new around im lost Originally Posted by mrsMercedezIf you're lost then just come on over and stay a while. I got a place all set up for you
I did not participate in ASPD, Ever!, although a member for many years. When I first joined this site it was very tame by comparison, in fact inviting. I have been a contributing member here for years. Up until the "Keyboard Warriors" and "Bro's Before Ho's" mentality took over the boards.Thank-you MS for finding THIS thread worthy of the opinion of someone that seldom posts here in CoED any more and is probably the exact caliber of individual that Alisha refers to.
The "Attack Pack", which I am credit for heading and never actually existed in any organized fashion, and my participation in coEd Threads started towards the last few months of ASPD and migrated here to ECCIE to take back the forums from a group of people that sought on many levels to control what was allowed and WHO was allowed to say what in Austin. It started on ASPD with a Regime change where people like myself were not censured for voicing an opinion and we were welcomed in Austin. Anyone that shared my opinion was immediately labeled a member of the Attack Pack. Some of the guys I know and consider friends. Several I have never met. It seems that ANY poster with a negative opinion of a lady or a ladies business practice was labeled.
The principals that we all shared and wanted to see change came about in the first year of the migration from ASPD to ECCIE and most of those posters have little to say these days.
As those personalities faded away the boards continued to change. In this last 8 months to a year I have INTENTIONALLY limited my participation as well as exerted some influence over a couple of individuals to tame their role in what was going on.
At NO TIME in those first couple of years though did we see or experience the problems that exist now.
Some have taken some of that and gone to extremes..... Bros before Hos? Sure.. .unless someone is dissing a Ho I happen to respect or care about..... I have a lot of respect for Reya Sunshine and posted quite a bit to reign in what was going on negative around her.
There area lot of ladies that I care about that are or have been a member of this community. They all know they can count on me for a lot.
As Whispers stated above - thread hijacks, inflexible opinions causing verbal accusations, outing personal information, pissing contests, and negativity that is never ending --> DRAMA!!!! Alisha mentioned searching 30 or more threads seeking out one that cannot/would not be "Controversial" and a participation may be "Accepted " without retaliation from another member... I also have not found a thread where participation would be considered contributing. I won't consider choosing sides as this thread develops, as will typically happen it will be de-railed by single minded self centered individuals who cannot think past their own little worlds.
Whispers
Alisha
Thank both of you for your opinions and contributions. Originally Posted by Metal Smith
And of course there are a couple of week minded ones that have lost their ability to post that see fit to recreate themselves over and over.Did you mean "weak-minded" individuals, or were you referring to people whose point of view changes with every day of the week?
Originally Posted by Whispers
Oh, you mean back on the topic of "What has become of all you people that used to complain so vehemently about Whispers and the "Attack Pack"? This section is more fucked up these last 6 months than it EVER was when you laid the problems on me!"? Sorry, I must have lost my focus. Maybe I'm "week-minded". Originally Posted by ozmosysWe are all week-minded compared to Whiskers.