Advice for a newbie?

pyra,

I've been working on that and we have to go through the bylaws get a 2/3 majority of both the house and senate to ratify it being added and then of course there is the blessing of Mormon Hierarchy who may or may not be governing the country come January. The current President is all for it ... we ARE working on it though!

I believe it is call the P.R.O.U.T. Pic Guideline ... Provider Review Offer Up Taint Pic ...

DD Originally Posted by DDarkness

*Dies laughing* I will get right on with the taint photo shoot Sir. ROFL

I really appreciate everyone who gave me some input or advice. It's nice to get a little guidance when you're new.

Many ladies have incall in their HOME. Same concept for us. We risk it every time, just so we can pay the bills.

I'm with most everyone here... each lady has her own guidelines and their spin of them. Sometimes screening is easy with what you are offering for info. Sometimes screening is not easy. It really is an individualised process. I require different things from different people, depending on the info they provide me with initially.

A lot of ladies lose out on a lot of money because of their screening. I rather be broke than busted. Most of us just want to make sure you are not LE.

If you are striking out, just keep going!

:--)

Good luck!! Originally Posted by SweetElizabeth

what she said

You're absolutely right! And when I see these girls doing incalls at their houses, I think the EXACT same thing. I know we all have different sensitivities for risk, but I don't know how they justify the risks they're accepting by bringing clients to their homes.

What does a hotel cost these days? Maybe $50 daily in Upstate if you're a little bit internet savvy? I've known girls that cleared $2k daily working. Let's say that's extreme, and a girl brings in $600 daily. Is the security of her home worth risking for $50? I don't just mean being robbed - I mean neighbors complaining about traffic and being evicted, a client having a meltdown and making a scene in her home, etc.

The security and references issue cuts both ways. The girls have every right to ask for whatever they think they need to in order to feel secure (and personally, I totally respect that). But guys should understand that they have power in this dynamic too. There is no shortage of quality, nice girls working who don't require a ton of hoops. Unless a specific provider is just reeeeeaaaaaallllllllly on your radar and you MUST have her, guys would do well to tell a provider that he thinks her screening is onerous, but do it with his wallet and his feet, not his mouth. Originally Posted by oliassunhillow

$50 a day?! where you getting ur numbers? 2k a day?! i wish. and btw, if she is clearing 2k a day...damn good for her. but at the same time, thats like 6-8 guys. my junk cant handle that. ur nuts

I know first hand from a Bestie that works front deal at a Marriott that they look at BP daily for face pics and that they make a note of single Ladies checking in that use priceline. Originally Posted by Lexxxy

in albany the marriots have bp on a screen behind the desk

What does a hotel cost these days? Maybe $50 daily in Upstate if you're a little bit internet savvy? I've known girls that cleared $2k daily working. Let's say that's extreme, and a girl brings in $600 daily. Originally Posted by oliassunhillow

he said 2k....... thats on the extreme end of the spectrum

$50 a day?! where you getting ur numbers? 2k a day?! i wish. and btw, if she is clearing 2k a day...damn good for her. but at the same time, thats like 6-8 guys. my junk cant handle that. ur nuts Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

Nikki- a provider of your stature and reputation could easily clear 2K in the Hudson Valley with 3-5 clients. We're proud suckers down here for beautiful women.

And our Marriotts, Residence Inns, and Renaissances never even heard of BP.

(Is my begging for a Nikki visit that obvious?)

And our Marriotts, Residence Inns, and Renaissances never even heard of BP.

(Is my begging for a Nikki visit that obvious?) Originally Posted by mwebber

No man, it's really subtle, almost subliminal. I doubt she'll even realize it until after she's checked into your local Marriott.

I'm wondering if any of you have any suggestions for me. I'm new to this and want to be very careful as I dip my toe in the pool. I want to find a well reviewed, trustworthy, as well as very attractive provider but I'm running into a big issue. I completely understand why these ladies want to screen us and it makes me more comfortable knowing that they do. Originally Posted by blankslate31

I got started by using date-check, the only plus they seem to have over P411 is that you can pay monthly for date-check, I used it for a couple months until I had a reference and experience and then let it go.
Biggest piece of advice I can give is to keep trying and don't fixate on one provider. Anytime I've tried too hard to visit a specific provider it's gone bad.

Too many posts read in this great thread. If you cannot get screened, ask the lady you want to meet if she is avaialble to meet for coffee or a cocktail. Maybe offer her $40 or $50 for her time and you can meet in a nuetral setting and go from there.

Whenever I travel, I like to meet the lady in the hotel bar, have a drink, and go from there. If we don;t hit off, she gets envelope 1. If we do, envelope 2, and if we really do, both!!

$50 a day?! where you getting ur numbers? 2k a day?! i wish. and btw, if she is clearing 2k a day...damn good for her. but at the same time, thats like 6-8 guys. my junk cant handle that. ur nuts Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

First off your junk is the not junk its great, And second off for a girl to make money at a hotel like Nikki is talking is crazy i don't want to be the 6 or 8 guy, That day damn!! Just would be crazy. I like to see a girl especially try to be the first one of the day. Thats why I book my appointemnts for lunch time frame before all you horny guys get out of work!!

As for being at a girls house or residence most of these girls screen really well and don't see newbies. It also adds a nice little touch more of a RL date I would say.

You are cheap. 50 bucks? The lady will spend the same amount of time getting ready for a meeting at the bar that she would for meeting me at her incall. I grant you its nice to have a connection or common interest but you are not spending multiple hours with the provider where there would be a lot of down time.

Too many posts read in this great thread. If you cannot get screened, ask the lady you want to meet if she is avaialble to meet for coffee or a cocktail. Maybe offer her $40 or $50 for her time and you can meet in a nuetral setting and go from there.

Whenever I travel, I like to meet the lady in the hotel bar, have a drink, and go from there. If we don;t hit off, she gets envelope 1. If we do, envelope 2, and if we really do, both!! Originally Posted by hittingcoach

This still leaves the fact open that the man might be LE. What is a lady supposed to say? OH!! You don't LOOK like LE? lol

... $50 The lady will spend the same amount of time getting ready for a meeting at the bar that she would for meeting me at her incall. I grant you its nice to have a connection or common interest but you are not spending multiple hours with the provider where there would be a lot of down time. Originally Posted by pyramider

what she said Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

I've definitely figured this out. I'm not sure why, but somehow but maybe I gave off a bad vibe. Live and learn I guess!

$50 a day?! where you getting ur numbers? 2k a day?! i wish. and btw, if she is clearing 2k a day...damn good for her. but at the same time, thats like 6-8 guys. my junk cant handle that. ur nuts Originally Posted by naughtynikki84

I agree, that sounds like a lot. Although there is a chance that some of those guys won't be looking to use your junk. Which I'm sure is not very junky.

No man, it's really subtle, almost subliminal. I doubt she'll even realize it until after she's checked into your local Marriott.




I got started by using date-check, the only plus they seem to have over P411 is that you can pay monthly for date-check, I used it for a couple months until I had a reference and experience and then let it go.
Biggest piece of advice I can give is to keep trying and don't fixate on one provider. Anytime I've tried too hard to visit a specific provider it's gone bad. Originally Posted by wanttohavefun

Those are really good tips. Thanks man!