What would YOU(provider or hobbyist) do in this situation?????????

deanna....nice comments baby. i think that is about as real as it gets. and if i keep staring at your pic....im going to get in the car and start driving to ARK for some of that booty. DAMN IT baby!!!!
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Heather...
It would be interesting to know what WOULD make you (or anyone else) uncomfortable to the extent that you would cancel the session. Sounds like this got real close, but not quite there.

-Bob
Heather...
It would be interesting to know what WOULD make you (or anyone else) uncomfortable to the extent that you would cancel the session. Sounds like this got real close, but not quite there.

-Bob Originally Posted by bobprivate
Well, if someone dropped the "N" word over and over and refused to stop even though I made it clear it offended me, I would end the session(happened once).I've sat back and listened to gents go on and on and on about the most mundane crap and am good at smiling and being a good listener even if I find the conversation ridiculous. I'm not paid to voice opinions.

Probably the only other situation I could think of is if I unknowingly let an abortion doctor into my bedroom. I am VERY pro-life. He'd be lucky to not get shot on his way out(but I would refund his fee)!

Other than that, I'm pretty laid back. What you do and who you are outside of my time with you is not my concern or business. H
I would have recognized that he was a prison bitch, put the strap on dick on, and fucked him in the ass while yelling out names of Eccie Moderators.


But that is just me!
Hell I would have banged him in the butt.
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It seems odd to me that a dude named Big Jake would have banged him in the butt.
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I would have recognized that he was a prison bitch, put the strap on dick on, and fucked him in the ass while yelling out names of Eccie Moderators.


But that is just me! Originally Posted by cpi3000
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Well, if someone dropped the "N" word over and over and refused to stop even though I made it clear it offended me, I would end the session(happened once).I've sat back and listened to gents go on and on and on about the most mundane crap and am good at smiling and being a good listener even if I find the conversation ridiculous. I'm not paid to voice opinions.

Probably the only other situation I could think of is if I unknowingly let an abortion doctor into my bedroom. I am VERY pro-life. He'd be lucky to not get shot on his way out(but I would refund his fee)!

Other than that, I'm pretty laid back. What you do and who you are outside of my time with you is not my concern or business. H Originally Posted by Sweet Heather
I get turned down all the time for things I say... Like , "This is TMFT can I book a session..." ... usually does it every time...
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Yes I would stay and do her over and over and over. I would rather see something like that than some PIMP name stamped on her. Originally Posted by Stalin
Different strokes. The fact that you picked the name of a mass murderer as your board handle tells me that your outlook is a bit different than mine is.
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Funny..the swastika dates back way before hitler used it and way before neo nazi groups use it today.. Originally Posted by DeAnna Luv
Yep. The swastika has several different symbolic uses throughout history. But thanks to the Nazis, the other more benign meanings are obscured. Anyone living today who gets a swastika (or confederate flag) tattoo knows precisely what the meaning is, and has to know that the meaning is often offensive.

My dad taught me something that's stuck with me. If you don't want people to react badly to you, don't do offensive things. If you do choose to do something offensive, don't be surprised when folks react negatively.
oh blowpop..I understand that 100%.. trust me..if i was to tell people i engage in pleasure with men for money..i better expect an odd reaction.. no doubt.. as I followed up in a post above.. Perhaps that was a past viewpoint of his..perhaps he felt that way at a young or previous time in his life, got the tattoo and has since changed his views, grew up, and really has no desire to waste money on tat removal.. perhaps he was in jail, perhaps a member of the aryan brotherhood, key word there is WAS.. as I said..no different then ex gangbangers with brands and tats on them representing their "set" or their "hood" growing up, becoming adults, educated, job holding mature adults that made mistakes in life.. get undressed in front of us and we have a decision to make.. refuse service, ask the gent about it and then decide accordingly, or simply realize that my opinions about ones life choices have no bearing on the service I am able to provide..and do what I was hired to do..which is provide an experience to those seeking it..

true story..had a guy in san antonio walk in.. literally in a suit..tie, slacks, dress shoes shined up.. white guy.. he undressed to reveal an upper body covered in tats, satanic symbols, devils, gothic stuff, i mean COVERED.. it was off putting only from the standpoint that that many tats doesn't do it for me per say.. what he had on his body whether I agreed or not had no bearing on what we were there to do.. whether he was into devils etc etc.. or not.. me NOT SUCKING HIS DICK that day or not fucking him wouldn't impact his choices in life, wouldn't change anything, and if at that point I need so much to feel better about myself I refuse service so i can walk away saying I took a "stand"..well i need to get a life.. by not agreeing to be some guys hired prostitute based on something on his body being offensive.. lol... ya..i got more to worry about then that..

Fact is.. he wasn't judged.. he wasn't even allowed to explain himself..god help him if he is reading all this crap.. he was face to face with another adult who perhaps disagreed with him or had a question and couldn't even be given the chance to elaborate on it.. and now he has to walk away thinking he just spent money on a girl he really digged... who simply went thru with it because she could "live with it" per say.. but might not in the future..or might if its "not that big of deal"..

why judge someone without even asking questions.. no one knows.. as i said I have had many men walk in and I didn't expect them to be obvious ex bangers.. I didn't expect them to be tatted up with stuff I would never have on my body.. but i try not to judge.. I try to be accepting of all that want to spend hard earned money on me, and thank god they are not so childish that they would sit and judge everything about me..like why would a woman lower herself to have sex with strangers for money, and why would a woman ever be in such a sad situation that she has to do this job..thank god they don't judge me..just like I don't judge them
And talk in Hebrew the ENTIRE FUCKING TIME! Originally Posted by CivilBarrister
Sha-f***ing-Loam!
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To each his own
If anyone was offended by my post above and my reference to eccie mods, please understand it was not meant as an insult to the staff. I was attempting for my answer to be as humorous and ridiculous as I found the original question to be. Sometimes, I do not even hit the target, much less a bulls eye. OOPS.
I too was going to post on the history of the swastika....thanks for not making me have to go there so early