If you had the right girl would you could stop hobbing

I have met and married my perfect woman. We've been happy for many years. Hell, she suggested the hobby. She likes to hobby with me sometimes. A select few of you ladies have met her. She respects and admires the ECCIE ladies she has met/played with and we plan to keep on doing this as long as it remains fun. Stop? Hell no!

I don't care if he hobbies.

1. just don't lie to me about it. (you don't have to throw it in my face, but don't make up elaborate bullshit stories to hide it from me either)

2. don't make "us" -meaning our family, our home, so on and so forth - go without - so you can go get some strange on the regular.

So to fix that - don't lie to me about it - I can help make sure WE (us) don't go without - so you can go get some strange by making sure things that can wait on aren't purchased right away and you can compromise on how often you go pay for some. (or wait for her to run a special - or ask me as a provider - or former provider to help you get a "deal". Believe me, it's been done.)

I'd have no problem with it what so ever.

I just can't stand the bullshit that people try to pull instead of just being upfront about things.
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I think I just fell in love, but why would he need to hobby are you saying you would be like most women and slow down or stop have sex when you get married.

Yes, Absolutely!

I already have the right girl. That has not stopped me. What does that say for man?. Flip the script, would you ladies quit if the right man came along? Could it be a man. hobbyist you met? Originally Posted by Jariou

Been there, done that......didn't last long.

But if it was true love, I would be outta here in a flash.

Been there, done that, but over the years people change, over the years one of you wears out faster than the other, you finally figure out that love and sex aren't totally intertwined.
Back things up a few years and I'm outta here too.

I think I just fell in love, but why would he need to hobby are you saying you would be like most women and slow down or stop have sex when you get married. Originally Posted by Hobbyfun

I have been married after being a provider, WE agreed for me to no longer be a provider, and it turned out our chemistry wasn't what either of us was akin to in the bedroom.

So the lack of activity wasn't the typical "ring on the finger" and all things stop. We are still friendly but THAT part of our lives wasn't successful. I lived through it, I learned through it. If I had to do it again, I'd still have the attitude I posted.

Being a provider and seeing how many men, happily married and horribly married, like to go get some down and dirty strange, I am a supporter of getting strange.

The hobby TYPICALLY allows you to do this without creating strong bonds of a relationship which usually lead to major betrayal in your at home relationship.

I've said this before, (just probably not in a post):

But ideal for me would be a man who takes care of his home life...
That lets me know he's off to get some strange...
Does not wash up much when he is done with said strange...
Comes home to have dinner and take care of family obligations...
We tuck the kiddos in bed...
Lock the bedroom door...
Drops me to my knees...
And lets me know what scent is left from his adventures in strange...
(the rest is all in the mind my dears)

More than likely I would no longer be a provider. This is because of three things. 1. I rarely provide as it is and have a full time day job 2. I am already on my path towards my goals of having a higher paying "real job". 3. Most (not all) men tend to prefer that their woman be "theirs". Being more submissive in nature, if my man is able to support the family on his income and my day job income alone - AND still be able to play in hobby land REASONABLY...then I'm all for it.

It's all in moderation. (just don't tell this to daaaman. I don't think any of this would make sense to him)

Hobby life for me would EVENTUALLY become more of a play ground than a place of employment.

TG,
I have met a couple wonderful special gals and for the most part my hobbying days are over as they are all I could ever hope or wish for.
However, I must say I have also met some of the most beautiful women here on ECCIE and their beauty is both on the outside and inside..and for all those I have met and for those who I have not meet I wish you all the best and to everyone a Very Merry Christmas and appointiment filled New Year!
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??? Originally Posted by tglc1

But every time I approach Charlize Theron for a date, she gets another restraining order.

The "right" girl, would encourage you to hobby.

I met the "right one"....many times lol

I already have the right girl. That has not stopped me. What does that say for man?. Flip the script, would you ladies quit if the right man came along? Could it be a man. hobbyist you met? Originally Posted by Jariou

Hell yes! I agree with Reese. If I met the right man, even if he were a client of mine...I would quickly leave the hobby. Of course, he would have to be financially well-off so that I would not reconsider providing again.

In the meantime, I enjoy my gents and love what I do for a living. Great topic!

I've often wondered what I'll do after I get out of school. I'm not saying I'll never be a provider again but I think it would be more about having fun or maybe even being a hobbyist at some point.
I had a long term relationship with a hobbyist that ended for other reasons. Hobbying was the one thing we did great. I think for both of us, the relationship was much more important than who we had sex with. It was much more important for us to keep sex outside the relationship within the hobby. If I had caught him dating, he would have had one pissed off redhead on his hands.

I'd like to be married, have kids, get the cute house with a picket fence and lots of closet space - my prince charming someday. I'll probably still buy him some strange on the weekends, though. And of course it'll be someone I think is attractive. A life without licking pussy is just missing something.

I'll be the RIGHT ONE ...for an hour at a time baby!!



You all are a bunch of sluts I tell ya'!!!!!!! LOL
(but I love me some sluts)







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Yes. I guess I wont find her if I am here...ya think.