Am I Wrong??

Yeah I am flipping out. What the fuck would you do if a group of people were systematically trying to destroy your life and it was a bunch of lies? How often do i have to scream that I am really real? How long does it persist? Do yall enjoy yourselves. Does it give your shrivelled egos a boost to hurt someone maliciously? Does it feel good to lie? Leave me alone. Get out of my life. Find another hobby since you are so miserable that you have nothing better to do than pick on a provider. I don't know what recourse I have to end this atrocity. But believe me I will exhaust every avenue that is at my disposal. Moderators? Where is the justice on this board? How long will this be allowed to continue???? Is it fair that certain people can destroy a good person's life? Because I do have a life. I enjoy being a provider and do a good job at it. I have many satisfied clients. Problem is they are afraid to speak up because of the mob. This is a plea for justice. If you want to see me also and let me prove that I am not a phony then please let me do so. I will glady do so if it will shut this insanity up. I am losing my mind in frustration. HELP.

These pictures are in my showcase. Blue jeans, tennis shoes and NO Makeup? These were taken 3/17/12 St Patricks Day, the day I got my horse. See I'm wearing a Kiss Me I'm Irish Tshirt. 2012-03-17 13.05.23.jpg

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Nice horse

Merci,

As you very well know it was a year ago you and I met and had a fantastic time it was after that where things went crazy. I made a big mistake posting a thread where I thought something was majorly wrong with you and chose not to wait for the truth to come out.
I cant go into the reason since its a forbidden topic here but about two months after that I messaged you and apologized for what happened and so did you. I am happy that things have righted themselves between us and as you know after that messaging I went away for awhile because of reasons that are noones business. It was in chat two months ago we struck up a conversation and we found out we have somethings in common.
We are both emotional compassionate people. I know many here say you cannot do that here but you know well as I you dont go against your nature. Its very simple for people to sit behind a computer desk and type anything and in reading alot here make up shit that others beleive. verbatim. There are rules here that are not being enforced. Usually when someone accuses something they better well have undeniable proof its real or dont speak at all. You have been accused of writing fake reviews altering pictures being a bait and switch and are over 60 yrs old. I know for fact all of these accusations are hardly true. what provider states her real age anyway. You and the ladies here have to worry about every phone call every knock on the door numerous other little details and oh yes look sexy so the guy can get a hard on and blow his load. and even then they will find some minute detail to harp on or just say something ludicrous. Theres a saying by George Carling that is "Men are stupid and women are crazy. The reason why women are crazy is because men are stupid" We all here are entitled to our opinions but that should be stated and then left alone. Most men here are thinking with their dicks and have not enough blood to compose any intelligent thought. I agree that unless you see the person you cant be sure if the accusation is even remotely true. The ones who have seen you know the truth the ones who havent arent credible. and should be taken with a grain of salt. Many here know this Speculation about something is the worst thing here. But it does entertain the ill informed. I know you are emotional and passionate and this hurts but you just keep doing what is your nature. To go against that would be unacceptable not only to those who know you but to yourself.

At one point I had a ill informed reason to bash this lady and regret I posted about it until I learned the truth In finding all this out and now knowing the truth I am good with what you are and all that comes with it. All of us are from from perfect and have flaws that rub people the wrong way Thats just human nature. But you have been dogpiled time and again and nothing really has been done about it. I know your pictures are real I know you are around 40 years old and i know you are a compassionate and have heart
The pictures above are real because I took them. No you arent some 20 year old flawless body that ooozes sex but your a more mature gal who has a sensuality thats just as a turn on. Us guys have different tastes some wont at all like you but just as many will. theres no need to keep posting the attacks that are already said. Move on. think this everyone if people attacked you in this manner and you knew it wasnt true how would you react? Treat others like you want to be treated. Sounds like some of you want to be attacked ???
The guy in question here probably was looking to blow his load withing a few minutes and move on. Not a fact just a opinion since we havent heard from him...Some people are just rude and dont know better.
Merci I am glad we cleared the air and have come to a understanding that is the right thing. I just hope we get a chance to see each other again in the hobby sense3. It would rock for sure......

Keep your head up!!!. .

Thank you Bestman... I am very proud of my horse. She is a great mare and I enjoy her a lot.
Thank you Mateo. Thank you for being a true friend. I'm glad that we were able to talk things out and were big enough people to move past the bs. I truly feel as if I have run the gauntlet. I feel emotionally drained. I feel as if I've been backed in a corner and trying to fight my way out for hours. The senselessness has left me confused and I feel like something in me has died. This is not what this hobby is supposed to be about. I have screamed over and over that I am real begged someone to agree to meet me and tell the board the truth. All to no avail. How can they continue to slander me yet be unwilling to meet me in person? I only want the truth to prevail. I just want the pack of wolves to leave me alone. I am emotionally drained.
I have made some very good lifetime friends since being on this site. So that makes it all worthwhile to me.

Merci is legit and real........the bashing does go over board and I guess the guys here (Dallas) get a pass. That isn't the case down south. After a while, it becomes clear that there is a personal reason for the continual bashing and a delibrate attempt to ruin someone's business and that shouldn't be allowed IMHO.

Thank you dear soulmanike! You are a refreshing breeze of cool air.

Merci:

Bashing and criticism are tough to take, and there will always be haters and those who simply don't find you to be their particular "cup of tea." Sadly, the old adage "If you can't say something nice, don't say it" has never held true around here.

At the end of the day, my parents taught me that what others think isn't all that important, as long as you like what you see when you look in the mirror.

Do your best to move on and rise above the horse manure!

Merci:

Bashing and criticism are tough to take, and there will always be haters and those who simply don't find you to be their particular "cup of tea." Sadly, the old adage "If you can't say something nice, don't say it" has never held true around here.

At the end of the day, my parents taught me that what others think isn't all that important, as long as you like what you see when you look in the mirror.

Do your best to move on and rise above the horse manure! Originally Posted by Tony Patella

+1000.. Truer words have never been spoken.. Its so easy when your behind a computer to bash others.








Merci..If I looked that good without makeup I would burn my makeup bag! You look great Ignore the negativity, who cares what they think.

+ I with Soulman

The sharks here are usually full of hot air & are usually fakes http://airswimmers.com Meet them in real life and you will know the true meaning of BAIT & SWITCH!! LOL!

Merci:

Bashing and criticism are tough to take, and there will always be haters and those who simply don't find you to be their particular "cup of tea." Sadly, the old adage "If you can't say something nice, don't say it" has never held true around here.

At the end of the day, my parents taught me that what others think isn't all that important, as long as you like what you see when you look in the mirror.

Do your best to move on and rise above the horse manure! Originally Posted by Tony Patella

Thank you, Tony! This is why I love you......you're the true definition of class!

Merci..If I looked that good without makeup I would burn my makeup bag! You look great Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I agree with that. If you look like that without makeup and your oft-mentioned wigs, why not reinvent yourself and do without them? I personally would much rather see you in that state as opposed to your showcase photos.

The subject of doctored, or "photoshopped" pics in the showcases is a slippery slope at best. I doubt there are many providers on ECCIE who have not altered at least some of the pics in their showcases, for obvious reasons. Every salesman (-woman) wants to portray their product in the best possible light, but when reality is far from the advertising trouble follows. While it may not meet the strict definition of "bait-and-switch" it is surely frustrating and creates bad situations.

In reading your "no" reviews, there is mention of the disparity between your showcase pics and the girl they met at the door, but honestly (without revealing ROS info), it is TCB and actual performance issues which cause the "NO" recommendations. A complete overhaul of your image, both advertised and real-life, your TCB and your BCD time might very well change the rest of your career for the better.

As the old saying goes, "today is the first day of the rest of your life"...good luck to you

Maybe she should just do what I do, take crappy pictures..I would much rather be an upgrade than a downgrade. That's the way Ive always looked at it lol. Works for me I still think she looks great


Some do take it too far though lol

Thank you...very much Tony ... I think I have myself back on track now. I am going to try my best to rise above the negativity. I am just fine with the person I see in the mirror and for the rest of the crap...I am going to adopt a new Slogan..."If it don't apply...Let it fly"
Sweet N Little ... I love you to death girl. You are so cool and have such an awesome personality...I'm going to just try and be more like you, I truly admire your style. Thank you for being a friend!
Now ... Let's all Have a Beautiful Day and Enjoy Each Other...It feels sooooo much better than hating does...

Merci...

Great motto to live by! Now go on out, enjoy the weather, and go love on that four legged beastie of yours!

TP

These pictures are in my showcase. Blue jeans, tennis shoes and NO Makeup? These were taken 3/17/12 St Patricks Day, the day I got my horse. See I'm wearing a Kiss Me I'm Irish Tshirt. Attachment 115482

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Attachment 115484 Originally Posted by mercianna

your face (and arms?) are clearly photo shopped.