

Its not a factor to the right provider with the right intentions love..Memphis is a small town with a reputation for being harsh on woman black and white.....The word has spread from many visiting ladies to AVOID Memphis at all costs in many other forums and other boards.So with out the words and encouragement from reputable trusted ladies Im afriad not much will change.....I shake my head as well just in a different up and down directionOriginally Posted by chrissy
Hello fellow board members, i've been a member of this board for a little while now. I've prided myself on conducting myself in an above board manner both on the boards, and in private conversations and activities. But the crap, and yes, I call it crap, that i've had to experience for the past years is taking a toll on me. I don't ever address race or preference, because everyone has a right to do business with whomever they choose to. But it has gotten so bad for me, that i've just about stopped trying to hobby at this level. My luck has been 3 out of 4 providers that visit this city, won't give me the time of day. It doesn't seem to matter that on p411 I have plus 30 ok's, and I believe that anyone that HAS actually met me, would vouch for me. I even let my p411 acct expire because again, what's the point. I am grateful to the providers that have actually judged me on my own merits, and to those that I have contacted, but then found out that they do indeed have the NO BLACK MEN policy, well at least those that would dignify me with a response, and believe me, there are plenty that look at my profile, and won't even respond, I wish you success too. I'm not trying to start another thread about NBA and no NBA policies, I just had to get this off my chest. Again, I hope that everyone plays safe, and that this year will be a better year than the last. BBT in Memphis. Originally Posted by big boi terryI definitely share in your frustration BBT. I'm somewhat selective about who I see, but that's very difficult to do in Clarksville/Nashville. It really doesn't help however, when most of the more interesting providers have a "no blacks" policy. I could say a lot more on the subject, but it's not like my ranting is going to change how society works.
***Staff edit - We do not tolerate drug references and racial slurs. Stick Originally Posted by jak12319You apparently missed the satirical humor in my post.. ***Staff Edit- racial slurs I'm Cuban, to be clear, and like I said, no one should be judged based on their ethnicity. I won't see the trash from any race or culture. Pretending like there aren't people out there that fit the stereotypes is ridiculous, they exist because there is truth behind them. I've seen him, and can say with 100% certainty that he doesn't fall into any of those categories; it's kind of the point. I have no hairs on my tongue, act like a ***Staff Edit- racial slurs or redneck, you'll be treated as such.