Things sure go south quickly around here. Since i ran out of popcorn i thought i'd chime in.
I have adopted a different attitude about NC/NS's. And I know most of you fine gents and even fine ladies will disagree but here it goes.
Well I've been doing the hobby for 20 years and bitched about dozens of NC/NS.s over the years myself and many times on here. But all these admonishments will never never change what this is. Flakiness and the hobby go together and it's silly to be affected or even complain.
The fact of the matter is and always will be YOU ARE NOT MAKING A DOCTOR'S APPOINTMENT and the majority of these people (Escorts AND hobbyists) are NOT professionals....this IS NOT a business. It's a hustle.
And if you want to play in this illegal game just remember that and don't be a baby when things don't work out like you planned.
And like I always say "If you think it's bad business report it to the Better Business Bureau".
Originally Posted by uparoundnoon
Wise words from Up. I don't like NCNS as much as the next guy, however my attitude is similar to what Up describes. This is a hustle any female out there can do it. The ones that do better are the ones that have better TCB skills but i've had appointments with long time providers that keep getting postponed or just don't happen. Sometimes i am let know it will not happen, sometimes there is just no answer. And these are well respected mature, have been in the "business" for a long time providers.
What can be expected from the newer younger providers. I mean come on, it is an inconvenience but report it and move on. It's silly to hold a grudge and come here and start an argument because a provider did not keep her appointment.
It is the same in the thread about Tightkitty or somethign like that, the young girl that came from Moco. I mean guys are upset she has her PM box full, lol. Come on now. Ever considered maybe she is gone or she does not check her PMs? Plus just move on, plenty other providers out there that are offering the same thing.
I think that if you want to report a NCNS, do it, its your right, but holding a grudge after that is silly.
However, I do think that her attitude after the first few post did go downhill quickly.