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I get a kick out of the ladies on here that won't see guys until they have seen other providers. I can not understand why a guy would spend money seeing a provider he has no interest in seeing to pass the screening requirements of another provider. Seems pretty hipocritical to me for one ho to require you to see another ho before seeing her. They are both hos. Why does one feel she is better or needs to be safer than the other one?
Trust me; there are many ways to see providers you want to see without providing personal info.
Originally Posted by Iluvwomen
I am not newbie friendly but i do require u to have AT LEAST 2 references. Some are comfy seeing newbies.. more power to them. I am not. I dont think i need to be any safer.. as well should be safe. But i am here for me.. not her.. and this is my business not hers. And my business requires at least 2 references.
Having references... shows us ur obviously NOT LE.. and if she getting reviews and posting.. then you are obviously not a craigs list killer. Also... it lets us know if u are a complete jerk bcd.. if u are one that attempts BB... etc.
I dont see having to give out a shitload of personal info...ie paycheck stubs , SS cards, etc. But your name I can completely understand!! I found out once through screening that a guy had 2 references... but upon deeper screening he had done time for rape and robbery!!
I can even understand showing ID. Why? if you have P411?
Because i have encountered several jerks who openly ADMITTED they use others P411 account. I have encountered men openly ADMIT they use friends ECCIE acct and references!
Your 411 Id has ur first name and 4 digits of i think ID. So if a lady feels better matching those up... then it shouldnt be a problem. You would appreciate that if you ever had ur P411 ID stolen...the guy ended up raping her and Gina banned YOUR acct and YOU had the warnings on YOU.
Its those bad apples.. that make us have to screen more.
Also... in OKC we are dealing with a very beautiful provider who was tortured, mutilated and then murdered, dismembered and thrown out like day old trash! So Id think some guys would understand ladies screening harder. Many providers are single moms... so we MUST screen not only for our own protection but to make sure we stay alive for our kids!
Now.. in defense for the guys.. I do understand why some are uneasy.. especially lately with batshit crazies threatening to out guys if they see other girls... or threatening to out them if they dont come back and see them.
All I can suggest is that newbies dont just jump in feet first. SCREEN/RESEARCH!! Does this girl have ANY alerts ANYWHERE? If she is newbie friendly she probably has reviews. ASK those guys about her. Some may have given her a YES only to be threatened a month later. Ask the guy if he would even see her again. If NO, then ask why!! Many guys are scared to put a NO instead of a YES because the girl threatened him.
If she has no alerts and nothing but positive things said about her FROM MEN WHO HAVE SEEN HER, NOT JEALOUS GIRLS WHO ARE GRASPING AT STRAWS TO KEEP BUSINESS.. then you can probably bet that ur info is safe.