Domination

Thanks TnTAngie! I guess part of the hard part ... er challenge is that I am not sure what I want to try first/next. It also does not help that I started a new job that pays pretty well, but I do not feel secure in keeping it

Being dominated is something that I think about frequently and I would really love to experience it. One problem is that there are so many flavors and interpretations of what this means that it is difficult to know where (and with whom) to begin.

I am not interested in being restrained, deprived of my senses, or subjected to a great deal of pain. What I find most enticing is Sensual domination, fetish, and humiliation and this is how I would describe them:

Sensual domination - I consider as surrendering complete control to her to use me for her pleasure and amusement. She is confident, assertive, passionate, playful, and erotic. She is NOT brutal, distant, robotic, tentative, or lethargic.

Fetish friendly - I do have a foot fetish and have enjoyed foot worship and received foot jobs. I love sexy shoes, stockings, hosiery, and lingerie. If she wears these things and teases me with her feet and body, I will be putty in her hands. I would be interested in having her introduce me to some of her fetishes as well.

Humiliation - This is an area where I am curious, but unsure what I'd really enjoy. But I am open to trying out different types of humiliation even if only as a "once is enough" experiment. Maybe things like face slapping, spitting, smelling dirty socks or shoes, licking armpits, golden shower, I really don't know? I'm NOT particularly interested in verbal humiliation.

Finally, I don't consider sex a requirement of sensual domination, but I am interested in some degree of intimate contact like DATY/DATO (the "for her pleasure" aspects of sensual domination). And I would also like the opportunity for a "release". But how that happened would be completely at her discretion.

Feel free to PM me if you are the "her" that I seek or if you have a suggestion for who I should consider seeing.

FishGuy13 says: "I am not sure what I want to try first/next"
FG13, I can relate to your posts in this thread.

Regards,
-SoleMan

I am also very intrigued... I have played both sides and must say I enjoy them both. I am totally into B&D not S&M. I do not like to give or receive pain. I love to dress the whole 9 yards in latex, fishnets, gloves, corsets, and thigh high boots or sky high stilettos. It's been a long time since I was able to play "Mistress Mercianna" I miss it. Before joining eccie I was a dominatrix and am very educated in the fetish. For those of you who are hesitant...but curious...I am a mild mistress and do not enjoy extremes. A glamour dom if you will...
Either way it goes...I ADORE role play...sub or dom...now I am all hot and bothered...Fetishist?

Domination...yeah, I dig it. Honestly, it just comes naturally...for those who like a confident woman.

Strap-ons....take your pick!


I adore my slaves. They worship my feet, vaccuum and dust my house, they even let me dress them up & I take them out in public. Who doesn't like a good field trip? lol

Coming soon on my website: my SLUTBOY page is back! Filthy pics (taken with permission of course) of my dirty little crew of mansluts...Who wants to use and abuse, whoops, I mean rent one for the day or hour? ha ha ha....

Confident ... nah ... just bossy.

Pyramider... A+ on one of your most insightful comments to date...lol
Too Funny!

Yes, Dear Merci, you called? Damn I love being a Dom....

I suck (No Pun Intended or Implied) at being a Sub. Many have tried, no one have conquered The Fetishist as of yet.... I have played with Lucy, come on, how could I resist someone with my name Tattooed on them?? I mean really, it is right there, taunting me...

Yes, that was a latex gauntlet thrown down to any that believe they can....

Fet

Pyramider... A+ on one of your most insightful comments to date...lol
Too Funny! Originally Posted by mercianna

Many would say suicidal rather than insightful.

I think I'd like to have a chick dominate me!!!

That would be HAWT!!!

Gonna check into it!!!
Originally Posted by berkleigh

Right On!!!

So looking forward to it!!!
Originally Posted by berkleigh

I love dominating chicks and gentleman we should try that Berkleigh

I would definitely want to be involved Selena, you could dominate me and Berkleigh together!

Fetishist...

... I accept your challenge
(throws down a vampire glove)

Done Merci, Done!

Fet

I love dominating chicks and gentleman we should try that Berkleigh Originally Posted by Selena51

.......Been waiting to be with Selena

Boring vanilla here. But having photographed Lindsey with some of her toys, I'd love to shoot a gorgeous woman dominating another gorgeous woman if space and logistics allowed. . . a cute blond or redhead, maybe a petite ebony wide eyed on Lindsey's cross, Lindsey's back to the camera holding a cat o'nine. . . mmmmm.

Berk,

Can I shoot that encounter??? LOL!

Liein,

I like the way you think, my friend!

Fet