A Newbie wants to know...

Everyone pretty much told you already, but P411 is the best thing that has ever happened to this hobby. You also need to look around a little more. There are a gillion providers who will see a newbie, and look for a well reviewed woman who will respond to the next providers questions about you. Be super clean, respectful, act right, treat her like a queen, and BAM, you are in. After that, write some damn reviews, its not hard. If you have read some like you say, you know what is good and which ones just flat suck, hell, its fun, helps to relive the experience again. Have a blast, move your scale up a bit, look for a higher class of provider than the one you are referring to.

Start with newbies friendly ladies that don't need personal info ( sorry kitty but this dog bites). Originally Posted by natasteewsym

Down Boy!

If you refer to my original post I discussed an alternate screening. If you don't wanna give up the personal info we can do a public meetup.

Here is a recap:

If you are not comfortable giving this information out, I totally get it! I don't give YOU my personal info either! Solution? Meet in public. Somewhere that someone can see us together so that if I end up dead in a dumpster somewhere, my mother won't find a way to bring me back to life and kill me again for not being more careful. Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

Aside from the fear of being turned into a zombie by my mother, I just want to make sure you're not a murderer, rapist, sadist, evangelical christian, etc.

Rocker Rick even vouched for my alternate screening as it was how I saw him... Alternate screening is totally cool.

Hopefully this clears things up for you and sorry for the confusion!

Happy Hobbying!

Aside from the fear of being turned into a zombie by my mother, I just want to make sure you're not a murderer, rapist, sadist, evangelical christian, etc.

Rocker Rick even vouched for my alternate screening as it was how I saw him... Alternate screening is totally cool. Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

And yet I slipped by , Muahahahahahahahaaaa !

I wouldn't say you slipped by easily... It took a considerable amount of lube...

LOL!!! JK

murderer,rapist, sadist,evangelical christian ?
shit!! ill never get by this alternative screening

@Trivia53 - THX for starting this thread - now I feel completely vindicated, as I have been making all this up as I go along and darn, I got it mostly right. Not that I ever doubted my Common Sense, lol

And as you look for newbie friendly stick with the ones who respond to all your questions fast (well within a reasonable time). THX Annef for pointing that out !!!

@Spacemtn - you seem to be in a good mood today, found a couple to be BANNED?

@natasteewsym - wow, didn't know about the 6 months free p411, THX my friend :-)

@Kitty - you are easy, we all know, yet love to give you a hard time about it

@F2C - shut up already.

Down Boy!

If you refer to my original post I discussed an alternate screening. If you don't wanna give up the personal info we can do a public meetup.

Here is a recap:



Aside from the fear of being turned into a zombie by my mother, I just want to make sure you're not a murderer, rapist, sadist, evangelical christian, etc.

Rocker Rick even vouched for my alternate screening as it was how I saw him... Alternate screening is totally cool.

Hopefully this clears things up for you and sorry for the confusion!

Happy Hobbying! Originally Posted by Kitty D'Luxe

Meow, down kitten down.... Really go down, ya baby right there. Mmmmmmmm, good kitty

I love you kitty, so I have to reiterate, meeting someone in a public place as a sole means of screening is not a great idea. You're gonna get burned that way. It tells you nothing, not whether they are gonna make a nice overcoat from your skin or whether they are le or not. I mean, Ted bundy was a charming motherfucker and a law student. Getting personal info won't help with that, but it can make you reasonably sure they are not a cop. One hurdle crossed. Every lady takes a chance in seeing a new guy. Of all the bitching/ conversing about screening practices, have yet to hear a thank you for the risk taken by these ladies. To the gentlemen I did it for, uhhh, your welcome.

I was just reading a thread in the powder room about a woman who was on one of those sugar daddy sites. They met at Starbucks and she agreed to do certain things for a certain amount a month. According to the thread, she was arrested right there in Starbucks. I dunno. So, yeah, that is a worst case scenario. But, this is high risk behavior. Just takes one bad choice to totally fuck up your life abd your chances of ever doing anything else. And, this life can be great as long as its a choice. As the kids say, IJS.

I love you kitty, so I have to reiterate, meeting someone in a public place as a sole means of screening is not a great idea. You're gonna get burned that way. It tells you nothing, not whether they are gonna make a nice overcoat from your skin or whether they are le or not. I mean, Ted bundy was a charming motherfucker and a law student. Getting personal info won't help with that, but it can make you reasonably sure they are not a cop. One hurdle crossed. Every lady takes a chance in seeing a new guy. Of all the bitching/ conversing about screening practices, have yet to hear a thank you for the risk taken by these ladies. To the gentlemen I did it for, uhhh, your welcome. Originally Posted by Annef

Anne-

My original post says the reason I like to meet in public is so that someone sees me with whoever I am with. There's a record of me being at a place with a person should anything happen to me. I watch a lot of Law and Order, I leave hints.

Now, I realize that the concern with LE is a big deal. That being said, if APD or whoever wants to go through the amount of trouble to take ME down... well shit. I sure will feel special. I imagine the cost for the surveillance equipment, manpower, number of hours spent emailing back and forth between the time the shit is scheduled and the actual appt, number of hours spent analyzing the information... to take down a girl who can count on one hand how many people she saw last week? I don't really know anyone important or high up, I don't use drugs, I don't participate in sex trafficing...

What a boring ass bust. I doubt it would even make the paper! Lol

And if someone is stupid enough to talk shop... I guess getting busted is just what happens! I'm not meeting the guys to discuss rates or what activities we are going to partake in! We're just hanging out talking about beer, music, ladies, anything but rates and activities.

PS: They too are taking a risk Anne, dudes (newbies or not) get burned on BP ***CONSTANTLY*** Considering they are paying US...

I don't expect it but most of the time my newbies are very appreciative as am I!

We all need some love and a Thank You goes a long way with the next reference you'll need.
Just be smart about it.

I was just reading a thread in the powder room about a woman who was on one of those sugar daddy sites. They met at Starbucks and she agreed to do certain things for a certain amount a month. According to the thread, she was arrested right there in Starbucks. I dunno. So, yeah, that is a worst case scenario. But, this is high risk behavior. Just takes one bad choice to totally fuck up your life abd your chances of ever doing anything else. And, this life can be great as long as its a choice. As the kids say, IJS. Originally Posted by Annef

Anne , not wanting to argue with you , but I'll make a couple of points . Kitty's method of meeting someone in public is actually pretty good way to judge someone , like the ladies that will ask a question on the phone , the way you answer tells you quite a bit about one if you're paying attention , how freely and natural does the answer flow out . As far as LE , they don't have the resources to sting every lady one at a time , salary , surveillance , etc ..... it's just not going to happen . That's why their preferred target is BP where they can set stuff up to catch multiple people . P411 is good for the okays , however I'm on P411 and I guarantee that you know nothing about me , nothing has been verified , NOTHING ! And as far as predators , you simply are not safe from them , whether hobby or RW ! That is why I appreciate what you ladies do , you really put yourselves out there . Not to mention dealing with the fat , stupid , smelly , and the ugly !

,,, That is why I appreciate what you ladies do , you really put yourselves out there . Not to mention dealing with the fat , stupid , smelly , and the ugly ! Originally Posted by rockerrick

Hey quit talking about me, and for the record, I am NOT smelly, I smell good !!!

All you ladies deserve a lot of respect !!!

I am glad the ladies screen. Screening combined with my unwillingness to divulge any personal information whatsoever has kept me off the field and watching the game from the sidelines, where I can enjoy all the action safely and vicariously.