I VERY recently did an overnight for $$$. I met him in the town he was in (I've known him for a LONG time), parked my car at his hotel and took my bag to his room, then we went out for drinks and snacks (it was WAY past supper time) and back to his room. While we didn't spend the ENTIRE night fucking our brains out, bcd activities were involved for a while that evening, middle of the night, and morning.
Now, would I do this for ANYONE? HELL NO!!!!!!!!!
However, I also have good, solid "relationships" with regular clients. I have one that I've helped build dog pens with, gone to auctions with, etc. He didn't pay me as a "no clock date". Did we do BCD? Of course. And he paid me what he normally does afterwards. The rest is just off the clock. Is he a bf or even a wanabe? HELL NO! But I guess here I should point out that I am a low-volume provider. I get to KNOW my clients, especially the regulars, over time. I'm always friendly. I am not the type that can just go in, having never chatted/emailed/talked/texted someone, suck and screw them for awhile, and it be ALL business. I'm just not wired that way. For those that DO want that kind of session, I am not the right one to see.
While I have no qualms doing PSE, I am mainly GFE and like to chitchat and carry on a conversation. Even if not DURING the session, at least prior to it.
As far as "clock-free"dates... I've never heard of it until tonight, but if someone offered, I would do it. There's certainly no harm in spending quality time with someone. However, my rate would be WAY WAY WAY lower than the grand range. I can't see trying to justify asking someone to spend what I charge for an actual overnight just to take me to dinner and a movie and "be seen". Then again, I am no one's idea of "eye candy" so I doubt anyone ever WOULD offer lmao!!!!!!!!!!
But like someone else pointed out, most of my regulars like the contact of being with someone else for awhile. I never just dash out the door after an hour. I've had hh's turn into 3 hours before just for the companionship. I did not ask for additional donation. That's just me. Spending non-bcd time with someone is no skin off my nose. It isn't like I have a crapload of other appointments I need to dash off for. As long as I can be home in time to do whatever needs to be done that day, I don't mind spending my time keeping guys company.
Again, I know I am in the minority with this. But I try to keep it as real as possible.