It is really quite simple. I give her money, she lets me fuck her. She knows exactly what I want, I know exactly what she wants. I am happy, she is happy. Like I said, the perfect Hooker-Client relationship.This is the relationship over 90% of the ladies here have with their clients. It ain't really that special but I see what you're saying. You and Sarah click.. .that's probably what you're trying to say.
Originally Posted by Jackie S
- Naomi4u
- 12-30-2011, 12:55 PM
- AdventureAdams
- 12-30-2011, 12:59 PM
Don't kid yourself. Out of sight, out of mind. A little board flirting only helps business. And, as we all know, it's all about the business. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005That's not true, Charles, your concentrated charm and witty posts fuel my dreams at night my sweet it's my only salvation until I can log onto ECCIE and stare at your profile page.
*sigh*
- Jackie S
- 12-30-2011, 01:58 PM
You Got It.
I get quite a few inquiries from other Hobbyist wanting to know how this works, and what is the difference between what Sarah and I do and a Sugar Baby-Sugar Daddy thing. The main difference is I compensate Her only when we see each other, just like any other Provider. She is simply the only Lady I see. Also, I have no expectations of Her not doing business as usual with other clients, this is what she does for a living. Most guys with a SB want Her to be his only, or at least make him think She is his only. I have no illusions toward that at all. What I do expect is that when Sarah is with me, whether it is for one hour or all day, that she does treat me like I am her one and only. She is quite good in that department.
Most men want to know this because they are tired of the haggling, the screening, the drama, the untangibles, and really would like to find one Lady to see on a regular basis and have a good time with. The big trick is to find someone you really like, and can at least tolerate being with you on a regular basis.
Like you said, it helps if you "click".
I get quite a few inquiries from other Hobbyist wanting to know how this works, and what is the difference between what Sarah and I do and a Sugar Baby-Sugar Daddy thing. The main difference is I compensate Her only when we see each other, just like any other Provider. She is simply the only Lady I see. Also, I have no expectations of Her not doing business as usual with other clients, this is what she does for a living. Most guys with a SB want Her to be his only, or at least make him think She is his only. I have no illusions toward that at all. What I do expect is that when Sarah is with me, whether it is for one hour or all day, that she does treat me like I am her one and only. She is quite good in that department.
Most men want to know this because they are tired of the haggling, the screening, the drama, the untangibles, and really would like to find one Lady to see on a regular basis and have a good time with. The big trick is to find someone you really like, and can at least tolerate being with you on a regular basis.
Like you said, it helps if you "click".
- alluringava
- 12-30-2011, 09:14 PM
Don't kid yourself. Out of sight, out of mind. A little board flirting only helps business. And, as we all know, it's all about the business. Originally Posted by charlestudor2005
That is the bottom line Charles and it's good to see you realize that. Not in a pessimistic way, but in a realistic way.
- Guest021012
- 12-30-2011, 09:58 PM
It's not about men being incompetent, it's about misinformation. Topics like those that never mention that there is no one way to do it. Come on, do you think all our little buttons are the same? Half the fun for me is figurng out exactly what works; not performing some memorized techniques.
This is an issue I have with a lot of dates to begin with. Apparently I'm a lot more sensitive than most; which means what works for others just hurts me. Thankfully, most every man I've met who likes giving it has absolutely no problem taking a little instruction.
Just get to know your lover for a minute, test a couple different pressure levels and movements in the first couple of minutes and see what she responds to most.
I personally can not stand licking upwards on my button. Moderate pressure, down or sideways interaction, suck the button a little..Don't forget the other hand, it should be involved too...Then hold on cause I'm a wiggler; its rewarded with a long, intense, and juicy prize. Just takes a beau who wants to make you feel good.
This is an issue I have with a lot of dates to begin with. Apparently I'm a lot more sensitive than most; which means what works for others just hurts me. Thankfully, most every man I've met who likes giving it has absolutely no problem taking a little instruction.
Just get to know your lover for a minute, test a couple different pressure levels and movements in the first couple of minutes and see what she responds to most.
I personally can not stand licking upwards on my button. Moderate pressure, down or sideways interaction, suck the button a little..Don't forget the other hand, it should be involved too...Then hold on cause I'm a wiggler; its rewarded with a long, intense, and juicy prize. Just takes a beau who wants to make you feel good.
- alluringava
- 12-30-2011, 10:05 PM
It's not about men being incompetent, it's about misinformation. Topics like those that never mention that there is no one way to do it. Come on, do you think all our little buttons are the same? Half the fun for me is figurng out exactly what works; not performing some memorized techniques.
This is an issue I have with a lot of dates to begin with. Apparently I'm a lot more sensitive than most; which means what works for others just hurts me. Thankfully, most every man I've met who likes giving it has absolutely no problem taking a little instruction.
Just get to know your lover for a minute, test a couple different pressure levels and movements in the first couple of minutes and see what she responds to most.
I personally can not stand licking upwards on my button. Moderate pressure, down or sideways interaction, suck the button a little..Don't forget the other hand, it should be involved too...Then hold on cause I'm a wiggler; its rewarded with a long, intense, and juicy prize. Just takes a beau who wants to make you feel good.
My little button is so sensitive it HURTS when guys pay too much attention to it. It's extremely,extremely sensitive and it can be painful. I don't need that much stimulation there to get me off. I like men who do things gentle, not like a worm tongue jamming in places. I prefer stimulation of the back part of the opening of my vagina ( god did I just say this that graphically) rather than the clitoris. Because that just makes me scream, and not in an good way.
I like that men ask me what I LIKE when it come to our session. Some men are into themselves and all about their own pleasure and that's fine, but many men also want us to feel good too. I really like that
- charlestudor2005
- 12-31-2011, 05:21 AM
That's not true, Charles, your concentrated charm and witty posts fuel my dreams at night my sweet it's my only salvation until I can log onto ECCIE and stare at your profile page.That's nice to know since I've been looking forward to seeing you. I have been enticed by your posts and your pics.
*sigh*
That is the bottom line Charles and it's good to see you realize that. Not in a pessimistic way, but in a realistic way. Originally Posted by alluringavaThank you. I was just trying to state the obvious. Do we flirt here? Sure, both men and women do. But let's not get too far afield from the underlying reality.
My little button is so sensitive it HURTS when guys pay too much attention to it. It's extremely,extremely sensitive and it can be painful. I don't need that much stimulation there to get me off. I like men who do things gentle, not like a worm tongue jamming in places. I prefer stimulation of the back part of the opening of my vagina ( god did I just say this that graphically) rather than the clitoris. Because that just makes me scream, and not in an good way.I look forward to taking your direction. From my P411 profile:
I like that men ask me what I LIKE when it come to our session. Some men are into themselves and all about their own pleasure and that's fine, but many men also want us to feel good too. I really like that
I also want to give pleasure to a lady as much as I want to receive pleasure, so that means communicating with each other. Please don’t hesitate to tell me in advance, and guide me to do those things that really make you enjoy our time together. A session is more enjoyable to me if you are pleasured, too.