All I Was Trying 2 Get Across Was The Value Of Having A Backup Provider

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The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before. Life is too short to see the bad in every thing.......ijs
Oh yea about those predatory practices, I was just basically talking about providers wo might try 2 rob guys, rush your service or just flat out offer dull service Originally Posted by warrior13
OK. Well, thanks for the advice (have a backup).

One thing you might want to keep in mind is that there can be multiple explanations for human behavior. You tend to narrow it down to about one or two. That can be enough for some things, but not all things.
It is a historical fact that in tough economic times, women will go into this line of work to keep hearth and home together. However, you are describing the dreaded plan B scenario. No one, man or woman, wants to be thought of as a plan B option. Its not acceptable in this fantasy life or real life. In your first post, you came off as a white knight for hobbyists everywhere, in search of truth, justice, and honest ho's. Much like anything one does in life, whether its to find a relationship, a good provider, or meeting a life goal, you get out of it what you put into it.
No sarcasm, just an honest interpretation of what I read. Originally Posted by Nicolet
I'm sorry, but I have to be up-front about this...

Until Alexandra Swe Wagner becomes available (to me), all providers are, at best, Plan B. I want to companion her brains out -- then snuggle.

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I'm just saying that just like in real life when u find a good girlfriend, it would be wise in some instances to have a backup girl Originally Posted by warrior13
Any man over the age of 25 who thinks that is a fact, needs a shotgun blast to the head.

You warrior, are a victim of your own thoughts. It must be challenging to live inside that mind of yours everyday. You are your own worst enemy and the reason you will never be whole or satisfied. In your current mental state, you will always be searching for something that you never find. You are a true self fulfilling prophecy.
Sounds kinda like a Stalker who won't let it go. Originally Posted by shorty
Sounds like a guy I told to leave me alone and I gave him the reason. Then he comes back with, " I don't know what you are talking about and I was just trying to say thank you."

This is a pay for play world. Just because you and the lady hit it off is no reason to think the lady is obligated to be loyal to you. I get along with all of my clients too but they understand that when the show is over they go back to their lives.
I have a feeling you are wanting a girlfriend type situation from a provider? If you have seen them but then continue to call, text and e-mail like they were your girlfriend but are not paying to see them, you are crossing the line.

You can't expect someone to stay in constant contact with you outside of your sessions. If you pay for 30 minutes, you get 30 minutes. Maybe some random texts etc but certainly not the same level of contact you would have with an actual girlfriend.

Then, if you want a "back up"? What does that mean? Someone who will constantly text and communicate back and forth without ever getting paid for a 30 min or hour session?

I think you are your own issue. both with the providers and the "real" girlfriends.
I have a feeling you are wanting a girlfriend type situation from a provider? If you have seen them but then continue to call, text and e-mail like they were your girlfriend but are not paying to see them, you are crossing the line.

You can't expect someone to stay in constant contact with you outside of your sessions. If you pay for 30 minutes, you get 30 minutes. Maybe some random texts etc but certainly not the same level of contact you would have with an actual girlfriend.

Then, if you want a "back up"? What does that mean? Someone who will constantly text and communicate back and forth without ever getting paid for a 30 min or hour session?

I think you are your own issue. both with the providers and the "real" girlfriends. Originally Posted by SinOrSwim
I never give an escort the impression that I am overly obsessed with her. Now I will say that I do like GFE. I like the fantasy experience of being with a girlfriend when I'm with an escort but I wouldn't do something strange like send her a bunch of text messages when we are not about to have a session. I like the GFE a lot because it helps keep me in tune with women's minds so that I can stay prepared for the day that I qualify to have a relationship with a girl,
by the way I'm posting with an android so ignore the words at the bottom because they were too hard to click on and delete for some reason

Ok, let me clear up yo misconception. I know not to go too far by sending too manytextmessages and calling them outside of our escort/client business. I never display any action to make it seem like I'm too obsessed with a provider. Now I will say that I do like
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Calgon take me away......
How about this:

The next time a provider brushes off a client, move on. Don't ever contact her again. If in a few weeks she 'gets horny' and 'misses you' just reply with YEAH LIFE SUCKS

You are paying her bills - if she doesn't value that - she's not worth your time in the first place. Let her get evicted, NOT YOUR PROBLEM.

The next time a 'civie' doesn't appreciate you taking her out, move on. Not worth your time. I don't care if you bought her a hamburger, if she's not grateful - she doesn't deserve you anyway.

Let her end up with a man that she supports, NOT YOUR PROBLEM.
warrior13, don't let anyone tell you you need to change. You're doing things right. Seeing a GFE escort to prepare you for a real relationship.

Just think of her telling you she doesn't want to see you any more as more preparation. You know, for your real relationship.

I like the way you think.
warrior13, don't let anyone tell you you need to change. You're doing things right. Seeing a GFE escort to prepare you for a real relationship.

Just think of her telling you she doesn't want to see you any more as more preparation. You know, for your real relationship.

I like the way you think. Originally Posted by proudoftexas
Yea keep posting with yo 6th grade insults, obviously u can't expand ya mind. Just remember to pay yo child support 2 that woman u thought was a "free" girl
Lol. Just keep it coming. That's all I ask. You're high entertainment for me.
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Those kind of girls will look at me as a guy who is trying to do something good in my life Originally Posted by warrior13

Of course, you're trying to spread peace throughout the escort world. Most girls will find that quite attractive!