Don't believe the hype....do you stereotype?

Frankie Fine's Avatar
Ok then tell! ...... Err please. I am sharp as a bowling ball at times and prefer to try not make an ass of u and me ..hehe
in frankies case i thooroughly enjoy inspecting her body... every magnificent inch of it... over and over and over again... if i could inspect it every day that would be a good thing..
I have experienced the examination before ...lol. I found it kind of degrading and I just thought "oh well eff it I am being purchased". I had to imagine I was in a twisted porn film in order to try and put myself back in the mood after I passed inspection hehe.

I understand why stereo types exist. I wish some gents could understand what a mood killer it is when they come into an incall do a white glove dust check of the room, check under the bed, inside closets, behind shower curtains. All the while leaving the sp just waiting patiently to see if everything is going to be good enough to proceed. Now add a body once over on top of the list. I can not explain what a piece of sh@t that makes a women feel like, and then you are supposed to want to s@ck d!ck enthusiastically ??! lol

And the moral of the story is I guess the good sps can do it. Originally Posted by Frankie Fine
offshoredrilling's Avatar
I rather screen each other in person. Someone a guy or gal think they want to meet here, may turn to a yes to hell no and any where in between in person.
Frankie Fine's Avatar
That makes sense!
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When I go through those I hate people phases I find that doing volunteer work helps snap me back in place. Seeing, or working, with the less fortunate is a reality check. To date, every time I have volunteered I have received more than what I gave. Originally Posted by pyramider

You taint too bad
AlbanyBlonde's Avatar
When I first started, I thought I was going to be paid big 💰for going out to 🍝🍷. Lol jk 😆
Lexxxy's Avatar
Oh God I know what you mea! I HATE the full body inspection! I think it is creepy and it totally turns me off. Explore sensually, don't be like "strip and spread" my answer is "Hell No!"
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Once again, it comes down to respect. I for one, never do the "inspection" thing. I do my homework before hand. With al lthe information that is out here on the net, your a fool if you dont take full advantage of it before you set up a date.
Now this being said, Everyone's idea of what a good body is, is different. But never have i taken that out on the girl.
To mre, there is one thing that will stop any appointment... Hygiene. If a lady cant have a enough respect to be clean for our appointment, then i have no reason to be respectful back and carry on with the appointment. As far as BP goes, you get what you pay for...
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Oh God I know what you mea! I HATE the full body inspection! I think it is creepy and it totally turns me off. Explore sensually, don't be like "strip and spread" my answer is "Hell No!" Originally Posted by Lexxxy

I like to make sure my hands are cold when I inspect taint. And yes ... I am tainted.
I have experienced the examination before ...lol. I found it kind of degrading and I just thought "oh well eff it I am being purchased". I had to imagine I was in a twisted porn film in order to try and put myself back in the mood after I passed inspection hehe. Originally Posted by Frankie Fine

I understand why stereo types exist. I wish some gents could understand what a mood killer it is when they come into an incall do a white glove dust check of the room, check under the bed, inside closets, behind shower curtains. All the while leaving the sp just waiting patiently to see if everything is going to be good enough to proceed. Now add a body once over on top of the list. I can not explain what a piece of sh@t that makes a women feel like, and then you are supposed to want to s@ck d!ck enthusiastically ??! lol

And the moral of the story is I guess the good sps can do it. Originally Posted by Frankie Fine
Yeah, I guess it would be considered degrading. But the guy was a first timer, so.
I figured I'd just let him examine me; as long as it made him feel more comfortable and eased his nerves. If I argued or refused, that really would have ruined the mood, and possibly made him feel like I had something to hide. I'm not saying it was right for him to examine me, but it was necessary on his end, so I just went with the flow. I actually thought it was kind of funny at the time. I just laughed it off and let him do his thing, and I focused on why were meeting...to have some FUN.
Frankie Fine's Avatar
I understand, and I did the same for the same reason...
1. STEREOTYPE for providers
I open the door and the guy says to me "You're pretty, you don't need to blur your face (in your ads)."

I explain to him that I blur my face for security reasons (don't want friends & family to find out AND once it is on the web - it never goes away). I also explain that my reviews explain my looks.

He tells me that he is on a board where the men say, if she blurs her face - she is hiding something.

2. My STEREOTYPE of hobbyist
Before I started providing, I thought the sessions would be all about me pleasing the guy and I was wrong. Most all men that I met wanted MUTUAL pleasing. I was very happy that I was wrong on this stereotype.
I understand, and I did the same for the same reason... Originally Posted by Frankie Fine
You know Frankie, I think I was more offended by the guy who asked to look at my arms because he thought all providers did prohibited subject vs. the guy who asked to do an exam.

Gypsy, yes mutual pleasure is definitely a perk!!
GP's Avatar
  • GP
  • 01-23-2013, 06:15 PM
ok, full body cavity searches from now on. LOL
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  • Doove
  • 01-23-2013, 07:05 PM
Between "threAD", "collage" (or "colledge") and the whole "taint" thing, this place has the lamest running jokes i've ever seen in my life. Originally Posted by Doove
Please don't talk down to my homies like that Originally Posted by whosdair
If you got a problem with my homie, Originally Posted by whosdair
Speaking of lame running jokes...