 09:08 PM
Wow
  • MrGiz
  • 11-27-2011, 11:22 PM
Lying in the hobby isn't much different than lying out in the so-called real world...
- People lie due to insecurities
- People lie due to jealousy
- People lie due to pure hatred
- People lie to embellish their own self-image
- People lie in an attempt to impress others
- People lie to hide and support other lies

Luckily... habitual liars are always the easiest to spot!
Naomi4u's Avatar
Isn't all of this hobby a fantasy anyway?

Cheesh, quit analyzing so damn much and enjoy life.

JMO.

Huck Originally Posted by urhuckleberry
Truer words have never been spoken.
A lot of you guys need to be lied to or else you'll get your feelings hurt.
EX. Guy: "Does that feel good baby?" Me: "Yes. Fuck me harder mmmmm" - that is usually a lie. The money you guys pay us buys more than just sex - we're supposed to pretend to like you (ummm gfe duh! lol). Any girl that tells you she's sexually attracted to most of the guys that walk into her room is lying. I am not. I have met decent to hot guys that I'd do for free but it's not an everyday thing. How's that some truth for you? Let's not even talk about the guys tht are SOOOO insecure and need to be validated every fucking minute *sigh*. I could go on and on and on. Thank goodness that I can actually stand to look at my regs - now those are lookers (all but two). Just saying'

See? Truth hurts.
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Does size matter? Not to me! The size of my penis has absolutely nothing to do with where or not I'm going to get off! If a provider ever asked, "How do you think your going to please with that little thing?" My answer would be "ME!" I'm a NON GFE hobbyist. I think its interesting that I tell providers that, and some are oh really, great! But then there are some that find that unusual and make it their mission in life to change me. I have given serious thought to telling providers I REFUSE to allow BBBJ! LOL Interesting how people always want what they can't have!

Does size matter? Not to me! The size of my penis has absolutely nothing to do with where or not I'm going to get off! If a provider ever asked, "How do you think your going to please with that little thing?" My answer would be "ME!" I'm a NON GFE hobbyist. I think its interesting that I tell providers that, and some are oh really, great! But then there are some that find that unusual and make it their mission in life to change me. I have given serious thought to telling providers I REFUSE to allow BBBJ! LOL Interesting how people always want what they can't have!
Originally Posted by Still Looking
But that is what I do best. ~sniff~
And what exactly makes you non GFE? I've oftened wondered what the difference is from a hobbyist standpoint. Does that just mean that you're all about pleasing you and not the provider during the session? That makes perfect sense to me, considering you're the one paying your hard-earned money to GET pleasured.
Still Looking's Avatar
But that is what I do best. ~sniff~
And what exactly makes you non GFE? I've oftened wondered what the difference is from a hobbyist standpoint. Does that just mean that you're all about pleasing you and not the provider during the session? That makes perfect sense to me, considering you're the one paying your hard-earned money to GET pleasured. Originally Posted by MissTThick
Absolutely my sexy provider! I reserve the kissing and DATY part of the relationship for my personal relationships! And yes I'm all about pleasing me! When I start getting paid, I'll be all about pleasing some one else! Then they can review me! Till then.....! Now I realize some guys big deal is getting gals to O and pleasuring them. Here is a news flash! What to please a provider? Schedule a session; Give her a massage from head to toe! Pay special attention to their feet! Give her a gift certificate to the high end store of your choice! Keep your mouth shut! NOW that’s pleasing a provider! Then once you get to know her, add dinner and drinks into the equation. But by all means keep that pesky sex shit out of it! We'll see how many bad reviews you get! Hell before long they'll start building statues of you! LOL

SL Disclaimer: My piss you off button is in the off mode. I am voicing my personal opinion and am not speaking for any one but myself nor am I telling anyone what they should do, or what they might choose is wrong!
pickupkid's Avatar
Fiction....most of these reviews are just that. When I read a review ..I look for the rate, real picture, age of the provider,measurements and weight the rest is fiction