To CIM or not to CIM ... lol

TexasDave555's Avatar
BBBJNQNS is the equivalent of BBFS. Why no one seems to comprehend this is beyond me.

BBBJCIM is still high risk exposure, especially if u have any tissue integrity issues like a recent burn from hot pizza or cut gums from dental floss, but their bodily fluid isn't entering and remaining in your body so ur not at risk as much.

BBBJ is still risky but on the very low end. Biggest worries with bbbj are oral std strains of herpes, gonorrhea, and chlamydia.
Originally Posted by thathottnurse
They would disagree with you....


http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/oralsex.htm

The risk of HIV transmission from an infected partner through oral sex is much less than the risk of HIV transmission from anal or vaginal sex.
I would say your breakdown of the individual conditions would also be more a matter of opinion..... than actual fact.

Measuring the exact risk of HIV transmission as a result of oral sex is very difficult. Additionally, because most sexually active individuals practice oral sex in addition to other forms of sex, such as vaginal and/or anal sex, when transmission occurs, it is difficult to determine whether or not it occurred as a result of oral sex or other more risky sexual activities.
All that said... BBBJ, CIM etc are not safe sex. Risks are low compared to BBFS period however. To make a statement that they are the same is just inaccurate.

Risks of individual STD's varies bases on the STD in question. The risks of HIV are low compared to the others STD's. However they do go up if one has open mouth sores. Even a CBJ with open cut or wound on your hand and having cum get on it CAN produce an infection.

Everyone needs to determine their acceptable risk factors... otherwise you wear gloves, face masks and use latex oral barriers. But throwing out false or misleading information does more harm than good.

I've said this many times before..... if you are not willing to accept some risk in this hobby you are engaging in the wrong activity. If you think that doing CFS/CBJ only is going to protect you, you are kidding yourself. After all, condom protection rates for pregnancy prevention are not even 100%. Let's keep to the facts the facts and our personal preferences separated.

Engage in the activities you feel safe and secure with and respect others choices of their own risk tolerance levels and everything will be just fine.
threepeckeredbillygoat's Avatar
Only see ladies who offer CIM. Hobby and real life. if providers don't offer it I don't call them, if girlfriends don't do it I kick them to the curb.

As much as I enjoy FS I can not pop with a cover. And if I have to stop in the middle of a blowjob and jack off to finish, I'm just going to save 2 or 3 bills and jack off at home for free or find a lady that will.

Without a doubt a deal breaker for me.
CIM is another menu option, can't see how it would be a turn off.
I love cim w swallow, but not a deal breaker. I have had great cbj sessions as well. It usually come down to attitude for me when assessing how a date went.
IMAPACKIN's Avatar
A good face fuck followed by watching my dick empty into her mouth is such a turn on, I don't care if she spits or swallows.
Anybody getting any pm's from this? Providers - please send me a pm if interested. My ATF at NQNS moved out of state. I'm seeing this touring provider next week, but would love to find a new regular in DFW.

https://www.preferred411.com/P18937

Long live San Juan Capistrano!
icansmile's Avatar
"Give it to me I earned it" may have been the most perfect sentence that I ever heard moaned. I am mlre of a massage girl, L2 guy, and I have never repeat visited after CBJ. CIM is a huge bonus, but most of the ladies are skillful enought to make me think they swallowed everything that I deposited. Facials aren't bad either, it is just that at my age I kind of have to sling it to get any velocity, and my aim isnt't what it used to be.
VIP Mya Michelle's Avatar
@thathotnurse well if it werent for the guy posting the stats and stuff i would have figured the same thing, i mean if a guy is infected with something like syphylis and you swallow his cum i am pretty sure youre swallowing the infection...

Also OP i think that this is just a Dallas thing... because there are so many girls in dallas and so much competition the menu's are wide open to try to stay better than the next. If you are not doing business in Dallas constantly i would not consider it a big deal, as i have heard in other cities where the girls are not as plentiful, the menu's are also a bit less open.

I find it funny that so many guys are protesting that they will repeat with girl if she CIM and especially NQNS and swallows it all up... I don't believe it (reminds me of a poll taken in high school of wether or not all girls should fuck on the first date lol)... probably 70% of girls do offer CIM on this board, so i wouldnt let these guys make me think that if i put CIMNQNS and swallow they are gonna be scheduling "next week and the week after that and the week after that, that is after they wait in the line forming at your door"... lol... I mean its not like only a small percent of girls do CIM, alot of girls do it, so there really is nothing so special about it if you ask me. I would suggest trying posting the same question in other sectors and see the responses you get.

Its clear that when you visit Dallas, bbbjnqnscimswallow will have you at the TOP of the review boards!
Yep it's good for most!!! id rather cum in vag any day tho. Not sure how well cim and dfk in every review would go over but knowin most dudes ....they prly dgaf
You cant possibly be mad at the girl for spitting it out hun... mens cum no matter how much you want to it taste like fruity pebbles... it doesnt. And on top of that even if it did, the poor girl may not have a problem with catching your cum at all, but swallowing is another story... maybe she is thinking about all the live little tadpoles swimming in her mouth and is afraid they will hatch in her belly... Originally Posted by Mya Michelle
Mya,

You don't get it. I didn't say I was asking her to do it. But after seeing her reaction when I do, I would prefer she did not ask me to finish that way. It is my least favorite way to finish with her because of her reactions. I know she's not the only one that does that. What I'm saying is that if you do CIM (the lady's choice), don't spoil it with your next move (again lady's choice). Just choose a different finish. COF, COT, COB, COA ... whatever, wherever.
Oh My how I love CIMNQBS and/or CIMNQNS. That being said, it is all about the session as a whole. If we have had an absolute hour or more of mind blowing sex and she preferrs to blow it on her face or body, I really dont care. Like others have said, it is a menu item that tells me that the particular provider I am looking into may actually enjoy pleasing as much as myself, and that is always good, no matter where it blows.
I once had a gal that finished it in her mouth, spit it all back over it and then sucked it all back up and swallowed, what a good girl she was, it brings a tear of joy to my eye just recalling that magic encounter,
Randall Creed's Avatar
One of the keys to getting away with BBBJ and CIM is hydrogen peroxide. A 1 part mix with 1 part water (50/50 mix, that is) after each encounter should do the trick. Once the act is done and you go to the bathroom to clean up, just gargle with the mix and it should take care of any potential germs. Maybe follow it up with a minty mouthwash to get a flavorful rinse. No need to run to the bathroom, btw. Germs aren't fast acting. They have to incubate before they can do damage. Unless you have a very softly bristled brush, I'd be hesitant to be brushing repeatedly in between appointments. The risk is low, but a brush COULD create an abrasion.

As far as CIM goes, I've had it on a few occasions (I can probably count on one hand). Usually once I've found my stroke during FS I continue until I fill up the cover. It's just too hard to pull out once that shit starts REALLY feeling good. CIM's are great when the do come, though, and if I know well ahead in time enough that I'm going to see a provider who does such, I try to make sure I've guzzled down some pineapple juice recently.
Bobster36's Avatar

... probably 70% of girls do offer CIM on this board.... Originally Posted by Mya Michelle
I don't know if you're talking about a parallel dimension but that 70% figure you just pulled out of your ear is fiction. Trust me I've seen way more providers than you have. In fact, we all have. And I'm damn sure we've read far more ROS' than you have.

If you're not comfortable with something, don't do it. The free market will sort out the winners and losers. But if you're not as busy as you want to be, that means your consulting fee is too high for the services provided. But please don't bash anyone else for seeking or providing services that you do not.
thiswrench's Avatar
Hi Kori....i am another vote for cim. nqns is preferred....and hot as hell!!! A 69 session going strong...and finishing "strong" by both...is perfect!!!!!
It's pretty big on my list. If the Provider lets me CIM AND, when I'm done, let's it run out of her mouth and down my cock, then she's got a CFL (Customer for Life) as far as I'm concerned.