Zarah, as always, you know how to light up even the most innocent of topics. Here are my thoughts about what you said.
Just wanted a more in depth conversation. I'm in a great mood. My intent here was not to start drama.
You used the phrase "classy hooker" in a demeaning way, which I assume applies to you as well, and I disagreed with you. I know more than a few ladies who are (1) hookers and (2) classy. It may sound silly, but if a hooker is classy, how else should she be described?
Classy woman.
That is how she should be described. Not Classy hooker. I think you're reading too much into my posts.
I take this to mean that we should not pay attention to the OP because she is just posting to promote herself? I guess that is true for all the ladies who post on this or any other board: it's just to drum up business. While that may be true, that doesn't mean we should discard content that is thoughtful and well-reasoned. Most of us can separate the wheat from the chaff.
I said I read escort posts as ads. It's one of the reasons why I post the way I do. Most say one thing here but feel the complete opposite way. I know this because I am a provider myself, have access to provider boards nationwide and associate with a lot of them.
Saying everything that is posted here by a provider is a bit of a stretch but for the most part -- most of them are look at me threADs. I like this thread. I wouldn't call it a threAD. I feel the OP was genuine. BTW ask before assuming. It is not nice to put words in people's mouth ya know?
Absolutely true, but one of the basic tenets of the Hobby is that you don't get involved with the "real person". Your involvement is limited to the woman whose job is to promote the fantasy of romance and connection. Your worth as a "real" person means nothing go me as a monger except to the extent that it influences your professional persona and performance.
Bingo.
So you are judging a fake online persona and not the real person/person behind the persona? I am talking about someone you have never met not the ladies you have been with. Of course if you have been with someone you kinda have an idea of what they're really like. Makes sense? Glad to know that as a monger you don't care much for the real person but the fantasy.
As I said, earlier, most of us can separate the wheat from the chaff and over time the "real" person can be discerned from the content of hooker advertising board posts. But, when that is all that we have to work with, we will make our judgments on the material that is available to us.
Disagree and agree.
BTW as I said earlier, I don't feel this was a threaAD.
Lots of threADs on this board but not this one. I enjoyed the topic.
The OP's initial post really seemed to touch upon the essence of class, and if she is smart enough to use that to promote her business and reputation, bully for her.
Agree!
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BTW we will just agree to disagree. Back and forth on this topic doesn't make much sense. It's nothing to debate about imho. If you are looking for an argument, you won't get it from me today. Have a great day, Awl4knot and the rest of you .
Z