PROVIDERS TRYING TO CASH IN X 2

SL, I'd like to borrow 20 bucks. And you don't even have to have sex with me. Originally Posted by Sire

Kids school supplies? LOL

I had to jump off my cell to put my 2 cents in on this one.

I think the way this game is played is evolving all the time and new ways of separating a hobbyist from their money (whether that's upselling or plain out scamming) as well as separating a provider from her coochie (whether shorting her or just trying to get it for free) is in constant flux and both sides are continually try to find new ways to accomplish this. With that said, NOT ALL providers and hobbyists think this way. I believe most hobbyist and providers treat this as a business and conduct themselves so both sides benefit without any after session drama.

Fratelli, when I read your post I so agreed with you about getting the word out so those hobbyists who are thinking of visiting these ladies would have an idea of what they may be getting into.

And SL, I understand you stance of not needing to deal with the additional drama from telling the truth.

I guess my conclusion to this would be that you do what you feel you are comfortable with. If I saw a provider, who ultimately provided the service I expected, who I reviewed and gave a yes recommendation too and then came under attack for some additional money, well, depending on what I am comfortable with I would either:

1. Out the provider and prepare myself for the he said she said BS that will soon ensue...the DRAMA. Knowing that most of the people on this board, who really do not have close/personal/intimate relationships with each other, would be either supportive or blasting you. Or more may speak up to similar experiences....again, would depend on their what they are comfortable with in regards to speaking up.

2. Feel ok with my yes recommendation, because she did provide the service expected, and deal with her on a personal level by having a firm stance of "No you are not getting any more money", "Say what you want, you are still not getting any more money" "I really don't give two shits what you think about me, you are still not getting any more money"...things of that nature.

The concept of this board of cross talking and getting out both the good and bad info on both providers and hobbyist has been extremely helpful. So, some may ask, well then why not put this info out there for all to see and to help with making a more informative decision? Again, I really think it has to do with the how comfortable the person who would be putting out that information feels on what may ensue.

Again, the approach to crappy provider tactics on getting additional money from you is going to have to be a personal decision on how to respond. I see both sides of the coin on this issue and do not condemn those who choose not to out the provider and appreciate those who do provide info on some provider’s scamming tactics….but do respect their decision if they decide not to post anything.

I think SLs thread has starting a lot of conversations behind the scenes and is having a beneficial effect of:
1. Informing hobbyists of this kind of scam and signs of how to spot it.

2. Showing those providers out there engaging in these tactics that yes, they are talked about in an open forum and behind the scenes.

Don't know if any of my ramblings made sense, but at least now I feel like I've put my two cents in.

Be safe and don't take any shit from anyone you have treated fairly and with respect.

Originally Posted by ATF Hobby

Well said... but you have to admit, I certainly got a lot of milage out of this threAD when girls I haven't even seen think it was about them! LOL

SL, I'd like to borrow 20 bucks. And you don't even have to have sex with me. Originally Posted by Sire

If you do not put out SL will not give you a t-shirt.

There's some of that drama you predicted. Probably didn't think you were going to get bitched at from ladies you've never seen before though.

Well said... but you have to admit, I certainly got a lot of milage out of this threAD when girls I haven't even seen think it was about them! LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

SL gets wood when the ladies start bitching at him. To him its foreplay.

Too damn funny.

SL gets wood when the ladies start bitching at him. To him its foreplay. Originally Posted by pyramider

SL gets wood when the ladies start bitching at him. To him its foreplay. Originally Posted by pyramider

Some of my favorite sessions started out with a NO! LOL

Some of my favorite sessions started out with a NO! LOL Originally Posted by Still Looking

Escort- That will be extra hon
SL- No!! No it won't!
And the games begin....

Escort- That will be extra hon
SL- No!! No it won't!
And the games begin.... Originally Posted by bladtinzu

Once I get beyond the NSNC issue there is seldom ever any issues!

Sorry this is going on .... but most women play this game to a certain extent, and seemingly in this world, this goes on a lot. I never bothered to master this trickery because I AM very independent and don't want to come off as needy/clingy/desperate damsel in disgrace and dispair. Thanks for bringing this thread up ...

+ 1 with Eva

The damsel in distress is not a good look lol. .Ive heard some ridiculous reasons providers have contacted hobbyist for and it amazes me that anyone would fall for it, one contacted multiple hobbyists regarding a car breakdown problem but with each one it was a different part of the car, and it was on her way back from a "cruise". lol..broke ya think? lol In reality its kind of sad that they would take advantage of someones kindness.

Which is why I never... Never ever... Ever... Give a hooker a "loan"... If they contact me about it besides getting laughed at they will quickly find out the intense level of a fuck I do not give about them, their sick parents, kids, locked up pimp/SO, vehicle, or anything.

I have on occasion offered to come to them and have them actually work for the money but somehow was turned down.. Wonder why???

My 2 cents worth: It just look like the girl wants more and she really trying to get it out of you and anyone else she can do that to and that would listen.. I do agree with Tatiana M. in her first post to this thread...

Its sound crazy to me--

lets see you have 155 reviews in 18 months, so thats 8 times a month or twice a week, and you wonder why you are targeted?.. you are a walking atm machine.. in their minds

not saying it was right for her to try that, I am saying she knows how to follow the $$ trail, being poor like I am they know better to ask ..

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lets see you have 155 reviews in 18 months, so thats 8 times a month or twice a week, and you wonder why you are targeted?.. you are a walking atm machine.. in their minds

not saying it was right for her to try that, I am saying she knows how to follow the $$ trail, being poor like I am they know better to ask ..

( ; Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

You might be right to a certain degree, but it’s just not me. They do this as means of EXTRA income. If they can get half of the clients to see them again or drop off some cash....especially after having a great session.... interesting don't you think? No doubt these girls expect to never see that client again. They also don’t expect clients to compare notes. I would have never thought to call guys who reviewed the provider before or after me. I assumed it was a onetime honest sincere situation. It was only when two other hobbyist contacted me asking if it happened to me that I started to think there was a pattern.