The Number One Reason Not To See A Provider

@ rickyjames....well can't agrue with that one

And fat and ugly means not just physical appearence, but also what is inside as well

Fat & ugly is the number 1 reason! Originally Posted by rickyjames

That type of comment turns me off. I can't stand mean people.

Allie, I know ur intentions on this poll were to realistically have an open discussion on things that go into our minds as to why/why not see a provider. And congrats to you, on starting a thread that got some very good points made.

But let's face it, this is not a dating service...for the guys or gals.

A woman's appearance is always going to be No#1 priority to us guys....just as the guy's wallet is going to be No 1 to the gals.

However, what you have done in this thread, is brought out some good points which go beyond what I mention, in terms of looks and $$$'s

But I don't think it's being mean, on this type of site, to state what the #1 reason...which is a gal's appearance. Perhaps there can be words other than "fat & ugly" used, without question....but let's face it, we're all are semi-adults on an escort site.

So no disrespect intented...

Yes, some tact was lacking there, but looks is at the core of dislikes.

When you're spending hard earned green, you want to see someone that's hot. Sure, we all have our different levels and degrees of hotness, but there's a pretty thick middle of what we can all just about agree on what IS actually hot. Then of course, individual tastes migrate from there.

This falls under fake pics. That said, a provider can use fake pics and still be hot. This would almost be like seeing a pic of and expecting Cameron Diaz, but it ends up being Jessica Alba behind the door. 99% of guys won't be mad at that, but if it's Rosie O'donell....oh HELL naaw!!

I understand, but that post definitely didn't win him any brownie points with myself and other providers.

different choice of words would have made that comment less.... "abrasive"

besides, "ugly", just like beauty, is in the eyes of the beholder. and "fat" is a relative term, and to each his own preference.

Beauty is only skin deep guys....now ugliness goes right clear to the bone......lol...Jk Allie!!

ps. allie... you're beautiful!

ps. allie... you're beautiful! Originally Posted by rharley

Am I the only one that just got creeped out reading this

Am I the only one that just got creeped out reading this Originally Posted by dirty dog

Dude has creeped me out from the get go..

I would add that a lack of "screening" is pretty high on the list as well.

So a fat and ugly guy with a few bucks can buy some love, that as a civilian he never could.

Then these same guys can call a female someone fat and ugly and feel ok about it?

So a fat and ugly guy with a few bucks can buy some love, that as a civilian he never could.

Then these same guys can call a female someone fat and ugly and feel ok about it?

Originally Posted by catnipdipper

Evidently. I can't decide whether that is idiocy, lunacy or just plain old rudeness.

Evidently. I can't decide whether that is idiocy, lunacy or just plain old rudeness.

Originally Posted by scorpio31

I think its a combo of all of them..