Allright, gents: your honest answers please!

If the husband is bad in bed or vice versa, can you blame the other for not wanting to have sex? Originally Posted by alluringava

Not just bad, but physically unable to. My wife has been bed ridden for some time now and it was actually her idea for me to do this. Although I did my best to hide it, she knew I was getting frustrated and suggested I find something like this. She would rather I get what I need from someone that doesn't want attachments so I wont be tempted to leave. It normally works out well...

I have had a few clients where their wives literally 'gave' them permission to find sex elsewhere...because of illness or an injury that left them paralyzed or bedridden. And it did work out very well. I mean the guy's wife knew he wasn't going to leave her, he just needed the sex.

is it always about the sex......? ijs

is it always about the sex......? ijs Originally Posted by windowshopper

Maybe for some. For others, not so much.

Personally, if he had an affair, I'd leave him; if he just had one off sex, who cares.

Personally, if he had an affair, I'd leave him; if he just had one off sex, who cares. Originally Posted by OliviaHoward

Yes, I agree. Paying a pro is just to get his rocks off, having a mistress is an actual affair that involves a lot of emotions and possibly love.