Frustrations with the hobby!!!

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I agree B Mike, The message I got was that while money is an important factor, maybe even the most important factor, it is not the only factor. A provider provides a service and therefore is in the service business imo. In a way being a provider is similar to others in the service business. It is an occupation where sometimes people presuppose that as long as money is flashed hoops will be jumped through..

I guess I don't get why it seems that sombody is always moaning about not being able to get a last minute date or not hearing back from a provider. It's not exactly a regulated industry..send a message, wait a day or two and if there is no response, move on. Seems simple to me but I guess that's just me.
Scorpio, do you purposefully pick fights on here? I have read a lot of posts where you appear to be intentionally belligerent. Why is that? Is it just your way of getting attention? It seems pretty sad -- almost lonely. Originally Posted by Greek73
..................winner winner chicken dinner.......... spot on.. he is a legend in his own mind..a white knight that rides in to save the damsels in distress.
well this is unbelievable but i couldnt agree more with dirty dogs posts..
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HAHAHAHAHAHA this thread makes me chuckle.

Lets get serious for a minute, I'm speaking as an escort here....I love sex and I love money, so I'm an escort for those two reasons. Any chick who says that not all ladies are in this for the money is lyin through their teeth. If it wasn't about the money, then you all would be gettin laid for free by us. So, how many of you are gettin laid for free by us? Originally Posted by MsElena
I have actually gotten a few freebies from providers. Not that many times and I appreciated it tremendously! I would NEVER take it for granted!

Anyway, I hope everyone has a great Christmas!
i dont want a freebie..i always thought i was paying them to leave. lol
well it's xmas day, sure hope all you ladies are sitting by your telephones! LOL
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Well, let's see. How many of these ladies work for you? How much do you think they care what you think about your job, workers, philosophy etc. What is the relevance to this thread how many people work for you? Does anybody care? Rants as usual not designed to make any sense.


I believe the ladies can work work whenever they want and see whoever they want. If you have a problem with that, why are you here? Hit the streets and find the ladies who are available at a moment's notice. I don't think you'll be missed here. Originally Posted by jan-w
The OP was not bitching about individual providers only the lack of availability as a whole. But you are right, they can work when and with whom they want, but if thats the case, simply pull the add doing so tells everyone your not available. As for the short notice situation, not everyone has the time or availability to plan out in advance an encounter, schedule it, get a hair cut, have the suit cleaned, wash the car, buy a dozen roses and a box of candy, some guys have that short notice, oh the wife just said she is going to her sisters so I have two hours of available time or I got off two hours early and the wife is at work till 4 so I can sneak in a little play time. I am glad you have the time to pre plan this, some guys dont look at hooker encounters as dates and romance. So in all fairness, its not all his fault, if the lady is not available she should pull or amend her ad, if she does not do short notice calls then make sure the ad states this. Although as it has been pointed out these ladies do this for the "love of the game" and not the money, a significant amount of revenue is generated by short notice customers so I am not sure that treating them like they are at fault is a wise business move, but hey I forgot they to it for the LULZ not the money.
The OP was not bitching about individual providers only the lack of availability as a whole. But you are right, they can work when and with whom they want, but if thats the case, simply pull the add doing so tells everyone your not available. As for the short notice situation, not everyone has the time or availability to plan out in advance an encounter, schedule it, get a hair cut, have the suit cleaned, wash the car, buy a dozen roses and a box of candy, some guys have that short notice, oh the wife just said she is going to her sisters so I have two hours of available time or I got off two hours early and the wife is at work till 4 so I can sneak in a little play time. I am glad you have the time to pre plan this, some guys dont look at hooker encounters as dates and romance. So in all fairness, its not all his fault, if the lady is not available she should pull or amend her ad, if she does not do short notice calls then make sure the ad states this. Although as it has been pointed out these ladies do this for the "love of the game" and not the money, a significant amount of revenue is generated by short notice customers so I am not sure that treating them like they are at fault is a wise business move, but hey I forgot they to it for the LULZ not the money. Originally Posted by dirty dog
don't get on the womens ass like this, they work "as available", there's no need to pull down ads everytime, good gosh, that could be 3 or 4 times a day. do you want them to pull down their ads when they have a date, the type up a new one when it's over an hour later? how about quickies??? damn them for having ads up while they're doing those eh? the girls just don't like being bitched at because they're not at the beck and call of wimsical hobbiests 24/7. so... is it the girls fault here??? NOT AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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To me is just seems to be the nature of the hobby. Good days and bad days. Plus with is being Christmas Season, New Years and since everyone has families outside of the hobby it isn't surprising that no one maybe available.
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don't get on the womens ass like this, they work "as available", there's no need to pull down ads everytime, good gosh, that could be 3 or 4 times a day. do you want them to pull down their ads when they have a date, the type up a new one when it's over an hour later? how about quickies??? damn them for having ads up while they're doing those eh? the girls just don't like being bitched at because they're not at the beck and call of wimsical hobbiests 24/7. so... is it the girls fault here??? NOT AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Originally Posted by rharley
Are you fucking retarded, its pretty obvious what I mean, if there is going to be a significant period of time when they are not available i.e. for your retarded ass this would mean if they are not available for a weekend, an evening, near holidays etc. Quit trying to white knight things just to try and make points to hide your Ted Bundy posts. No where does this indicate when they have other appointments, being unavailable because of appointments was not what SG and the others meant when they bashed the guy by saying they have lives also, this would indicate and I will say this slowly for you thhhhaaaattttt thheeeyyyy wwwweeeerrrrrreeeee sssaaayyyyiiiinnnggg tooooo hhhiiimmmm tttthhhhaaaaattttt ttttthhhhheeeeeyyyyyy aaarrrrnnnntttttt aaaallllllwwwaaaaayyyyyssss aaaavvvaaiilllaabbbbllllleeeee tttooooo hhhhoooobbbbyyy bbbeeecccaaauuussseeee offf rreeaallll llliiifffeee sssiiittttuuuaaatttiiiooonnnss s. It's simple, today Walmart was not available, they amended their hours and they let everyone know it by changing their ads. This just means they could put in their ads "I will not be available Wed from 4pm to 6am Thursday" or even more direct to the OP's plight, such as "I do not take short notice appointments". I know you view this as other than a business, hell your looking for someone to tie up and leave in a trunk, but it is a business if it wasn't this would be called yahoo personals. Changing an ad is not hard work, in fact it would take less time than it took for them to bully up on the OP.
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To me is just seems to be the nature of the hobby. Good days and bad days. Plus with is being Christmas Season, New Years and since everyone has families outside of the hobby it isn't surprising that no one maybe available. Originally Posted by PowerMonkey

Power monkey I agree with your statment, but all the OP did was state that he was having trouble finding an appointment, he did not out anyone, address anyone directly he made a statement of frustration to which SG and others felt the need to pounce on him. My response is to this felt need they had to pounce on him and to well pounce back by proxy with some viewpoints which might indicate to those who attacked him that they are as culpable in the situation in hopes that they could use their venom with a little more prejudice next time.
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Are you fucking retarded, its pretty obvious what I mean, if there is going to be a significant period of time when they are not available i.e. for your retarded ass this would mean if they are not available for a weekend, an evening, near holidays etc. Quit trying to white knight things just to try and make points to hide your Ted Bundy posts. No where does this indicate when they have other appointments, being unavailable because of appointments was not what SG and the others meant when they bashed the guy by saying they have lives also, this would indicate and I will say this slowly for you thhhhaaaattttt thheeeyyyy wwwweeeerrrrrreeeee sssaaayyyyiiiinnnggg tooooo hhhiiimmmm tttthhhhaaaaattttt ttttthhhhheeeeeyyyyyy aaarrrrnnnntttttt aaaallllllwwwaaaaayyyyyssss aaaavvvaaiilllaabbbbllllleeeee tttooooo hhhhoooobbbbyyy bbbeeecccaaauuussseeee offf rreeaallll llliiifffeee sssiiittttuuuaaatttiiiooonnnss s. It's simple, today Walmart was not available, they amended their hours and they let everyone know it by changing their ads. This just means they could put in their ads "I will not be available Wed from 4pm to 6am Thursday" or even more direct to the OP's plight, such as "I do not take short notice appointments". I know you view this as other than a business, hell your looking for someone to tie up and leave in a trunk, but it is a business if it wasn't this would be called yahoo personals. Changing an ad is not hard work, in fact it would take less time than it took for them to bully up on the OP. Originally Posted by dirty dog
DD your post took place at 1:50 AM, were they Goose infused?
At the end of the day, this could have been a thread about the awesome woman that took a last minute date and the generous Christmas bonus that was given.

I'm always down for meeting people on the low road. Just need a sec to crack a fresh beer.
no need to call out this dog, he words speak plenty about his attitude and character

Are you fucking retarded, its pretty obvious what I mean, if there is going to be a significant period of time when they are not available i.e. for your retarded ass this would mean if they are not available for a weekend, an evening, near holidays etc. Quit trying to white knight things just to try and make points to hide your Ted Bundy posts. No where does this indicate when they have other appointments, being unavailable because of appointments was not what SG and the others meant when they bashed the guy by saying they have lives also, this would indicate and I will say this slowly for you thhhhaaaattttt thheeeyyyy wwwweeeerrrrrreeeee sssaaayyyyiiiinnnggg tooooo hhhiiimmmm tttthhhhaaaaattttt ttttthhhhheeeeeyyyyyy aaarrrrnnnntttttt aaaallllllwwwaaaaayyyyyssss aaaavvvaaiilllaabbbbllllleeeee tttooooo hhhhoooobbbbyyy bbbeeecccaaauuussseeee offf rreeaallll llliiifffeee sssiiittttuuuaaatttiiiooonnnss s. It's simple, today Walmart was not available, they amended their hours and they let everyone know it by changing their ads. This just means they could put in their ads "I will not be available Wed from 4pm to 6am Thursday" or even more direct to the OP's plight, such as "I do not take short notice appointments". I know you view this as other than a business, hell your looking for someone to tie up and leave in a trunk, but it is a business if it wasn't this would be called yahoo personals. Changing an ad is not hard work, in fact it would take less time than it took for them to bully up on the OP. Originally Posted by dirty dog
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I'm always down for meeting people on the low road. Just need a sec to crack a fresh beer. Originally Posted by SillyGirl
You mean I could have called you and you would have met me,
on the low road as long as I brought you a fresh beer!

If I only know.